Holding a wedding evening without a toastmaster. Scenario for a small wedding: entertainment program

1. Meeting of the newlyweds.
The guests line up on both sides, holding ribbons. At the end of the corridor, the parents are holding a cow and icons.
The presenter asks if the guests are ready to meet the newlyweds. If they answer inactively, it is worth scaring them that they will send the newlyweds for another walk. Repeat the question.
The young people get out of the car, the guests raise the ribbons - the young people pass under the ribbons and are sprinkled with flower petals.

Toastmaster.
Dear newlyweds! By tradition, you are greeted here by your dearest people are parents! In mom's hands wedding loaf as a symbol of prosperity and prosperity. Young people, break off a piece of bread and salt it properly! You have the opportunity last time annoy each other. Yes, add more salt... Now exchange pieces of bread. Look at each other with tenderness and feed each other! ...

Well, we found out who will be the breadwinner in the family
Now take this wine, it is a symbol of the sweetness of your family relationships and drink to the last drop for your family.

Let them be like glasses together
Never inseparable
Bride and groom for life
There will be many years! (drink up)

And now the way for the couple!
Let only happiness await you in life!
Come on in, hurry up
The wedding feast calls everyone!

The newlyweds enter the hall, followed by witnesses, parents and other guests.
They are getting young in the hall.

Toastmaster.
Music sounds festive today!
We congratulate Ira and Kostya,
May it always remain in their memory
the joy of first meeting and love!
Dear guests, congratulate the newlyweds.

(Parents tie the young ones with a towel and lead them to the table)

Knit tighter so that the young go through family life amicably, happily to the delight of their parents and friends!

(The young people stop at the fork in three roads)

And now you are on the road. Your further goal is clear. There are a lot of roads in the world, But among them, one is important. Go wherever you want, find out your destiny!
If you go to the right, you will find wealth!
If you go to the left, you will find happy friends!
If you go straight, you will find your happiness!
(The groom collects all three paths together so that the house has everything: friends, wealth, and, of course, family happiness)
Now we’ll see how you will walk along this path? Hand in hand or foot in foot?
But to walk along this road as one whole.

(The groom carries the bride in his arms)
(Guests are seated at tables)

First table.

Dear friends! Today we were brought to this beautiful hall by a joyful event that will take place before our eyes.
Dear newlyweds! You are entering into marriage, into a family union of love and friendship. The desired hour has come, and you have become family. You sealed your love, respect and affection for each other by marriage. From this day you begin to build your family. This work is creative, and therefore interesting, but also difficult at the same time. And may God grant you to cope with all difficulties with dignity and always be happy!
So that you can measure your path with love,
And see the joy of all life,
Know how to live, love and believe
Each other from the very first days.

Well, guests, stood up together,
They raised their glasses cheerfully.
Let's wish them great happiness,
And we will say three times together:
“Congratulations!”

(Guests standing and chanting)

It's time for everyone to have a drink -
Friendly for newlyweds:
(guests pick up)- Hooray!

So that they have complete happiness,
Drain the glasses to the bottom!

Look what's happening!
Everyone has drunk and is silent,
But the wine is bitter,
It's just awkward to shout
But in fact it is BITTER!!!
(Pause 3-4 min.)

Lighting the hearth.
Dear guests!
– All peoples, at all times, have had a special relationship with fire. Fire is a symbol of life, fire is a symbol of the hearth, home. Guardian family hearth is a woman and his symbol is a candle.. I will ask those who gave life to these wonderful guys, their mothers, to light two candles as a symbol of a long life life together and pass on to the young the flame of family hearths of two related families.

At a noisy wedding table
Like a beacon of friendship and kindness
The two of you will light it up now
Star of hope and dreams.
Dear Parents pass the candles to the newlyweds and say parting words to the young family. (parents say) And you young people light up your family hearth.

So let this bright light
You will have the light in life until the end,
So that endlessly, for many years
Two rings intertwined...
Dear bride and groom! We sincerely congratulate you on joining legal marriage. Today, on your wedding day, the Sun gave you a piece of itself, and this piece is the family hearth. The sun is the source of life on earth, the family hearth is the source of life for the family. Keep this precious gift for the rest of your life. No matter how cold the wind blows, the flame of the hearth should burn, giving light and warmth to your family. I raise my glass to the unquenchable light and warmth of your family hearth!

A toast to the grandmothers.
– Dear newlyweds, dear guests! Parental blessing on the wedding day - the key to future harmony and happiness in family life. But an even rarer and happier blessing is the blessing of grandparents. In the East they say: “The crown of an old man is the children of his children,” but we will go even further and say the following: “The old man himself is the crown for the children of his children.”
So let it be long years this crown adorns, protects and protects our newlyweds. I propose to raise a glass to the health and longevity of the newlyweds' grandmothers!
And now, dear guests, let's drink so that the young, when they get to their feet, do not forget about the hands of those who raised them

Dear guests, and now I ask your attention at this table there are those who, having taken honorable care,
From now on I must for many years in a row
To follow with desire, with joy, with eagerness,
So that there is peace and harmony in the sponsored family,
So that the wards walk together
Dear bright, joyful, big
Before their wedding, silver in the beginning,
Well, and then - golden before the wedding!
Our guests, as you noticed,
Our young witnesses are here!
And words of congratulation are provided to the witnesses.

(witness, toast to women)
The first marriage took place many years ago in Paradise. The roses bowed their flowers in a friendly and affectionate manner before the first couple, the jasmine sent them its fragrance, the lilac blossomed at their approach, and the nightingale delighted their ears with its sonorous trill. There is no doubt that women are the good geniuses of the perishable world, who can married life make heaven.
Therefore, I propose to raise a glass to all the women present here for many years!

They drank to the young people.
They drank to their parents
To become closer and dearer to us, let's drink to the guests.

Dear groom, dear bride! I want to raise this wine glass for everyone gathered in this room. For all the guests who came to share your joy with you, who from the heart said and will still tell you so many kind and good words. May the doors of your home always be hospitably open to people who love and respect you.
For dear guests!

Dating game.

Today everyone will sing more than ____.
____ will dance the most.
Everyone will shout “Bitterly!” the loudest. ____.
Today ____ will give ____one hundred hryvnia.
____ will happily give ____ his TV.
Now ____ will lend money to everyone. No recoil.
The most beautiful today is ____.
The most shy person today is ____.
After the wedding, ____ will leave on foot.
____ will leave by car.
____ invites everyone to his place tomorrow.
____ will arrive tomorrow with a box of beer.
Dried fish undertakes to bring ____.
And ____ and ____ will be cooking fish soup from 5 am.
____ drinks to everyone's health.
I have already drunk ____ seven times for the health of the newlyweds and everyone.

Well, the guests who didn’t know each other got acquainted and now let’s each man get up and say in one word what kind of bride we have and for the most best compliment he will receive a prize.
(prize - bride's smile)
Let's drink to our bride.
“Let's pour it into crystal glasses
Boiling moisture magic,
Let's celebrate the feminine principle
And his eternal secret!
Let's praise our young one!

And now ours dear women they will tell you what kind of groom we have.

I'm in the shape of an exact verse
I will warmly praise the groom,
And let my solemn verse -
The groom deserves it.
Come on, ....., without embarrassment
We'll have a drink with you, here's your hand,
To surprise everyone
Your love was strong.
So that you and your wife live together,
He was always friends with his wife's relatives.
And without worries and without worries
My wallet was always full.
And now let's shout to them BITTERLY
Bitterly! Bitter for the young!
Kiss newlyweds
Let those kisses be countless,
Otherwise, the poor invitees
It’s bitter to drink and bitter to eat!

And now a waltz for the newlyweds...Wedding Waltz! How hard it is to forget you! Years will pass and much will be forgotten. But this simple motif will forever remind you of the happiest day of your life - your wedding day.
Dear guests, let's stand in a circle
Oh, how the bride looks in love,
Oh, how excited the proud groom is.
The first waltz is for you young people,
First dance for you two.

The young people go out in a circle and dance.

First dance department.
Waltz for the young.

Dances 1-2.
A shoe was stolen. The mafia asks for a ransom for the shoe.

Competitions for witnesses.

1. The witness and witness must dance with the ball. Raise it to your head without using your hands, kiss it and lower it back.
2. Hands-free. A bottle of vodka is clamped between the witness's legs. A glass is held by the seated witness. The witness must unscrew the bottle with her mouth, the witness must pour her a glass and then drink it.
3. Untie bows on each other while blindfolded.
4. The witness must kiss the toy in 15 places. Then kiss the witness there.
5. The witness dances a striptease.

Dance game "Dancing Hearts" (guests are given hearts with men's and female names famous couples, such as Odysseus and Penelope. Couples look for each other, and then dance to a medley: sirtaki, gypsy, tango, seven-forty, rock and roll). The winners are awarded the Order of Dancing Hearts.

The dance department continues.

Second table.

So family and friends!
A family is born!
Let's all stop dancing,
And again, congratulations to the young people!

While we were relaxing and dancing, important documents came to us.
Transfer acts. I'm reading.
I ask you to seal the acceptance of these documents with the seal of joined lips.
Today you can't be sad and gloomy
Today should be light and easy!
And if our _________ married __________
So he was the luckiest of all!
Let's drink to these documents.

On this joyful day
They called you wife and husband
Not for a day, not for a year, but for a lifetime.

Dear newlyweds! In life you will have to perform many responsibilities to manage household, and may fate now distribute these responsibilities among you, help us magic balls. (They take out 10 balls, 2 pins.)
The bride and groom take turns choosing and popping balloons, and reading out the responsibilities that fall to them.
Groom: “My only one! For the sake of your smile, I am ready...”
Bride: “I love you so much that I agree...”

“Making money - I can do that”

“Cook cabbage soup, or maybe borscht-
I’m not averse to doing this.”

“Do sports in the morning-
This suits me, brothers."

“Play in the casino until night-
I love this work very much."

"Go shopping
I will, so be it"

“I will wash and wash,
And clean the apartment"

“Mushrooms, fishing and hunting-
This, friends, is my job."

“I will bake pies
Only on holidays"

“There is no more beautiful work -
Making compotes for the winter"

"I will take the children
To the circus, to the cinema, to the theater, to the museum"

“I’m speaking in front of everyone, friends,
I will take care of the children."

“Digging a garden at the dacha
I will, but how else?”

"Serve coffee in the morning
I'll be in your bed"

“To shower yourself in the bathhouse later -
This is wonderful work."

“Eating the harvest in the garden
I’ll be there, everything’s fine here.”

"Make your bed in the morning
I’m not lazy even every day.”

"Throw the trash out of the house -
This matter is familiar to me"

"Giving gifts and flowers
You will be in our house"

“Fix the bell or the door,
I can do it, believe me"

“Nail the shelf to the wall,
I can do this completely"

“Go on vacation at the seaside
I’ll be there, no need to argue.”

“Dress only according to fashion -
I can do this, it seems.

“Repairing a car in the garage—
I will, of course"

"Travel around the world-
I’ll be there, how sweet.”

"Renovate the apartment -
I will be wonderfully different"

So family responsibilities have been distributed, although I think that you will help each other in difficult family work.

As Honore de Balzac said: “Love tolerates domestic squabbles so poorly that for lasting happiness you need to find outstanding qualities in each other.” So let’s drink to our newlyweds finding as many of these qualities in each other as possible!

LOAF.
Our dear newlyweds! Congratulations! You are starting a family. May there always be peace and bread in her. Peace - because only in peace and harmony can one find the right answers to all questions and get out of any situation, even a dead end. Bread - because it is the head of everything. He will give you and your children strength and help you overcome all the trials that will befall you. Bread is the source and basis of life, a symbol of well-being and prosperity!
Dear young people, family, friends! Let's cut the wedding loaf now!

(cut the loaf)
The first piece is given to the young people.

Two hearts merged together
And two hands intertwined into one.
Let the union be indestructible
For the rest of my life.
What could be more beautiful in life -
Her hand is in his hand
Let the fire of love never go out
In your family hearth

Now let's start the show
Presentation of wedding gifts,
Dear guests, congratulations,
Friends and elders' guidance.
From under the green oak,
Where the periwinkle curls from the young and the young loaf is sent.

(loaf is awarded clockwise)
After the loaf.
A Swiss bank opened its branch
It is reliable and beautiful in my hands.
The Swiss bank sent us this safe,
So that young people can live happily.
We all opened an account for our spouses,
We give them ownership,

Well, our young family is growing up by the minute and I think they are ripe for making a joint decision. They made one as a bride and groom, and this decision was our wedding, but the second (two packages)

Well, this is the choice of our newlyweds, and now let’s all tell our fortunes - let’s play. Dear guests, I ask you to chip in for the rompers and at the same time find out who the young ones will start with, their son or daughter.

(witnesses with sliders go around the guests)
The husband certainly wants a son,
Tomboy boy
So that a man grows up in the house
By force of the article, all in the father.

And, of course, he dreams
My wife will raise my daughter,
Let him help around the house,
She will be affectionate and smart!
(witnesses count money)
There is already a basis -
So that the firstborn grows up healthy -
These deposits will be kept
For my daughter (son) just use it!

Children are flowers of life. It's always wonderful when another flower appears on the earth! And I want to wish our dear gardeners that in your old age you will have a large and beautiful bouquet in front of you!
(Cheerfulness, joy - a boundless sea,
Husband and wife we ​​wish you,
If happiness is the most tender,
First-born, if so, six kilograms!)

It's always fun when a family is born. Today, you young people have many relatives, both on one side and on the other.
But at this solemn moment I would like to address the parents of our young people. It's no secret what parents mean to each of us.
we turn to him in both joy and sorrow. Our pain is their pain, our joy is their joy. And how many gray hairs they had while they raised such beautiful children. They say that small children are small worries, big children are big worries. Dear and wonderful parents! Even now, when your children are entering independent life, your hearts are still beating anxiously. Dear, good, kind parents! I raise a toast to your good deeds, to your tender hearts, for raising such wonderful children. Low bow to you!

And the bride invites her father to a white dance!

Second dance. Department.

And now friends, I will ask you a question. Which family members are the most common heroes of jokes? (son-in-law with mother-in-law).
Well, what about without a mother-in-law? Without a mother-in-law and son-in-law, the feather bed will become skinny and harder.
Mother-in-law is like a bride herself
From the richest dough.
I’ll say it more clearly and easier for the newlywed and his mother-in-law to have luck.
Well, now let’s check how the son-in-law and mother-in-law will be mutual language find.

Contest. Husband cards - 2 pcs. wife - 2 pcs.
1. Who will clean the house.
2. Who will play with the children.
3. Who will bring breakfast in bed.
4. Who will spend the money.
The son-in-law and mother-in-law will get along well. Let them dance until they drop.

Competitions for guests.
Competition “Babies” (competition for the bride and groom and their parents). They need to gather the kids quickly (one of the guests) for a walk. Wear: a hat, a vest, a diaper, give a pacifier and a rattle. A baby who is ready for a walk should rattle the rattle.

Contest. Table game “Where to invest money?”
The host calls two pairs (each pair has a guy and a girl): “Now you will try to open a whole network of banks as quickly as possible, investing only one bill in each. Get your initial deposits! (Gives the couples money-candy wrappers). Pockets, lapels, and all secluded places can serve as banks for your deposits. Try to process your deposits as quickly as possible and open as many banks as possible. Get ready, let's start!”
The facilitator helps the pairs complete the task; after 1 minute, the facilitator sums up the results. Presenter: “How many bills do you have left? And you? Fabulous! All the money is invested in the business! Well done! Now I will ask the women to switch places and withdraw the entire amount from their accounts as quickly as possible. Open banks, withdraw money! Attention, let's start!” (Music plays, women look for money)

Contest. Best dancing couple. The ball is sandwiched between the dancers. Whoever dances to the end wins.

Contest. Pigtail. The bride's team and the groom's team are braiding their hair. Moms are watching.

Table game "Thorny Path".
The presenter invites three married couples. Men stand 3-4 meters from their wives. The presenter opens 3 bottles of vodka or wine and places them in the path of each man. After this, each man is blindfolded, turned around several times, placed facing his wife and asked to walk to her and hug her. When the men are already blindfolded, the presenter quickly removes the bottles and swaps their wives. Spectators are asked to remain silent.

Favorite body part.
On a piece of paper they write down the part of the neighbor’s body that they like. Then they stand in a line and dance without letting go of their favorite part of the body.

Dance game "Keepers of Love". The host invites all married couples to the dance floor. Then, one by one, he asks married couples to leave the site:
– less than one day;
– less than a year;
– less than 3 years;
– less than 5 years;
– less than 10 years, etc.
The couple who have been married the longest is awarded the Order of the Guardians of Love. They congratulate the newlyweds and give them parting words.

Throwing a bouquet, garter
So, friends, the time has come
Arrange for us one idea.
It's time for us to finally find out
Who should you send down the aisle?
Well, now it’s time to say goodbye to the symbols of girlhood. The bride’s bouquet is delicate flowers happiness. I want to invite here all the girls whose ring finger is not yet touched by a wedding ring.
(the bride either throws the bouquet or dances in a circle with the bouquet, and then blindfolded gives it to the girl)

Now it's the bachelors' turn.
Say together: “I’m ready!”
Who will be the next groom?
We'll find out in a moment.
And for us to know this, the groom must remove the garter from the bride, and not just remove it, but without using his hands. (And no one said that the path to family happiness easy.)
The groom throws the garter.

Removing the veil.

Dear _____ and ________!
Now you are together, you are one
And therefore it is necessary
Quietly remove the veil from the bride,
Say goodbye to girlhood.

Dear guests, let us light these candles so that they illuminate the beginning of a joint journey in the lives of our young people.

(the bride sits in the center of the circle, the groom takes off the veil. The song “The Veil is Removed” by Ruslan Mark is played. Guests walk in a circle)

The beautiful bride took off her veil,
And here applause will be appropriate!
Husband kiss his young wife
In a holy moment of unity.

The mother-in-law puts a scarf on the bride.

From the son's hand his mother
I knew little Khustochka,
I applied it to my face.
Before the face of the bride herself,
Shcho bulla sogodgn1 na ruts1 u sina.

And now, bride, go to your mother, bow to her from the waist and give her the veil so that your mother will keep it, as she kept and protected you.

You, my daughter, are going to a stranger’s house. There they will fix their eyes on you with judgment. And you are my fruit, you did not grow beyond the boundaries, And they will appreciate me by you. You merge with them faithful friend, And a devoted husband's wife

Mother (gives the bride bread) and you take your daughter to her husband and give her hand to her husband so that he can take care of her.
The groom brings the bride to his mother
The bride gives the bread to her mother-in-law.
- Like a daughter-in-law my own daughter accept.
Let your son have a faithful wife!
and now we are all one family, let's join hands, friends - one homeland.

Third table.

Happy birthday family
Congratulations!
Happy birthday family ________
Congratulations.

Our dear young husband and wife. Now please do your first job together. Take a knife and immediately cut the first piece for yourself. Now take spoons and feed each other cake. And promise to give from now on and forever each other only sweet moments.
And always remember
Love is not one
magical moment
not a fairy tale or even
love at first sight.
Love is just love."

And now, our young hostess and host, treat your guests to cake. Share the sweet life with them.

Don't separate lips from lips,
And the happiness of fidelity and love
Let it grow stronger over the years.
And may the pain of separation pass you by,
And friendship will not fade between you
Don't separate your clasped hands,
Don't separate lips from lips
We drink to your happiness, fidelity and love!

- Dear friends!

Today _____ and ______ heard a lot from you kind words, heartfelt congratulations, good wishes. But these were individual congratulations and wishes. And I would like to leave a collective congratulation from everyone present as a souvenir for the young people.

I honestly admit that the basis of this general congratulations I've already prepared it. But to bring this matter to completion, I need your help. The main text has already been written, but it is missing 20 adjectives. Well, you know what an adjective is. So, I ask you to name any adjectives that come to your mind. The more unusual they are, the more interesting. And I will write them right in a row here. Let's see what we can do. So, let's start...

Congratulations to Asya and Denis from the most... guests!
Today, on the day of... marriage, you are the most... people on earth, and we are the most... guests of you!
We would like to wish that... smiles bloom in your home,... laughter is heard,... kisses are heard.
For... happiness, it is necessary that the husband has... work, and the wife has... the mood, so that the husband gives his wife... gifts and gives... instructions, and the wife shows... care for her husband.
We wish you to have... relationships with your father-in-law, father-in-law and... relationships with your mother-in-law and mother-in-law.
Let ... news, ... joy always await you when you come home and not ... grief and ... troubles await you.

Seeing off.

And now, dear guests, let’s see off our newlyweds as beautifully as we met. (guests with sparklers stand in the corridor)

OK it's all over Now! There's not much left at all.
The candles on the large table will go out.
And you will step on your path,
Leaving childhood somewhere far away.

It’s not much of a pity that you left the nest,
You will begin to shape your life now.
And that only very, very often,
Mothers will only come to visit you.

And we all wish you a lot of happiness,
Smiles and joy for many years to come.
Let it never go out in your soul,
Love is like a hot tear of fidelity.

Never part with each other
Neither in joy, nor in sorrow, nor in trouble.
As a sign of fidelity, beloved spouses,
Blow out the candles on your table!

An interesting article for future newlyweds. Several scenarios for a wedding.

A wedding is one of the most unforgettable events for a couple. Therefore, I want to celebrate in a fun atmosphere with friends and family. Nowadays, European-style weddings are in fashion, which are held without the participation of a toastmaster. But you shouldn’t think that the celebration will consist only of a modest feast. You can take on the role of leader.

Comical original script for a wedding anniversary

Of course, a wedding anniversary, and especially an anniversary, should be spent in the company of those closest to you. To make the holiday fun, you can arrange various competitions and games.

Approximate scenario for a wedding anniversary

It is not necessary to tie the script to a specific date, but you can mention it. It is advisable to choose two presenters for the celebration. It is best if it is a man and a woman.

Leaders' words:

Greetings, dear guests

Throw away all your sorrows

And get ready to have fun

To enjoy your wedding to the fullest.

Don't forget to fill your glasses

And drink together to the newlyweds.

Questions and Answers Competition

Address to the couple (heroes of the occasion):

Now you have a task

A very responsible test

You go out to the center of the hall together

Choose your answers to the questions well.

For this competition, you need to prepare two bags with questions and answers for the groom in advance. Questions could be something like this:

• Honey, do you want a lot of kids?
• Will you call my parents "Mom" and "Dad"?
• Shall we get a dog?
• Will you buy me a fur coat?

The bride takes out pieces of paper from the first bag, and the groom takes out the answers from the second. The answers should be:

• Only after the silver wedding
• Dream on baby
• If salary allows

Thus, the groom chooses the answers to the questions at random. It turns out very original and fun.

Fun lottery

After this competition, the couple sits down and takes a short break to have a snack and drink. Guests are sure to shout “Bitter”! When the invitees and the husband and wife have a little rest at the table, the second host asks the guests to purchase comic lottery. You don’t have to name the price; let each of the invitees give as much money as they see fit.

Leader's words:

“Dear guests rested, drank a little, had a party

Now we ask you to come and purchase the lottery.”

A basket of papers is prepared in advance. Each of the guests must take out the package and read aloud what is written inside. For example:

• Don't be sad, crunch it. We give you a cracker (a pack of crackers is handed over)
• This thing may be useful to you. You will have to recover from your hangover in the morning (you will be given a bottle of beer or low-alcohol drink)
• Our gift is modest and is called a pencil (I give pencils to the guest)
• You'll soon say thank you, and the gift best book(the guest is given a magazine with crossword puzzles)
• There is a lot of fun going on right now. And our present will save you from a hangover tomorrow (they hand over Aspirin)

IMPORTANT! It is necessary to give guests a little break from competitions. The invitees and the heroes of the occasion drink and eat.

After a short break, the heroes of the occasion are presented with gifts. This needs to be done as a joke. It is worth making an agreement with one of the guests in advance. The presenters must prepare a large box of broken bottles. The box is beautifully packaged. One of the guests criticizes the gift for the newlyweds and says that this set is incredibly expensive, and it took him a long time to choose it. When presented, the guest drops the box with the “gift” on the floor. Everybody hears the sound broken glass. After this, the guest announces that this is a joke and gives the couple his real gift.

Bride kidnapping competition

It is necessary to quietly lead the bride out of the hall during the dance. After this, the presenter says that the bride has disappeared, and in order to ransom her, the groom needs to dance a striptease. After the groom's dance, one of the invited men comes out, dressed in the bride's dress, and sits on the groom's lap. The guest says that he will return the bride if the groom gives him a bottle of Hennessey. However, you don’t necessarily need to buy this elite drink. You can stick a drawing on a bottle of cognac quick hand Hennessy label. After the ransom, the couple dances one last dance by candlelight. The guests eat the cake and leave.

Scenario for a wedding banquet

Increasingly, newlyweds are trying to save money on their wedding. Most young people prefer to go on vacation abroad rather than spend huge amounts of money on luxurious banquets. But this does not mean that the holiday will be boring. Can be prepared in advance interesting competitions and the script for the celebration.

During the wedding celebration you must:

• Thank your parents
• Congratulate the newlyweds
• Organize a bride kidnapping
• Thank guests
• Cheer up your guests using contests and lotteries

Fun competitions for weddings

They can be announced by one of the guests. It's best if it's close girlfriend bride or groomsman.

• Competition "Attraction". To conduct the competition, you need to pack items in advance big boxes. At the same time, there is no need to say that it is packed. Required in in a comic form describe the subject. For example: milk storage container (bra), egg tray (family panties), washing machine(grout) sewing machine(needle and thread). Guests must bargain after the auction is announced. The starting price can be 5-10 rubles. The money is put into a bag for the newlyweds. After purchasing items, guests are asked to unbox prizes.
• Competition "Casanova". It is necessary to select several among the guests cheerful men. The music turns on and the man must collect more kisses within a certain period of time. The count is based on the number of lipstick marks on a man's face. Women should not give up immediately, the participant wins the kiss
• Competition of questions for guests. It's traditional and fun competition. It is necessary to prepare leaflets with questions and answers in advance. They are put in different boxes. The questions should be like this: do you like alcohol? Have you ever danced a striptease? Are you hiding your extra income from your partner? Do you have connections on the side? The answers may be: knowing me, you don’t have to ask, I get pleasure from it, only at night in bed, I’m ashamed to admit it in front of everyone. Usually this competition is accompanied by laughter

Modern wedding scenario for a wedding with unusual and fun competitions

This scenario is ideal for young guests. All competitions are fun and active:

• Portrait. Several participants are selected for this competition. Each competitor is given sheets of paper and pencils. Everyone must draw someone invited. On the back small letters you need to write who is depicted in the portrait. Then these drawings are distributed to the guests and they must guess who is drawn in the portrait. Whose drawing gets the most correct answers is the winner. Portraits are given to the person depicted in them.
• Who was born? Several are selected for this fun competition married couples. Women stand opposite their men. The presenter distributes information to women about born baby. On the sheets of paper you can write: a Chinese man with sly eyes was born, a black baby who screams all the time. In this case, the woman must show her partner with gestures what is written on the piece of paper. The man who most correctly solves the encrypted information wins
• Competition "Drunkard". This competition is built on the principle of the children's game “The odd one out.” For this, 5-6 participants are selected. One less glass than the number of competitors is placed on the table. The music turns on and the participants walk around the table. As soon as the presenter claps his hands or the music stops, you need to grab the glass and empty it. Whoever doesn't get a drink is out
• Competition "Baby". To do this, several men who love beer are invited to the stage. Each bottle comes with a nipple. Whichever participant empties the container the fastest wins

Scenario for a small wedding party with friends

It is advisable for matchmakers to take on the role of leading. If they are elderly, then it is possible for the celebration to be carried out by girlfriends and friends of the newlyweds. Before the newlyweds arrive, the hosts offer guests snacks and champagne in the restaurant lobby.

After the couple arrives, romantic music is turned on, and the children sprinkle rose petals on the couple. One of the presenters suggests that the bride say goodbye to her maiden name. To do this, the girl is given an armful of balloons filled with helium and a marker. The bride must write her maiden name on each of the balloons and release them into the sky.

• Competitions for the bride and groom. This is a kind of test for newlyweds. It is necessary to seat several men in the center of the hall. The bride is blindfolded. She must use her hands to feel the ears of each candidate and determine where her husband is. The groom won't be bored either. He is blindfolded. Several girls sit on chairs and bare their legs. The groom must feel his legs to determine where his beloved is
• Competition for guests. It is necessary for the presenter to select several active couples in the hall. Men sit on chairs, and something is placed on their laps paper napkin. Women sit on their partners' laps. The music is turned on and the participants must rub the napkins with their buttocks and legs
• Competition for invitees "Clothespins". Traditional and very fun competition. Several pairs are selected. Men are given empty tin cans on ropes and clothespins. Participants are blindfolded. They must pin jewelry on their chosen ones. Then you can ask them to remove the jewelry hands-free. with open eyes. This competition brings people together if they are not married
• Dance competition. Couples are given balloons and lively music is turned on. Partners must burst the ball while dancing, squeezing it with their buttocks or chest

The wedding ends with the ceremony of removing the veil. To do this, romantic music is turned on, the groom takes off the bride’s veil and dances with her first family dance. Next, the newlyweds thank the guests for congratulating them. Spouses cut a wedding cake and distribute to guests. At the end of the evening, everyone enjoys the wedding fireworks.

Scenario for a wedding evening with competitions for the toastmaster. Wedding celebration script for toastmaster

Typically, the scenario for a wedding with a toastmaster is divided into two parts: introductory and table. At the very beginning, after the newlyweds arrive, they are sprinkled with wheat grains and rose petals.

• Affectionate as
• Beautiful as
• Caring as
• Smart as

After each proposal, she pulls out a piece of paper with an animal that the groom wrote. In the same way, a competition is held with the bride’s answers. Laughter echoes throughout the hall.

Voting for the gender of the baby born in a couple is considered traditional. For fun game The toastmaster brings out two people to the guests, one blue and the other pink. Each of the guests must put some money into the chosen little man.

Accordingly, if one of the invitees wants to vote for a girl, he must spend money in pink clothes. The gender that collects the most money will win.

The toastmaster can prepare a bottle of champagne with a photo of the bride and groom in advance.

IMPORTANT! The lovers will have to open the bottle in exactly one year.

• Competition "What's in the glass." A fun competition for all guests. To carry it out, 100 g of vodka is poured into a glass. You need to put a straw in each container. The toastmaster announces that there is water in all glasses except one. Guests need to determine which glass contains vodka by the grimaces of the participants. At the end of the competition, the presenter admits that all the glasses contain vodka
• Nodules. A fun competition that will allow you to have fun with the participants. The toastmaster invites several people of different genders and ages to participate. Each participant is given a rope 1 m long. Each participant must tie as many knots as possible. After everyone has done it, the toastmaster announces that the winner will be the one who first unties all the knots
• A fun competition for men. The toastmaster invites to the stage several men who have passed military service in the army. They are given neatly folded T-shirts and asked to quickly put them on. After this, participants are blindfolded and given family underpants. Men will try to put on briefs, thinking they are tank tops.

Original wedding scenarios with competitions at home

If the wedding is celebrated at home, then most often the closest people and friends are among the invitees. Everyone has long been tired of the usual noisy feasts. It is worth taking a responsible approach to organizing the celebration and thinking through every little detail.

An essential part of any wedding:

• Newlyweds meeting
• New couple's first dance
• Congratulations and toasts
• Competitions, games and competitions
• Presentation of gifts
• Dancing and disco
• Farewell to the maiden and single life
• Eating birthday cake

To prevent the wedding from seeming boring, it is necessary to dilute the traditional part with fun games and competitions. At the same time, you need to try so that the guests do not get bored and do not have time to get pretty drunk. To do this, after drinking 1-2 glasses, they organize some kind of competition.

Competitions for weddings at home

• Stuffed cabbage rolls. Comic competition, in which a man is invited to participate. They blindfold him and announce that there is a woman lying on the sofa with a sweet candy in her mouth. He must find the candy and eat it without using his hands. But a man lies down on the sofa without candy, while the music “Blue Moon” plays
• Appetite. Couples are invited to the competition, they are blindfolded and swapped. Participants need to eat a banana; a different participant bites from each edge. Thus, the contestants will meet lips. It's fun if the participants are of the same gender
• Pregnant wife. A fun competition for men. It is necessary for the witness and the groom to be taped balloon at the level of the abdomen. A box of matches is poured onto the floor, and the participants must collect everything and not burst the ball.

Scenario for a wedding evening in a narrow circle

The scenario depends on where the celebration is held, at home or in a cafe. In a restaurant, you can organize mobile competitions that require a lot of space. At home, people mostly choose games and competitions at or near the table. You can even arrange quizzes at the beginning of the celebration while all the guests are sober.

• Striptease. A circle is made using chairs. 10 participants are selected, the same number of chairs are taken. The music is turned on and after it is turned off, the participants must put any thing on the chair where they stopped. The number of items taken depends on how close the contestants are. Next, the music turns on again and the participants are already putting on the item from the chair where they stopped
• Fashion boutique. For the competition you need to take a large bag and put funny clothes in it. This could be size 58 panties or a size 10 bra. Each contestant takes an item from the bag and puts it on. It is necessary not to take off your outfit for 30 minutes
• Kamikaze. A fun competition to improve your mood. A glass is placed on the table, each person sitting must pour a little strong drink into the container and pass it on. Whoever has a full glass must drink it

Scenario for a Russian wedding ceremony. Costumes for Russian weddings

A few centuries ago, our ancestors observed all the subtleties of Russian rituals. Now many are striving to organize a European, sea ​​wedding. But still, some newlyweds want to observe traditions.

The main stages of the Russian wedding ceremony:

• Matchmaking
• Collusion
• hen-party
• Wedding
• The wedding night
• wedding feast

It is on the wedding day that the celebration begins with the grooming of the bride. A friend helps her get dressed. In this case, the groom is at home and should not see his beloved. Next, the man comes for his lady. The bride's relatives ask for ransom. After this, the newlyweds go to get married in church (at the registry office).

It was considered traditional in Rus' for newlyweds to meet with wheat sprinkled on them, but now many couples are abandoning this tradition. Newlyweds choose rose petals or bubble. The newlyweds are always greeted with a loaf of bread and salt. There is a belief that whoever bites off the most will be the head of the family.

Previously, after the arrival of the newlyweds, their parents lit a fireplace; this was considered a sign of a family hearth. This tradition has now been replaced by lighting candles at the end of the evening.

Costumes for Russian weddings

Clothes for a bride's wedding are quite complex and varied. In Rus', a shirt with embroidered ornament. A sundress with wide straps was put on top of it. A similar outfit was decorated with a festive apron and a beautiful belt.

The bride always wore a kokoshnik on her head - a hat with an open back. It was believed that a girl herself should embroider an ornament on a shirt, but now you can buy clothes with machine embroidery.

The groom put on a shirt with long sleeve and trousers. Moreover, all ornaments had to be made from the same threads as the bride’s outfit.

A wedding is a day that will be remembered for a lifetime. So that you remember this celebration with warmth and trepidation, make every effort to organize it.

VIDEO: Wedding Script

Weddings can be very different, from luxurious and stunning celebrations in their scale, to modest family and discreet events. Wedding can be customized to suit any wishes and financial capabilities, but it must be taken into account that the significant day should touch the hearts of the newlyweds and their guests. A wedding script will help create the right atmosphere.

A wedding without a script risks turning into an endless and boring feast with family and friends. Competitions and various plot twists are important precisely because they don't let guests get bored. People who do not know each other get to know each other during various games and relay races.

If the wedding is planned for a small amount of guests (from 10 to 30), then the presence of a toastmaster is not necessary.

Who should be entrusted with preparing the script? and carrying out ?

• They will look most natural in the role of presenters witness and witness. They, as close associates of the newlyweds, will be able to draw up a script in tandem with the bride and groom, and then act it out at the wedding;
• If the majority of people at the wedding will be adults and elderly people, you can entrust the organization of the event parents of a new family. Well, the script can be found on the Internet and adjusted to your personal wishes;
• If you do not want to involve guests in organizing the wedding, invite friend from outside. In fact, he will take on the role of toastmaster, but he will not have to pay money (payment can be organized by holding paid competitions, from which your host will take the money for himself).

At home or in a restaurant?

Conduct beautiful wedding You can do it both in a restaurant and at home. But a home feast will cost much less than finding and booking a hall, paying for a buffet and the work of the staff.

Wedding at home

Pros:

• saving money;
• the ability to adapt to any situation (including quickly washing White dress with a wine stain, mend unexpectedly torn pants of a witness and find props for the competition);
• the ability to send “overeating” guests to sleep in the next room;
• no need to go home after a tiring but happy day, taking with you numerous gifts.

Minuses:

• “simplicity” and lack of entourage;
• monotony wedding photos (home furnishings not conducive to luxurious photo shoots);
• the likelihood that in the process of wild fun the interior of the apartment may be seriously damaged;
• lack of space;
• self-service.

Wedding in a restaurant

Pros:

Minuses:

• serious spending;
• limited action (all problems and tasks will have to be solved on the spot, using available means);
• the need to return home with a “baggage” of gifts, alcoholic drinks etc.

As you can see, both options have their pros and cons. However good script a wedding without a toastmaster for those closest to you will compensate for any shortcomings and help people relax.

Scenario

Before you write a script, choose the direction in which you will move. It could be:

The basis for creating your own script You can take a classic wedding plan.

1. Bride and groom greeted with a loaf of bread, and the mother-in-law sprinkles millet on the young couple. Then the newlyweds are seated at a specially designated place and the parents say pep talk(introductory words prepared in advance). Then the word is passed on to the relatives and friends of the newly-made family.
2. After all the guests have drunk a couple of glasses and the first toasts have been made, you can move on to competitive program. Active games diluted with table games. Relay races are held during breaks between meals and congratulatory words(if guests express a desire to voice a toast). The hosts of the event, focusing on the mood of the people, can announce musical breaks (disco).
3. First dance of the bride and groom It is announced when guests have drunk no more than 3-5 glasses of alcohol. It is very important to properly lead the script to this touching moment. For example, before a dance a musical gift from parents, and close family friends can read beautiful poems.
4. Closer to the end festive evening announced disco and group games(eg boys vs girls). ALL guests must be involved in the final competitions. A home wedding scenario without a toastmaster can be planned without a disco, replacing it with karaoke singing or mini dance competitions.
5. After wedding cake cutting or loaf. Parents conduct a ceremony for their children to say goodbye to their bachelor life. Mothers remove the bride’s veil and “hand over” the young wife into the reliable hands of her husband. A beautiful point There will be a lighting of a wedding candle, which symbolizes the birth of a new family.

Suitable competitions, mobile and table

Wedding scenario without toastmaster narrow circle can be “seasoned” with the most brave and unusual competitions , which the guests, intoxicated with alcohol, will receive with a bang.

Kisses dear

Couples consisting of girls and boys (at least 6 couples) are called to the center of the hall. Then the representatives of the stronger sex are invited to kiss their partners, voicing places for kissing.

For example, “I will kiss Marina on the cheek.” You cannot repeat yourself, which complicates the task for subsequent applicants.

The losers are those who did not find a place for a kiss.

Heartfelt gift

Couples again participate in the competition. Men write on a piece of paper what they plan to give to their companion. And women, not knowing what they are going to give, tell how they will use the gift. This is quite a fun competition, because in the process girls can dress up for the holiday in a new frying pan or hang new earrings on the wall.

Inflatable tango

Several people go to the center of the hall and randomly break into pairs. At the signal (when the music starts), the people in a pair must join in a passionate dance, holding the inflated balloons between their bellies. Those who burst the balloon the fastest while performing an original dance will win.

Walls have ears too

This competition can be held to raise money. The hosts prepare facts about the bride and groom in advance, and the guests need to guess whether the named facts are true or false. The one who makes a mistake pays a “tax.”

My beloved

You can take any number of people into the competition. Everyone is asked to name the most beautiful part of the body of the person standing next to them. When everyone in the circle voices their option for the neighbor on the left, the presenter announces that now the “place that catches your fancy” needs to be kissed.

Young mother

For the competition you need to prepare plastic bottles and nipples that fit onto bottles.

Sprite, cola or fanta can be used as complementary foods.

The winners will be those who drink the contents from the bottle more carefully and quickly.

Guessing game

Several men are seated on chairs. The bride, blindfolded, is brought to the competition participants. She must find her betrothed by touching only the guys' noses.

Knot for good luck

Several couples are selected from those who wish. The united boys and girls are placed shoulder to shoulder and tied with their hands touching. Next, the contestants, using only their free hands, must lace up the sneaker and tie a bow on it. Those who quickly and “cleanly” cope with the task will win.

You can easily create cool wedding scenarios without a toastmaster, the main thing is to make an effort and not limited to standard canons holding a celebration.

The more creative and funnier organization celebrations, the more pleasant it will be for guests and newlyweds to remember this exciting and joyful day.

Ready-made scripts

Option #1

Option No. 2

Wedding without toastmaster
If you decide to hold a wedding yourself, without the help of a professional toastmaster, this page is for you!

A modern presenter should be easy and understandable. By following the rules described below, you do not risk being booed! This is an event plan, you choose the words and toasts yourself, not small ones.

And most importantly, do not forget, in order to become a Toastmaster, it is not enough to be able to recite poetry and conduct games, you must be an excellent organizer, a psychologist, be able to attract attention, have a good sense of humor and nerves of steel.

Meeting of the young.

Usually, the meeting of the newlyweds takes place at the entrance to the banquet hall. If the territory and location features banquet hall or weather conditions do not allow the meeting to be held traditionally, you can move it indoors.

The task of the host is to win over the guests already at the meeting. Don't delay this event. Imagine, the whole honest company walked around fresh air and she has only one thought, to get to the table and have something to eat. Therefore, if you do not want to get yourself into trouble, do not delay the meeting for more than 5 minutes.

Do not forget, upon the arrival of the newlyweds, guests who arrived directly for the banquet and parents must be on site in combat readiness. But there is no need to throw your relatives out into the cold, rain and sun in 40 minutes.

Warn the young people so that 5 minutes before arrival they dial your number and inform you of your imminent arrival. This time will be enough for you to prepare.

Upon arrival of guests and newlyweds, invite those arriving to the meeting place. The young ones are the last to arrive.

Explain your responsibilities to guests. Speak clearly, repeat several times. Try to place guests evenly on the right and left, creating a corridor for passage away from the parents.

To give a signal to the young people to get out of the car, ask the guests:
We are waiting for an answer... If the guests did not express their desire to meet the newlyweds emotionally enough, “threaten” them that you will send the newlyweds on another walk, since the guests do not have the desire to adequately greet the spouses.
- Are the guests ready to meet the newlyweds?
Waiting for a response. We invite a couple.

Passing through the corridor of guests, the groom holds the bride in his arms ( if possible). At this time, guests sprinkle the couple with petals, coins, and grain. Having brought the bride to her parents, the groom puts her on her feet.

The toastmaster offers to give a “parting word” to the groom’s parents.

At the end parting words invite the young people to break it off (with hands) a piece of loaf and salt thoroughly. Let the bride and groom feed each other with tenderness and affection, because this is the last opportunity to annoy each other. And without champagne, handing glasses of the drink to the newlyweds, the mother of the bride can say her wishes to the children.

Champagne is drunk, glasses are broken. Large pieces of broken glasses say they are boys, small pieces say they are girls. Ask a couple to count the shards for fun!

Well, now we go into the hall, first the young people, then the parents, then all the remaining guests

(The toastmaster comes in after the parents).

Don't forget to tell your arrivals where the cloakroom and toilets are, and where the smoking area is. Entering the hall, the newlyweds accept bouquets and warm wishes from the guests. (no gifts). Accommodation of guests ( standard option).

After 5-10 minutes, guests are invited to the tables. Young (if possible) in the center, groom on the right, bride on the left, witness on the groom's side, witness on the bride's side. The groom's parents are on the right from the young people, the bride's parents are on the left from the young people. Grandparents are away from musical equipment, young people are closer. All remaining guests to any available seats.

Official feast.

The opening toast is usually given by the toastmaster. But you can change traditions and give the floor to fathers. Don’t forget to ask the guests to fill their glasses and the girls to take care of the appetizers. Wait until most of the guests are ready to listen to you.

After the first toast, give the guests the opportunity to have a snack, but do not delay the pause for more than 4-5 minutes, otherwise the guests will start drinking on their own whenever they have to.

Offer to play while they have a snack.
"Auction of kind words" to the young people who say the final kind word will receive a special prize.
What are our young people like? Beautiful, smart, charming, etc.

Invite the young people to decide "Who's the boss of the house".
Let us break the wedding loaf (into two parts) (we break it on the count of three, the guests count), whoever has the larger piece is the head of the family, whoever has the smaller one is the head of the family. financial matters families.

The next toast is made by parents or immediate family (preferably men). Don't forget about "bitter".

During the musical break, you can put on a song about love (one song, maybe not the whole thing). Don't let your guests get bored; the first part is the most important. While the guests are eating, eating and listening, find out whether our bride is economical, and whether our groom is greedy.

Competition "Wedding hedgehog".

Insert 12-14 clean toothpicks into the apple. The groom, taking out a needle, says a gift, which he undertakes to give to his beloved. The bride, taking out a needle, reveals the dish that will be prepared for this gift. And so on until the hedgehog goes bald.

Well, then invite the newlyweds to take an “Oath” to each other, or read out the “Wedding Decree.”

We drink the third toast to our parents. It can be said by young people or the toastmaster himself.

A short musical break, for example the song “My Dear Old Men” by Yu. Antonov, won’t hurt. Or another composition at your discretion.

Don't forget that on the wedding day the parents found "New titles": “Mother-in-law”, “Father-in-law”, “Mother-in-law”, “Father-in-law”. Please note this Special attention, give your parents “Medals” or memorable (or comic) gifts.

Check their readiness to fulfill their direct responsibilities. For example, find out whether future grandmothers remember how to tie “Bows”. Prepare in advance 30 small ribbons (40 cm long, 5-7 mm wide) or regular hair ties and ask your new mother-in-law to tie ponytails on the heads of their wards (guests from the audience). It is desirable that the number and length of hair for both teams be the same. The mother who will tie the most bows in the allotted time will win.

It's time to refill the glasses. And now it wouldn’t hurt to give the floor to the witnesses (fourth toast). After a toast and a musical break (one song, maybe not the whole song), you just need to test the witnesses for dexterity.

Here, any competition will be good, but don't send them and don't embarrass them. The bride and groom will have to help with the housework, parents are not always nearby, friends will come “On demand.” All that is needed is for the witness to hammer in 7 nails (larger ones), and for the witness to peel 7 potatoes (larger ones). And whoever is faster receives a prize and applause.

Not forgetting about smoking guests, we will announce a break of 10-15 minutes. Those who want can stay at the tables, those who want can go smoke or dance (although there are not many of them during the first break). The toastmaster can catch his breath or have a snack. Even if you are a guest at a wedding, do not get carried away with alcohol. You still have work to do!

The guests have gathered. We smoked, talked, it’s time to drink (fifth toast). Grandparents have already calmed down, eaten, you can give the floor to them (Do not ask them to speak at the beginning of the celebration, they are worried, cry and cannot put two words together.).

Well, let's play a little again. It's time to keep the young ones busy.
"Chamomile", or distribution family responsibilities. On the petals of the chamomile are written the responsibilities that the young people will have to fulfill while living together. But who gets what for themselves is a matter of chance.
I WILL BE PROTECTING FROM BANDITS, I WILL BE DRINKING BEER FOR TWO, I WILL BE BUYING MYSELF EXPENSIVE FUR COATS, I WILL BE EARNING A HIGH SALARY - think of the rest yourself...

Well, now we’ll find out who will be born to the young ones, “A boy or a girl.” What do guests think about this? Sliders are brought out, pink and blue. Pink ones are given to the witness, blue ones are given to the witness. If the guest believes that the first to be born is a girl, he puts any banknote(no matter how much it is a pity) to the witness if she thinks that the birth of a boy is for the witness. In which sliders the total, after going through all the guests and counting, will be greater, will be the first to be born.

Well, it’s a sacred thing to drink to your firstborn (6th toast), fill your glasses.
A short musical break, don’t forget to have a snack.

Now is the time to announce the “Gift Giving.” While guests can still speak clearly and remember in which pocket the envelope was hidden.

The most important! Don’t divide your congratulations into 2-3 blocks (it’s better to suffer through it once)!

Don’t get carried away with reading telegrams and postcards sent to the newlyweds (so as not to put the guests to sleep), but you can read 2-3. Warn guests in advance: Brevity is the sister of talent. Witnesses will help you. Recommendations for them are HERE.

Gifts have been presented. Invite the newlyweds to the “First Dance”!
Afterwards, there is a long musical pause of 25-30 minutes.

The official part is over, now you have to carry out the game block. And this is no longer so difficult. Carefully monitor what is happening and carry out the program during pauses. The gaming part is divided into table games, games for a small number of participants, and group games. Be guided by the audience, which game is better to play in this or that case. You should not invite guests to group games if they brought hot ones, or if the disco has just ended. It's better to make do with table entertainment.

These could be song competitions, questions and answers, auctions, etc. Involve the active part of the guests. This one is present at any event. But don’t get carried away, give your guests the opportunity to chat. Don't forget, we have a Wedding, not a program Olympic Games, dancing, table, game program, everything should be in moderation.

If guests are tired and do not make contact well, involve young people, parents, and witnesses. In such cases, the saying: “There is nothing more pleasant than watching others work” is just right.

In this case, it’s good to play on “Who is better?”, the team of the bride or groom. We always have the excitement of championship, and relatives will do anything to bring their team forward! Just don't go too far! Otherwise, the “Sabre Dance” between relatives will drag on.

Cake.

The wedding evening is coming to an end, and if it comes to the cake, the celebration is a success! You have completed the mission entrusted to you. It is better to entrust the removal of the cake to the most sober guest or relative. Although the “flight of the cake” is a beautiful sight, it is better to save it for other holidays.

The cake is cut by the young people, to the applause of the guests, you can turn on the musical accompaniment for takeaway. The young people personally deliver the first pieces to their parents, one piece is given to you for sale. Don’t forget that the sale should not look like collecting another tribute from guests!

When a newlywed couple sells a cake, they automatically invite the buyer to their wedding anniversary. This guest, at any time of the day, exactly a year later, can come to the newlyweds and say: “Here I am, feed me, give me something to drink, I came to congratulate you on your anniversary!” Trading a cake can start with a few pennies. The final amount depends on the talent of the toastmaster and the wealth of the guests.

Witnesses or waiters help distribute the remaining cake to all guests. Make sure that the cake is delivered to children and the elderly first; they are very worried that they will not get something sweet.

Throwing a bouquet and a garter, although not a Russian tradition, is firmly rooted in modern scenarios weddings The selection of the next bride and groom takes place at the end of the evening. After throwing the bouquet and garter, the bride and groom have the right to leave the wedding without waiting for the guests to leave. The toastmaster's work also ends here.

“Second table” begins after a half-hour dance break. The newlyweds accept congratulations from guests.

Hot appetizers. Presentation of gifts (if they were not presented at the beginning). Continuation of toasts. All sorts of competitions are held - “guess the melody” (if you own any instrument), “how many do you know” (songs that have numbers, cities starting with “o”, animals without a tail, etc.) The players break up into teams “boys” - “girls” (witness team - witness team). You can take the bride's first signature (with a new surname!)

It should be noted: In competitions and games, guests of the bride and groom should not be pushed together - this leads to conflict situations. They can also be caused by touching on “hot” topics in conversation - politics, sports, some sensitive moments in the biographies of the parties, oppositions like - and our groom is better than your bride! The toastmaster must stop such conversations by redirecting the attention of the guests.

At the end of the “second table,” a dance is announced between the groom and his mother-in-law, the bride with her father-in-law, and the mother-in-law with her father-in-law. The second dance break begins.

Official official part finished. Next comes amateur performances - games and competitions, singing songs together to the accompaniment... Someone definitely wants to say something - the toastmaster must ensure that the order of performances is observed. You shouldn’t “overload” the bride and groom - they need to be protected as much as possible by creating for them comfortable conditions. After all, getting married is hard work. The main thing is that the bride and groom always find themselves in a winning position - this is their day.

There should be no cash ransoms in games - a bride and 300 rubles are incommensurable concepts. The groom or witness can sing, dance or give a bouquet as a sign of ransom. Finally, you need to thank the guests for coming. The young people make a toast to their friends. The final. The guests are leaving. And one last thing. Don't get too organized wedding celebration, pedantically, to the smallest detail, follow traditions and develop a detailed scenario for the event. Let improvisation reign on this day, the flight of imagination of the host and guests of the holiday.

Believe me, it doesn’t really matter whether you throw rose petals, candy or grains of wheat on the newlyweds. Who should step on the wedding towel first, or which side of the groom should the bride sit on? (Many people claim that he is on the right. Well, what if the groom is left-handed?!).

The main thing is that everyone, and first of all the newlyweds themselves, remember this day not permanently nervous tension, but a cheerful feast, joyful smiles, friendly jokes and an atmosphere of happiness and love.

If it happens that your friends’ wedding is small, but you want it to be remembered by everyone cheerful mood, originality and comfort - feel free to get down to business, our wedding scenario for a small company without a toastmaster is exactly what you need. So, we carefully read the script, analyze what is needed for the wedding - props, decorations, wedding loaf and cake, prizes for competitions, etc. Next, all that remains is to bring everything to life and present your talent to your friends! The absence of a toastmaster does not prevent an interesting celebration of the most important day in the life of the newlyweds!

So, wedding scenario - 2017 without a toastmaster for a small company

We offer to take on the mission of leading the holiday to the witness and the witness, or the honorary matchmaker and matchmaker. Holding a wedding with loved ones for young people will give the evening a special charm. Believe me, the bride and groom will forever remember everything that their friends did for them on this day.

Well, preparations for the holiday are completed, the exciting day has arrived, the newlyweds, happy and excited, drove up to the wedding venue by car.

Meeting of the bride and groom

In order for the guests not to languish while waiting for the bride and groom, who, as a rule, are usually late, before the arrival of the newlyweds, the best man and the witness invite the guests to drink a glass of champagne and eat small fruit and meat snacks. Telephone communication with the bride and groom should be under the control of the witness and witness - they will be the main organizers of the wedding for a small company without a toastmaster.

So, at the moment when wedding car drives up to the wedding yard for a small company without a toastmaster - the witnesses ask the guests present for their attention, because in a few moments the bride and groom will appear in the hall.

Romantic solemn music sounds. Witnesses begin the ceremony of meeting the newlyweds.

WITNESS: A woman and a man. These two words are inseparable. He was created to become the main thing in her life. She will always be his guiding star, which will lead him to success. Him, the man.

WITNESS: And together, in love, they will give life to beautiful children, they will delight their parents with new successes and achievements, new victories. All this will happen, but later. In the meantime...

WITNESS: Dear parents, relatives, friends!
Today the door of the restaurant "____" is open to family and friends, to those who want to raise a glass in honor of the young couple.

WITNESS: Every person in life has significant dates and the most significant dates. Significant ones are the day of entry into school, graduation, first salary.

WITNESS: Today we celebrate the birthday of a young, but very beautiful story the love of two beautiful young people. To your thunderous applause, allow me to invite our groom Alexei into the hall!

Rhythmic modern music sounds, Alexey enters the hall.

WITNESS: Well, let's look into the eyes of our groom - we see that he is especially excited today - he has been looking forward to this day for 3 long years. Every evening he went to bed and woke up with the name of his beloved on his lips. For her, he is ready to say goodbye to his habits, bachelor frivolity, passion for football and fishing, and devote all his time to his beloved.

WITNESS: Let's all meet our bride Elena in the festive hall!
The exit of the angel with the bride. “Angel” sprinkles rose petals in front of the bride

WITNESS: Dear parents of young people, go up to your children and shower them with folk custom.

WITNESS: We'll tell you that your family was prolific.
Parents sprinkle young ones with rye

WITNESS: Sprinkle with spring wheat so that you are a couple in love.
Parents sprinkle wheat on young ones

WITNESS: We will sprinkle you with a handful of sweets so that you can live together for a hundred sweet years.

Parents sprinkle young ones with caramels

WITNESS: Dear parents, we ask you to bless your children for a happy family life.

WITNESS: Come to the people closest to you for a blessing. As per tradition, bow low to them three times.

WITNESS: Since ancient times, the loaf was considered the main bread of the Russian home. It is a symbol of fertility, procreation, family and tribal unity, happiness, health and well-being.

WITNESS: In its shape, the loaf is likened to the sun and, according to popular beliefs, is the incarnation of the Sun god, who descends to earth to take under his wing the newlyweds, who are entering into a long and happy life. So, kiss him three times in turn. And you, parents, give the loaf to the honorary matchmakers

Farewell to childhood

WITNESS: It seems that we could invite everyone to the table, but our bride still... has not said goodbye to her maiden name, and the groom has not said goodbye to his bachelor life. We desperately need to dot the “i’s” immediately.

WITNESS: I want the bride to tell us very loudly what her last name will be from now on.

The bride loudly announces her new surname.

WITNESS: Then, quickly write your old name on this balloon and release it into the sky to the applause of your guests.

The witness brings the bride a bouquet of balloons inflated with gel, colored markers, the bride writes her old surname on the balloons, and together with the groom sends all this beauty into the sky.
Gifts from guests

WITNESS: Dear bride and groom! Today the most dear and close people came to congratulate you.
Here, the falcon found Swan. They decided to build a nest,
To love each other and raise children,
And you need a lot of feathers for the nest, oh, how necessary!

WITNESS: Give for your grandchildren, and for the cradle..., - this is what grandmothers said a long time ago, but we will say frankly - young people need a material base: we will explain why...

WITNESS: In order to buy a chair to sit on, a table to sit at, a TV to watch,

WITNESS: A machine in which to wash diapers,
Carpet - so that there is something to knock the dust out of,
A car to take my mother-in-law for a ride,
A refrigerator so that you have somewhere to look often...

WITNESS: And therefore, I invite here – the counting and collection – the shaking out commission.
WITNESS: Chief Accountant of our commission, aka the FIRST MATCHmaker, Mr. ____________________.

WITNESS: The matchmakers accept flowers and gifts for the newlyweds and report to them, and I introduce each guest by name!
Well, our dear guests,
It's your turn now
Let each of the wallets, out of your pocket
The first one receives his contribution.

Don't forget about inflation
Even shares are donated,
And EUROS, and rubles, and dollars,
Banknotes of any color.
Both gold and silver
And other expensive goods.

Guests give gifts to the newlyweds. After this, the witnesses invite everyone to the festive table.

WITNESS: Allow me to start the wedding! Bride and groom, stand facing the guests. Bow the first time, and the second time, and the third time. Invite guests to wedding table!

Wedding feast "Champagne fireworks"

To ensure that wedding guests for a small company without a toastmaster do not get bored, the witnesses will have to try a little. Before the first toast, invite all the guests to stand up, the men to take champagne in their hands, and to the applause of the guests, open all the bottles at the same time - you will get a wedding fireworks of champagne.

Toasts

Proclaim the first toast “For Love” immediately after the champagne fireworks. The second toast is usually proclaimed by the parents of the newlyweds. The third toast is to our own grandparents. Fourth toast - God-parents young. Fifth toast - dear uncles and aunts. After the fourth toast, have some fun for the bride and groom.

Fun for the bride and groom “While everyone is at home”

Witnesses present hearts made of cardboard to the bride and groom on two trays. On back side The bride's questions and the groom's answers are written in the heart. Witnesses invite the young people to take turns reading the texts from the hearts. Here are the options.

Bride's heartfelt questions:

1. The only one, will you help me clean the house?
2. My dear, is raising ostriches a profitable business?
3. My cat, will we vacation in the Canary Islands every year?
4. Bunny, I know that you love children. Would you mind starting a family football team?
5. Breadwinner, is it true that you will give me all your earnings?
6. My happiness, will you return home immediately after work?
7. My joy, will we have our own plane?
8.
“Hearty” answers from the groom:

1. As you say, my dearest!
2. We'll wait and see, my little bunny!
3. Definitely, my little fish!
4. I only dream about this, my love!
5. Everything is in your hands, dear!
6. Dream, dream, my dear!
7. If finances allow, my heart!
8.

Competitions in a wedding scenario without a toastmaster for a small company

Competition for the bride and groom “I recognize you from a million”

The first test is for the young wife. The bride is blindfolded. Several men are seated on chairs in the center of the hall. The bride is brought to the men, the bride’s task is to use her hands, feeling the men’s ears, to recognize her husband.

The second test is for the groom. Now he is blindfolded, and the girls are seated on chairs; they must take off their shoes and put their feet forward. The groom must guess by touch which of the ladies is his wife.

Competition for the mother of the groom and mother of the bride “Matchmaker”

For this competition you need to prepare props - two very long, 5-6 meters ropes, or rubber bands, you need to glue a ballpoint pen to them. The handles will symbolize the “needle”, the elastic bands will symbolize the “Thread”. Witnesses say that the mothers of our newlyweds are experienced women, they can glue and sew everything that is necessary and not necessary. Therefore, their task is to assemble a team of several men (4, 5 each), then sew them together. To do this, you need to insert a ballpoint pen with an elastic band into the left leg of the trousers, and take it out through the right one, then sew it on next man, and so on until the last. The mom who succeeds first wins the “Magic Matchmaker” competition.

Competition for guests "Mutual Contact"

Among the guests you need to choose couples who actively dance. They are placed in the center of the hall. Men sit on chairs, women sit on their laps. The witness gives each pair a napkin.

The music turns on, the task of the couples is to rub the napkin using dance movements.

The most energetic couple who succeeded first receives a prize from the young couple.

Competition for youth “Christmas trees”

Witnesses select several couples for the competition. The guys are blindfolded and given props - pinned to clothespins tin cans from drinks. The task is to pin the “Toys” onto the “Christmas trees”. Then, partners are changed without opening their eyes, and they are offered to remove the “toys”.

The young man's task is to find all the clothespins while blindfolded. Needed: 10-12 clothespins for each pair, empty tin cans, scarves to cover your eyes.

"Aerial Dance"

Couples should dance while holding balloon forehead, back, stomach, buttocks... Music should be modern and fast.

End of the holiday

A beautiful end to the holiday will be the ceremony of removing the veil from the bride. It should be accompanied by beautiful and romantic music. The groom takes off the bride's veil, then kisses his wife and dances the first family dance with her.
Then, the bride and groom must cut their wedding cake together, eat the first piece of cake together, and treat the remaining pieces to their guests.

In parting, the bride and groom thank everyone present at the holiday for the joy of sharing the holiday of love with them.

Then, all together - the guests and newlyweds rejoice at the wedding fireworks in honor of their love, which will illuminate the night sky...

We hope that you liked the wedding scenario for a small company without a toastmaster and you will definitely bring it to life.

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