What to write to a guy to get acquainted: the theory of an effective start. Romantic phrases for men

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Hello, dear readers! In order to please your loved one with pleasant words, it is not at all necessary to have writing or, especially, poetic talent. After all, you can express thoughts and feelings in the simplest words, and this will not diminish their significance in the least.

Do you still doubt that you will be able to make it beautiful and romantic enough? Especially for you, I decided to talk about how to write a truly heartfelt SMS in your own words to your loved one.

Good morning wishes

• A day that starts with a ray of goodness received via SMS from your lady love may not be the most successful and productive, but it will definitely be more joyful. Every day you can come up with new wishes. They can be tied to those matters and problems that your boyfriend has to solve during the day. Or they may simply contain affectionate words designed to support, give a charge of cheerfulness and optimism. So, we start with those same two welcoming words, and then the options could be, for example, the following:
• May you meet at least three good people who will make your day better.
• I wish that today the sore will be disappointed in you and proudly leave, taking with it fever, body aches, sore throat and fatigue!
• This day will be one of the happiest and most successful of the week! Why? Yes, I just want it that way, and a woman’s desire is the law!
• I asked the sunbeams to fly into your window, wake you up and tell you from me tender kisses and good mood. Have they already carried out my order?
• Here we are one more day closer to each other. I look forward to your arrival, dear!

Good night wishes

Wishes of good dreams in SMS to your beloved guy will set you up not only for a good dream, but also for a good awakening and a successful new day. Exactly the same as in previous version you can write about anything. The main thing is to show that the young man is very dear to you, important and necessary.

• Let the night take away all the negativity today, and in the morning you will wake up rested, joyful, renewed, ready for new achievements.
• I'm looking at the moon now. Look out the window and look at her too. Do you feel it? Now we are connected by its ghostly light...
• 10 more nights like this and we will finally meet! I'm looking forward to this magical moment, my love!
• You know, now every day I rush to bed in the evening, because dreams are now the only place where we can be close. I hope they come true soon!
• I asked Ole Lukoile to give you fabulous dreams. Before you go to bed, dress warmly. I wished that you were Aladdin, and I was Jasmine. Flying on a magic carpet at night will be cool, so... a warm sweater not prevent.

Letters about missing you and waiting for you

Experience shows that a long separation, although it brings a lot of grief, is nevertheless a test that truly loving couples can handle. Therefore, do not despair and just wait patiently for the cherished moment of meeting!

They say that not very easy and simple love usually motivates one to write poetry. But if you have no desire for this, then feel free to write an SMS in prose to your beloved man. I think it's better to express my feelings in simple words than "iambic pentameter".

• Today is exactly 2 weeks since you left, but it seems like it’s passed whole year. It's amazing how quickly time flies when you're around. And how painfully long it drags on in your absence.
• It seems to me that it was the separation that allowed us to understand how strong the feelings are. After all, usually a person begins to truly understand and appreciate those things that are inaccessible to him. So in our separation, it turns out, was hiding great wisdom. Thanks to her for this...
• I never thought I'd miss those dirty cups you always leave in the sink. By grumbling in your sleep and loud songs in your soul. By the way your stubble pricks my cheeks. It's amazing how much I really care about you. Not individually positive features, but completely and completely!

Wishing you bon appetit

I told you that there can be any number of reasons for reporting. Why not include this one here too. After all, eating is an important part of our daily routine. And to make food bring more joy, it wouldn’t hurt to flavor it not only with spices, but also with bright feelings.

• I hope you enjoy what I have prepared for you. Let the porridge give strength, fruits vital energy, and the cake will please my beloved sweet tooth.
• I recently learned that food cooked with love does not turn into belly fat. So eat with pleasure!
• Today I added a handful of tenderness and affection to the stew/borscht/pie, seasoned everything with kind words and praise addressed to you, and generously sprinkled love on top. I hope you enjoy it...

About your hopes and future together

Having found her “prince,” a woman usually soon begins to think about what she would like the relationship to look like over time. She first tries on the image of a guy, then a groom, on her chosen one, and then she begins to think about how she will write SMS about love to her husband and the father of her children... If you have been together long enough, and discussing such dreams is not something out of the ordinary , then you can safely share your thoughts with your partner.

• I'm rather looking forward to the moment when we start living together. I think about how lovingly I will prepare your food, wait for you from work, and take care of you. Being constantly nearby is wonderful, because you are my soulmate!
• Today I was walking home through the park and I met so many loving couples. I sincerely envy them and dream that soon you and I will walk like this on weekends, holding hands. And then, having inhaled fresh air, we would go home, have dinner and watch some movie.
• I like every feature of your face and character. May our children certainly take the best from you. A sweet smile, the brightness of green eyes, inner charm and kindness that make everyone around you love you.
• With your appearance in my life, I really thought about how I want to see my home, my family. Previously it was only the timid youthful dreams, which today take on the features of a real adult life, where I am already a wife and mother. Very exciting, but also pleasant at the same time!

Just about my feelings

• Only next to you I feel truly protected, only next to you can I be weak, indecisive, and trusting. Therefore, when you are not around, it is very difficult and sad for me. Let's try together to do everything possible to be close.
• The smell of your cologne remained on the pillow, on the table there was a cup of coffee you hadn’t drunk, and in the bathroom there was a tube of toothpaste that you didn’t tighten again. J You know, these little things make me incredibly happy, because they say that I’m not alone! Thank you, dear, for having me! You are my happiness, my joy and great value!
• Right now I hugged you tightly, kissed you tenderly! I love!
• I just want to say that you are very dear to me. Thank you for your care, attention, affection! For me, you are the best husband in the world! Come quickly, the cat and I are waiting for you.
• I'm sorry I snapped at you yesterday. I was wrong! It’s not your fault, I just had troubles at work that completely ruined my mood. Don't be angry... I love you!
• I have always hated men who tried to call me “theirs.” It seemed to me that by doing this they were infringing on my freedom, they wanted to appropriate me as some kind of thing. But now I realized that I simply didn’t love them. Because today the thought that I am YOURS warms my soul!
• Sorry I haven't written to you for a long time. There were difficulties at work and at home. I know that this is not an excuse, but still... Thank you for sending those wonderful flowers! The bouquet still stands and makes me happy! Let's meet on the weekend if you have time. I miss you very much, I want to see you.
• And I prepared it for you little surprise... Hurry up and come home from work, I’m waiting for you!
• I baked this pie for you (you will need to attach a photo), it will be waiting for you until dinner. Don't be late, otherwise I'll eat everything! Kiss!
• Thank you for leaving me breakfast, dear! It was amazingly tasty and incredibly enjoyable! You are the most caring and romantic in the world!!! Have you already opened your briefcase? If not, then it’s time to do it so that the delicious treat that I put in for you doesn’t spoil! You see how everything is mutual with us.

Will help you better understand how to build happy relationship with your partner and yourself. Very simple, very feminine, about the most pressing issues, the answers to which often determine the quality of life. I recommend it to my readers!

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The world of modern young people is mainly focused on social networks. Nowadays it has become bad form to get acquainted with real life. The Internet makes life easier for girls and boys. After all, this is really so, you liked a representative of the opposite sex, came home, found his page on VK, learned everything you need and don’t need about your sweetheart, perhaps even added her as a friend, and then, as they say, stupor sets in. This especially happens with the weaker sex; girls are more indecisive in matters of dating.

We were taught since childhood: a guy should be the first to take the initiative. You, of course, can continue to learn by heart the profile of the guy who has sunk into your soul, or you can pluck up the courage and write to the person who will become your destiny a few simple, but instantly well-chosen words. We'll figure out how to do this below.

How to write to a guy so that he likes it?

Initially, you need to differentiate for yourself that the words addressed to a guy you see for the first time, and then only through his VK profile, and a man with whom you had a previous relationship, will be different.

We start a correspondence with a guy we didn’t know before:

• The first word you write to a young man will say everything and almost nothing about you. It’s simple and banal: over time, the guy will completely erase his memory of how you greeted him at the beginning. However, it is this main word that will determine whether they will answer you. If you want a precise answer, write “hello” or “hello”, put a well-chosen emoticon. Of course, you can be considered original and ask the guy right off the bat any question regarding his photo on his avatar on the social network, or any of his interests. Just don't forget the words of greeting. Men are more appreciative of clarity, logic and common sense.
• Write first, but don't be intrusive. Men love initiative young ladies. At first, light small talk “about this and that” will be enough, the main thing is to use it more often positive language, embellished with healthy wit.
• Remember: few people like whiners. You shouldn’t immediately write to the man you like about the tragic death of your beloved poodle and the impact of his death on your mood. Although, if you present this information with humor, you can write. Just remember that you are not involved with this guy yet, and he will not waste his time consoling you.
• During the conversation, stick to what specifically interests your sweetheart. If he is interested in football, you can criticize the play of a player or sincerely(!) be outraged by the play of his favorite team - this will make the guy interested and want to discuss with you. The main thing here is to know when to stop and not push the young man away from you.
• It is a categorical mistake to use the words “kitty,” “bare,” and “baby” in the first days of correspondence, because this way you cross the intimate line of your interlocutor. These words appear in correspondence between people who are in love with each other, in a natural way, and this happens, as a rule, mutually. You just have to wait until the guy you like becomes yours. Then you can already swim in the sea of ​​tenderness.

Exchange of SMS, letters, messages on VK and other social networks containing various pleasant words can turn into an interesting and exciting game. You will begin to wait once again for the next message from your loved one, and he - from you.

Why do men need beautiful words?

Some girls are convinced that men should show more initiative in relationships, constantly look after their lovers and give them gifts, so they do not particularly pamper their chosen ones with special signs of attention. This is a fundamentally wrong opinion, because stronger sex it is very important to feel like someone whom his beloved admires, to be surrounded by her care and warmth, and also to constantly increase his self-esteem through pleasant words spoken to her.

No matter how selfish it may sound, beautiful words benefit both partners. A man always needs an incentive; he will not try for a woman who does not appreciate him. Praise will make him feel confident and he will have the desire to achieve new heights, because there is someone for whom. Needless to say pleasant words to your favorite guy? Definitely yes!

We write nice words to the guy on VKontakte (VK, VK)

We discussed above what is pleasant and how you can write to an unfamiliar guy in contact. Now let’s think about what words to choose for a man you know in real life through a social network. After all, it is during long correspondence that people now open up completely, sometimes revealing the most hidden corners of their soul.

What’s nice to write on VK to your favorite guy you know? a long period? You’ve been corresponding with a guy on VK for a long time, you’re entering a period of mutual exchange of tenderness and pleasantries, and you don’t want to lose that good communication. This period is truly one of the most important, because it will completely affect your future relationship with your beloved guy.

How to avoid this?

1. Write about everything, the main thing is not to cause boredom, that is, avoid messages like “Darling, I’m bored,” “I’m sitting here without you and I’m bored,” “Darling, I’m lonely.”
2. It is on social networks that you should write to the young man directly about your feelings. You can never go wrong with wording like “I’m so glad that you appeared in my life” and so on, “Thank you for understanding me.”
3. Become patient and do not start a conversation with phrases like “Where are you?” if the person is online and simply wants to take a break from communicating even with you.

We write nice words to a man in the morning

Finally, you started dating a guy and you want his morning to start with your SMS message, if you live separately, or so that your SMS dove finds its addressee at work, if you already live together.

What should you write in the morning?

• “Good morning, my dear. I slept so sweetly with you, and I didn’t notice how you left,” “Good morning, darling. How did you sleep without me? And so on. Draw his attention to yourself. It’s bad if he woke up without you, but if it’s good, then veiled thank you that you woke up together.
• Choose catchy words, if you have been dating your loved one for a long period of time, do not be afraid to write him tender words: “Darling, my pillow smells like you. Come home quickly."
• Psychologists say that self-written poems are a good clue. The main thing is to use this technique if you really have a talent for rhyming. If not, use cool ready-made poems from the Internet. Poems are more original than letters in prose.

Nice night messages

Goodnight letters depend on the degree of your relationship. When you have only had a few meetings with a man, it would be wrong to write “I would like to be next to you now,” “I can’t sleep without you.” Why? Guys do not find any romantic aura in such a phrase; they perceive it as a signal for intimacy.

When you and your boyfriend are in a long relationship strong relationships and for any reason you spend the night apart, do not forget to write: “I want to sleep on your shoulder.” Men are very susceptible to such gentle and instantly touching formulations.

If you don’t know the guy well, you can laugh it off and write: “Good night and may you dream about me.” Here again, the main thing is to transfer the attention of the guy you like to your favorite person. It would also be a good idea to send some unobtrusive poem to the guy before he goes to bed.

Pleasant SMS for your loved one is an art

SMS is a short message that can attract a guy’s attention even more than correspondence on social networks. Writing a good SMS to interest a person is an art. What nice things can you send via SMS?

1. Very very very funny joke. One that would make not only the young man laugh, but also his mother. Everyone knows that God is in a sense of humor. Be lively and witty. A spontaneous joke will improve the mood of the young man you like for the whole day ahead.
2. Again, poems of my own composition. Your boyfriend will know what is next to him creative girl, capable of writing not only messages in prose. Your sweetheart can brag about a beautiful poem to his family, colleagues and close friends, which will certainly improve his mood and self-esteem. After all, they even go to the lengths of writing poetry for his sake! Only a very callous and down-to-earth person would not like this approach. Here, too, don’t overdo it and send a poem every six months.
3. Words of praise. Your boyfriend will only be glad if you remind him more often how good, sweet, handsome, kind, and the best he is in the world.
4. Ask your boyfriend for advice more often. How do you find this or that store? Where is the best place to refuel in your area and more. This approach is especially good if you have known the guy very recently.
5. Send him an invitation to an event. Everyone loves unexpected surprises. Be the guy's grandfather Santa. More often please with all sorts of unexpected invitations somewhere.

If your communication is just beginning to develop, it is better to choose a neutral tone of messages; there is no need to overwhelm an unsuspecting guy with confessions and frank words. It’s better to let him show more initiative first - this is generally useful for the development of your relationship.

What should not be written or typical mistakes of girls?

• Don't write with mistakes. When the guy you like doesn't have impeccable literacy, don't stoop to the same thing. Be initially an authority for him, at least in matters of spelling and knowledge of his native language.
• Never make demands on yourself right off the bat. increased attention. The guy doesn't answer you for a long period? It means he's either busy or has lost interest in you. And with questions like “Where have you gone?”, “Answer me, I’m waiting,” you will not return attention to yourself, but on the contrary, you will push the person away from you. Interested guys They will always find time to write. Wait and be patient, it will pay off for you later.
• If your loved one doesn’t want to write to you, don’t even think about blackmailing him with SMS messages like “If you don’t answer, I’ll throw myself out of the window” and other similar wording. You won’t get the guy back this way, but even in this way you will leave behind only bad memories.
• You shouldn’t humiliate a guy in correspondence. You can tease him in moderation, make fun of him, but you must always remember that all people are selfish, and, once you have seriously hurt the feelings of a stranger young man, you will hardly return those pleasant impressions, which he originally made up about you.

We write nice words to the conscript soldier

One of the most pressing is the issue of correspondence between a girl and a young man who carries military service. Write him sweet letters about how you are waiting for him and how you miss him. The main thing is not to be overly sentimental, because your boyfriend also has a hard time being apart from you. Lively and interestingly describe everything that is happening in your city, on your street with your families and mutual friends. The immutable truth is that a loving heart will always find the right words, no matter how difficult it may be to find and write to your beloved guy. Be more decisive. Go for it!

Nice words for my husband

Sometimes you need to leave aside all your household chores, caring for children and pay attention to the man with whom fate brought you together. Tell him that he is important to you. Below are some phrases to express your feelings.

• Since you burst into my life, peace has appeared in my soul and happiness in my heart;
• You are the most best husband, being your wife is a great happiness!;
• I still remember the day when we, two parts of each other, united. I pray that we will never be separated;
• I happy woman. You ask why? Because I got the best husband!;
• You are my dear kitten (bunny). I need your love so much;
• For so many years you and I have been united by marriage, and you are still driving me crazy.

Send your husband a message when he is at work, at home or on a business trip. You'll see, he'll come home in an excellent mood.

Psychologists advise girls to be open, friendly, nice when communicating with a guy in correspondence and remember that you should never get hung up on any person, because this leads to personality disintegration. After some attempts to interest a man in you, stop it and turn your attention to someone else.

Often girls also ask other questions regarding correspondence with young people. They are interested, for example, in how to regain the trust of a man with whom you broke up through correspondence. There is a way out here too. Try to get along with yours ex conversation the same level as you had at the dawn of your initial acquaintance. Greet him and write about mutual friends, common interests and about what once united you. The main thing is not to be annoying.

How to tell a man about your feelings for him? What words to say to a man?

Pleasant words to your beloved and only man:
1.My gentle fluffy! I can't live without you for even one second... Even a millisecond without you is an eternity. Come quickly, my love, I’m really waiting for you!
2. Look to look…. Lips to lips... Stay close forever. I won't give you to anyone else! If necessary, I will fight. I want to be with you always. After all, I’m looking for your image everywhere... And I dream of saying “yes” to you!
3. I just opened my purse. I found my favorite phone number in it. I spent a lot of time searching. But on the phone screen there is your photo! I can't help but look at you. You are the most handsome man . I love admiring you...
4.Words of love in prose. - Where do you get so much tenderness from? If it were measured in numbers, I would simply lose count. Darling, you're driving me crazy! I promise that I will repay you in kind...
5.You picture me in your imagination…. I am also a good artist. Therefore, with all my love and warmth, I also “make”, in my mind, your impressive portrait. Do you want to see him? Please dream about me this night...
6.Words of love in prose. - The best, beloved, only! I give you all my love. And you take it as much as you want. All love is yours. All love is for you. Use it as you please. Only…. Don't kill her, I beg you!
7.What words to say to a man? - Your palm warms my soul... Dear, beloved and sweet... If you knew how much I love you...
8. There is no need to cry, neither with your eyes nor with your soul…. I will not leave, but will always be with you. I will be your angel if you want. And, love, we will fly away into the clouds together!
9. I am your new page in life. Don't tear me apart and don't burn me. I allow you to kindle only the flame of love and passions. In such a flame, believe me, I will burn with great pleasure!
10.Words of love in prose. - I love…. I love…. I love…. I love…. How many times should I repeat these pleasant words for you to believe in them without the slightest doubt? I can write down all the entrances, all the roads and all the notebooks, if you want. Perhaps everyone will get tired of my handwriting and writing, but I will never get tired of convincing you that I love you without memory...
11. Nice words to your beloved man. - Honey, I miss you so much that I can’t even work normally. All thoughts are literally filled with you. And I don’t want to get rid of this “cloggedness”. I enjoy thinking about you, devoting every moment of my thoughts. Catch my sweetness!
12.You are a prince. And I don’t care that you have neither a horse, nor palaces, nor overseas riches! You are the prince of my heart. You rule, in it, the kingdom of our love. And love, carrying me away on its wings, beautiful skies, reminds me that you are really waiting for me, and that you need me very, very much...
13.Warm and sweet words beloved man. - I will call you so as not to let go... I need you. I'll die without you…. Stay close as long as possible, I really ask you! I'll drown in your arms... I really like to drown in them... You and your eyes are the most beautiful oceans in all globe!
14.Give me your hand. Do you feel my hand reaching out to yours? And attraction is inevitable. So, let's not avoid them! Let's go meet them! I want to feel the attraction of feelings...
15.Only yours…. I don't want to be anyone's but you! With others it’s bad, sad and boring. With you it’s fun, comfortable and positive. Thank you for being with me and not someone else!
16.Words of love in prose. - Thank you for the ocean of your love... Thank you for the feelings that you give me so sincerely.... Thank you to the earth for having you on it... Without you, the earth will perish. And, along with her, I….
17. My beloved! You are the most wonderful gift on my birthday! I don't need another gift. You appeared in my life, and I will appreciate this appearance. Thank you, dear, for being with me!
18.You are a hero! You are the first who was able to conquer, without difficulty, both the top and the depth of my loving heart. Take it, it's yours! There is so much love in it... By the way, she is also yours. And I belong to you. I love you madly and passionately!
19.My angel…. You gave me your wings... And I fly without them: out of love! Forgive me that I was in a hurry then and didn’t say: “I’m coming to you, catch it!” Catch me, hold me in your arms! I want to drown in them, fall, be resurrected... And a kiss... After all, again, I want to understand how great it is to look for love in you...
20.I'm counting down the seconds until the meeting…. Here, a few more seconds flew through me, reminding me of the wait. Oh, how painful it is! I can not wait! But I am unable to turn the clock hands in any way: they do not obey me. I don’t need anyone’s submission! I really want your love... Give, share, give!
21. Snuggle up to me. You are so warm and cuddly. You are my favorite pillow. Not offended, right? I love falling asleep on your chest, to the sound of your loving heart... Your heartbeat is a lullaby. Let it sound forever! Live because I live for you….
22.What can I do for you so that you believe in the eternity of my love? I will do whatever you want: I will come into your dream, I will become the moon or the sun, I will disappear and appear, I will turn any page of life, I will say (or shout), any confession….. Tell me…. Just one word from you… And I can melt, with a drop of a smile, on your face…. Which I love very much.
23. If you give me a ring, I will, without hesitation, tell you “yes.” If you don’t give it to me, I’m ready to wait for you all eternity. You are life, you are a continuation of the lines in my destiny. And I am ready to beg for you to remain mine and with me. Do you agree?
24.Words of love in prose. - Thousands of “sorry” and thousands of “love”. Everything is for you. I can say even more. You are the light. You are the breath. You are the whisper of all the most tender words in the world. You are my luck. You are the beginning of all beginnings. You are the only person for whose sake, if necessary, I will be able to say goodbye to my only life!
25.Your name floats through me with a pleasant sound. Your name is an amber light in the twilight of loneliness. I love your name: it saves and protects me. It is my talisman. I won't give you to anyone! Never to anyone, my love.
26. Let's forget everything bad and gloomy. Let's leave everything light and bright. Let us turn our lives, thanks to each other, into a sunny rainbow... I want you to live on earth so cloudlessly and happily that all the angels who look at us from the clouds envy us with “white” envy. We, being together, will be able to repaint envy into rainbow walls...

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So, today we will try to figure out what to write to a guy so that he will respond. After all, in Lately communication between boys and girls does not last long for a long time. Either the first or the second, sooner or later, simply stop responding to incoming messages. And to prevent this from happening, you have to constantly think about new interesting questions and information. Let's try to figure out what to write to a guy to get an answer. Let's consider several types of communication with you - the Internet and telephone messages.

Getting ready

The first scenario is a completely new start to the conversation. That is, you want to meet someone. And then you have to think about what to write to the guy so that he will respond. In fact, it is very easy for a girl to interest a completely new person. You'll have to start by preparing your profile. It's about about the Internet page.

First you need to put it on your avatar beautiful photo. And yours. This will increase your chances of success. After that, start filling out the questionnaire. You should publish your interests, preferences, goals, age - everything you see fit in it. If the profile turns out to be very good and useful, then you won’t have to think about writing to the guy to get him to respond.

In the case of telephone messages, you will have to come up with original text letters. But more on that later. For now, let's try to find out how to interest the young man you like and “force” him to communicate with you.

We write the truth

Of course, if you don’t want to think about what to write to a guy so that he will answer you, then you’ll have to tell the truth. Let us know if you would like to meet. Men are structured somewhat differently than women. It is really enough for them to know that you want to chat and get to know each other better in order to continue the dialogue.

After this, you will have to talk about yourself, as well as find out information about your interlocutor. Don't overwhelm him with questions. In truth, if you're pretty good-looking, there won't be any problems at all. Then the guy himself will most likely ask you questions. And this is how your dialogue will be built. But how it should be developed is up to you to decide. And what to write to a guy so that he will respond in in this case- it’s also up to you and the circumstances. No one can say for sure where the dialogue will take you.

However, it’s worth thinking a little more about what to write to the guy to get him to respond. Examples can be created endlessly. Only you and I will pay attention to the best of them. Let's get down to business.

Date proposal

The next question works well when you know for sure that your potential interlocutor is single and is not a sexual maniac. After all, if you don’t know what to write to a guy so that he will reciprocate your feelings, then you can simply type the time and place for the date.

After this, it will be better to disappear from the “network”. That is, wait until your message is read, and then mysteriously disappear. An offer of a date, just like that, immediately, as a rule, shocks a young man. And if he likes you externally, he will definitely appear at the appointed time in the appointed place. Write something like: “Hi. Come tomorrow evening at 18:00 to the Grand Cafe. I will be wearing a red T-shirt and dark blue jeans.” You can be sure it will work.

But this method is only suitable for self-confident girls. And with great prospects too. After all, if the young man really appears, you will have to think about what to talk to him about. It is better to prepare for this in advance. An indispensable assistant there will be a virtual profile of your interlocutor. But that’s not all there is to writing to a guy to get him to respond. Let's try to figure out what other tricks are worth using.

Messages by phone

If you look at it, SMS is something that is almost always answered. This is how a person's politeness is demonstrated. Are you thinking about what SMS to write to a guy so that he will respond? For example, wish him a good day, and also ask how he is doing: at work, at school, at home, with his family, and so on. The main thing is that your “letter” is fun and interesting. For example, use something like: “Good morning. Have a good day. How are you? =) ". By the way, the smiley is playing here important role. Set them generously, but not excessively.

There is no need to find out via SMS (or in general) about those moments that may cause discomfort. For example, do not ask how a person is doing in his family if someone recently died or became seriously ill. It’s better to ask about something that will bring a lot of pleasant and positive emotions. For example, about a career or success in playing a particular game (this move is especially successfully applied to “gamers”). Your message should look something like this: “Hello! Well, did you complete GTA 5 as you wanted?”

In addition, in the evening you can wish Good night, and also find out how your day went. In particular, if you know for sure that the person’s performance turned out to be simply magnificent. This technique is well applicable to friends and old acquaintances. But there are also a few more pretty interesting options developments of events. What to write to a guy to get him to respond? Let's try to understand this difficult matter to the end.

Former

Most often girls are interested in what to write ex-boyfriend for him to answer. Especially if the breakup with him was painful, and you did not remain on friendly terms with your past beloved.

Frankly, it's not a good idea to get involved with an old relationship. If you remain friends, you can simply ask how the person is doing. Learn about successes and failures, support a friend. But if you have, to put it mildly, hostile relations with your exes, then you don’t need to write anything, in principle.

It’s better to choose a strategy of ignoring. When you are sure that your “enemy” is definitely looking at your profile, then you can simply post photos of your life on the Internet on your page. Happy moments where you look fun and interesting. Sometimes this causes your ex to text you on their own. Better yet, forget about the past and put the person on “ignore”. This will help you avoid unnecessary problems, which are far from uncommon nowadays.

Taboo topics

In fact, if you want to know what to write to a guy so that he will respond, then you should take into account several prohibitions. They apply to both women and men. And their use often makes interlocutors almost enemies.

To begin with, try not to be interested in past relationships. And don’t talk about yours until you’re asked. Often former relationship and the memories of them evoke many negative emotions and pain. And this does not bring pleasure in communication.

In addition, there is no need to ask a guy (and a girl, by the way, too) about his (her) sex life. Intimacy is a prohibition that ceases to be such only among very close friends, as well as among those who are involved in relationships.

There is no need to ask template questions. For example, “How are you?”, “How old are you?”, “Where do you live?” and so on. Often this information can be obtained from a questionnaire. You should also not pester him with questions about career, education or relationships if you think that the person is not doing well in these areas.

Summarizing

So, today we learned what to write to a guy so that he will answer you. We became aware of the most successful and original techniques. But they also do not give you an exact guarantee of an answer.

The main thing is to be original and active during the conversation. Show that you are interested in communicating with the chosen guy. Then you can always direct the conversation to the right direction. Remember also that all questions must be appropriate. There is no need to overwhelm your interlocutor with them. Dose them - and then you can hope for success.

Try to remember the happiest moments in your relationship with your loved one. Why were you happy? Was it because you and him just spent a lot of happy hours together?

Or was it because of all the little things he did for you? His words and actions that made you feel loved and important to him.

Such as how to cook it yourself for dinner your favorite dish or book a table for the evening at your favorite restaurant for two and arrange romantic date. Or organize a day of relaxation and pleasure by ordering spa services, massages and seaweed wraps.

Truly, they consist of moments like these - sincere, unexpected, touching.

But what if such manifestations of attention on his part become less and less every day? Perhaps the fact is that you do not respond to him with similar reciprocal actions. You don’t thank and don’t sincerely rejoice at his manifestations of care and love towards you.

It is important for a man to know that you are happy next to him.

SMS to your loved oneman

So where do you start? What to write to your beloved man in SMS?

My suggestion is to start with the simplest thing, with love. SMS to a man , each of which can positively impact your relationship.By the way, at the trainings that I conduct, sending"correct" SMS to a man straight from the hall. The result does not take long to arrive)

Those who visit them know that one of my recommendations is to start messages by addressing them by name, without using identifications and diminutives like"bunny, baby, teddy bear, pie" etc. As an example of one of nice SMS a man that he will definitely like if you have been very busy lately:

“Dear Sergei, forgive me for paying so little attention to you lately. Thank you for what you...(we write what he specifically did). I was very pleased! And I promise to improve" .

And now I bring to your attention 19 templates that, in combination with the above recommendation, will help you send win-win messages in any situation.SMS to your beloved man.

1. I love your (yours, yours)…

Are there people who don't like receiving compliments? When you write erotic or romantic SMS beloved man,indicate something specific and not too banal instead of an ellipsis: sexy voice, pumped up biceps, languid look etc.

1. You are the most... in this world!

Get creative with the blank you need to fill out by sending something like thislove SMS to your loved one: kind, caring, gentle, cheerful, loving, best.

1. I wish you good luck - you will be great! I believe in you.

Similar SMS to a man appropriate to send when he is preparing to participate in some important event(thesis defense, report at a conference, important negotiations on a robot). This seems rather trivial, short message can show how much you believe in his capabilities.

1. I'm just sitting here and thinking about you

Send this SMS to your beloved man, and after a few minutes follow up with something like:“I just heard our song on the radio” .

1. Miss you

Too corny? Then d add a small clarification: I miss your voice, smell, touch, strong hugs.

1. I'm so glad to have you in my life

If this SMS to your beloved manadd a line starting with"because…", you can count on special a passionate kiss at a subsequent meeting.

1. Excuse me, I’m like that)…

For example, if you are very late, write to him“Excuse me like this. I’m late and won’t be able to arrive on time.” Don’t make him wait for hours for your arrival; let him know if you don’t make it by the agreed time.

Such messages make it clear that you value his time, and therefore respect him.

1. I have little surprise for you…

It's not just children who love surprises. Grown men also go crazy from all sorts of unexpected things. This kind of spontaneity is the source vitality for long-term relationships.

1. Thank you/thank you for helping me/for pampering me...

Breakfast in bed, a gift, a day without household chores, downloaded new series my favorite series. Show appreciation for any such actions of your man.

1. I need you.

Send something like this SMS to boyfriend It’s possible if you already have one, he knows about your feelings. It is important for a man to feel needed. This will be a pleasant reminder for him.

1. You are the best because... !

Everyone needs praise from time to time. And if at the same time nice reason it is indicated that SMS to a man has a double effect.

Agree, receive message“You are the best because you do great Erotic massage» will be a great boost to his male ego.

1. Sweet dreams. I fall asleep thinking about you...

If you usually sleep in the same bed, but for some reason you are away from each other, send a gentle messageSMS to your beloved manwith this simple text and it creates the effect of your presence next to him.

1. Have a nice day, my hero!

All the tricks of love SMS to a man is to indicate the time period that he should have a good one. By doing so you are hinting that after Have a good day, he may still be waiting best evening!

1. Sorry... Let's reschedule our plans to/ I would like to ask to reschedule our plans...

People who love each other do not need thousands of words to express their regret for what they cannot accomplish. Just apologize if plans were disrupted due to your fault.

1. Can I help you?

Or even better: "Let me take care of..." . Even the most a little help V Once again will remind him of how important he is to you. Especially if this concerns small everyday moments that distract a man from his global goal. For example, iron his shirt or make coffee.

1. Be careful! You're playing with fire!

A similar message can be sent while you are sitting at festive table with a certain number of guests, and he shows minor signs of attention to other women.

1. Stop being so wonderful!

Or: cool, sexy, amazing. Despite the seemingly reproach, the subtext turns out to be very pleasant.

1. Do you want to tell me a secret?

Send this SMS to a man , pause or wait for an affirmative answer and send a phrase like:“I just can’t get last night/evening with you out of my head!” .

1. Want you!

Many SMS to your loved one can help perk him up and excite a man throughout the day. But this message will definitely set his fantasy into motion and make his heart beat wildly in anticipation.

How else can I help you?

Here are a few simple but importantSMS to your beloved man good night or instead of “with” Good morning» , which should be enough for quite a long time. Using them, you can show a man that you are constantly thinking about him.

Your support will be especially important for him. And gratitude for the actions he has done, even minor ones, can significantly pamper his ego.

In addition, reminding him of himself in the form of such SMS will also have the opposite effect - he will think more about you, and this will have a positive impact on your relationship.

Try sending one of these SMS messages to a man right now, if you really are. He will be really pleased. If you can, post his reaction in the comments. This will be interesting to know!

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It doesn’t matter whether you’ve just met or you’ve been dating for months, SMS is only useful in two cases: for entertainment or for organizational purposes.

In general, everything is clear with organizational goals. For example: you are late; or the cafe where you agreed to meet is closed on Sundays; the president has arrived in the city, and the street you need is blocked; your house is on fire and you need to reschedule a meeting - these are all obvious reasons to send an SMS.

Another reason is to create intrigue, interest and value. Your messages should be cheeky, playful and funny. Let them demonstrate your wit and sense of humor or even tempt a man. Let's say you can send him a message: “I was watching a movie, and it just dawned on me that you remind me a lot of Bruce Willis...” But don’t tell him what exactly. When he asks about it (and he will), mention one common detail, for example: he also raises his eyebrows, or he has the same intense gaze, or they are both men who suit jackets, or they both show composure in stressful situation. Your goal is to give a subtle compliment. But don't make it too explicit (for example, don't write: "Because you're both very sexy"). Don't be suggestive or offensive. The best option- compliment-joke.

Or send an SMS, which will be equivalent to a friendly poke in the shoulder. This is enough to get his attention and makes him respond in kind. After the date, you might write something like, “I thought you should know this: Last night I saw that there were a lot of Whitney Houston songs on your iPod. Should I be worried about this?...” Or put it another way and mention something you like: “I’ve never seen a man with so much eighties music on his player. Very impressed...” This works great because he gets the impression that he has passed some kind of test without knowing it.

SMS is a spark of communication designed to pique his interest, not a medium for endless idle chatter or a replacement for real conversation. The trick to texting is to keep the texting moderate but effective. There is no room for long essays and exchange of everyday news. Save such topics for personal meetings. Texting a man for hours may make you feel like you're building rapport, but that's an illusion. If the element of intimacy and confession is too strong in your messages (and forget about texting under the influence of alcohol!), then at the next personal meeting your interaction will be somewhat constrained, because now in your SMS relationship there will be an element of personal contact and intimacy, which not in real life.

SMS that cannot be sent

Just as our conversations can become boring, sometimes people send text messages on autopilot. One of the worst texts that you can send to a man according to the rules of SMS correspondence: “I'm dying of boredom! What are you doing?"

This kind of text is a real depressant. He tells the man that you are bored, and therefore you will have to be entertained. In addition, it gives him almost no opportunity to flirt, tease, or write anything cheeky. When a man receives a message from you, he should feel a slight emotional uplift. It could be just fun because you wrote something funny, or interest, or a desire to smile because you're flirting a little - in short, anything will do, just don't burden him with the routine duty of describing your day in SMS. If you don’t know what to write, ask his opinion on some issue. For example: “My friends and I are going to watch a horror movie today, but I never watch horror movies. Do you recommend anything?

Provocative message

What if you met a man, you had a great conversation, you exchanged numbers, but several days have passed and you have not yet heard from him?

The reason may be that he has lost interest in you, but never speculate on this topic. Maybe he really is up to his neck in work and is unable to think about the love of his life this week. If you clearly see that “the love has passed, the tomatoes have withered,” then you can erase this guy from your memory. But there is one message you can send to him: it will allow you to clear all doubts.

Rule for SMS correspondence with a man: send this message around nine o’clock in the evening. Why such precision? Because you already have plans for this evening: you are going to a party, to a pub, to a concert, an exhibition opening, a bowling tournament, etc. You need to send him when it is too late for him to rush out and meet you ; The whole trick is that the moment was chosen unwisely. And then you send him the following text: “I’m at the Jazz Bar.” They play great, be sure to come!”

You tell him where you are and why it’s so great there, and end with the words “be sure to come.”

“Be sure to come” - these are words that breathe with confidence. They show how confident you are. The point of this message is to give him a chance to do something. You completely hand over the initiative to him. You're communicating that you're out and about and having a good time with other people, so the message doesn't make you feel desperate. But at the same time you hint that you would be pleased if he were there with you. Here's the thing, though: you don't really count on him to show up. That is why you invite him when it is already quite late, as if this thought came to your mind in last moment. Why? Because in this case, if he cannot come now, but still wants to see you, he will send you a reply SMS with an offer to meet another time. Or, if he does decide to come, you're already having a good time and he might just join you. You win in both cases and, even if he is not interested at all, you still have nothing to lose. You stay in the same position as before and don't expose yourself by asking him out. However, you should only send such a message when you are actually having fun somewhere. Don’t sit depressed, thinking that he won’t come anyway! If he likes you, there's a chance he'll do it!

Use the affirmative form

Often during SMS correspondence it is much more effective to use statements than questions. If you send a man an SMS with the text: “Tonight the whole company is going to such and such new restaurant. Come have dinner!” - this indicates a level of confidence that men are not used to seeing in women. It's like saying, "I'm going to a great place with great people, and you should come with us." If he likes you, all he has to do is say yes. And if he can’t make it out that evening, let him simply reschedule the meeting for another time, that is, in this case you shift the organization of your date to him. The move is perfect because it is elegant.

To interest the guy you like, you need to write him something original and funny. You should not openly tell him about your feelings and complain about life, talk about your problems and correspond on intimate topics. For a guy to fall in love with a girl, it must be comfortable, easy and pleasant for him to correspond with her, since men love cheerful and witty women.

You can’t be too intrusive and send messages with questions and complaints if the guy doesn’t write. And also you should not make fun of the guy, write vulgar jokes or various insults to him.

Examples of successful phrases

If a young man has “disappeared”, you can write first. He will appreciate such a bold step. Phrases and questions that will make a guy smile:

• If a man’s avatar shows an expensive foreign car - “I’m very curious, are you as cool as this car? "Photo of a guy sitting at a computer - "Take your eyes off the screen and turn around - because I'm standing behind you! »
• “You are so impudent and brutal and... not my type at all :)”
• “Keep your nose up, don’t be sad, let’s study the starry sky instead of just looking at your feet.”
• “I thought about it and decided to agree.” The guy will definitely ask: “Agree with what? » Write back: “What can you offer? :)”
• “I learned today from smart book that a person uses more than 80 different muscles when smiling. So let's pump them up right now! »

A girl needs to write correctly. Light flirting with a man is welcome. You should remain enigmatic and mysterious so that your partner wants to get to know the girl better.

Compliments to a man

Romantic messages

To make your lover understand that he is needed and loved, you can write to him about your feelings, wish him good morning and good night. Examples of messages you can write to a guy:

• “Only you are in my thoughts, my heart has long belonged to you, you are my soul mate and destiny! I know that you were thinking about me too, I can feel it! »
• “There are no words in the world to express my emotions towards you, it is impossible to say in words, you can only feel with your heart all that love and tender feelings which I have for you."
• “The morning has come, today it will be the kindest, because you will arrive soon and I will be able to hug you tightly and kiss you from head to toe :)”
• “One girl was incredibly lucky in this life, because next to her a real man! »
• “Hello, the best and dearest, I miss you terribly. I dream of seeing these bottomless eyes and drowning in them.”
• “You are brilliant, smart, talented, beautiful and sexy. And most importantly - mine! »
• “My body remembers your gentle touches and longs to meet your strong hands. I miss you, pamper me with your attention.”

With humor

Cool messages to your loved one:

• “I wish you erotic-strawberry-vanilla dreams, my sweetie, because I not only appear in real life, but also unceremoniously burst into your dreams.”
• “I know and feel that you are definitely hiding something! "The young man will be surprised and ask what exactly. “How you miss me now! »
• “Don’t call, text, or look for me anymore, because I won’t even talk to you... Do you want to know why? It's very simple - I was at a doctor's appointment, and he categorically forbade eating sweets! »
• “Dear subscriber, there is a negative balance on your account - 1000 kisses are missing. Please pay within 24 hours, otherwise your balance will be blocked forever.”
• “Darling, there are no more people like you in this world, there never have been, and... don’t! »
• “I was thinking in my spare time, can you imagine, you and I have so much in common - we both love... me! »
• “I’ll show up to you on the full moon, sneak under your blanket, find the most delicious place on your body. Your little mosquito."
• "Attention! You are surrounded on all sides, resistance is useless. I suggest you surrender voluntarily. All-encompassing love."
• “Please, just don’t be scared if one fine day a bearded old man bursts into your room, stuffs you into a big red bag and drags you in an unknown direction. It was I who wished you to Santa Claus as a New Year’s gift.”
• “Five hundred thousand little chipmunks are no comparison to your fluffiness and softness! »
• "How can? When will this finally end? Stop immediately! Why the hell don't you leave my thoughts for a second? If you continue in the same spirit, I will soon be fired from my job, because in my head there is only you and nothing else. Be human, let me work a little! »