How to behave correctly between a woman and a man in building a personal relationship. How to behave with a man so that he falls in love: important recommendations

Often girls aged 16-20, and sometimes 40 years old, do not know how to behave with a guy. They are shy, pretending to be Miss Inaccessible, a calculating bitch, a little girl, a tough chick, or something worse. Of course, such a mask can arouse interest, but for how long? As a rule, no. If the plan is long-term, the girl needs to express herself differently. But how to behave correctly with the guy you like? Today I will tell you a couple of secrets, after learning which you will never be abandoned or rejected again.

Healthy selfishness

Surprisingly, it is rational egoism that main secret success among men. It really doesn't matter what you look like. The only thing that matters is how you treat yourself. Surely you have noticed couples in which he or she is, to put it mildly, “not very good.” Or they watched how unremarkable girls successfully built relationships, while sultry beauties spent evenings alone. Does this surprise you? I'm not here.

It is impossible to love a person who does not love himself. Even if a girl is super beautiful, but constantly finds flaws in herself and is afraid to express herself, then the guy will very soon perceive her the same way. In addition, with low self-esteem, a person often swallows grievances and insults and does not know how to build personal boundaries. Healthy Relationships It's difficult to build with it.

But how to express this very healthy egoism? Just love yourself. Sincerely, with all the shortcomings. Every person is valuable in their own way. Even if you don’t look or feel great right now, you don’t need to focus on it. Never lower your head, keep it high. Don't overdo it.

Continue to improve yourself and take care of yourself. Try to do this out of love for yourself, and not for the evaluation of others. Remember dignity. Don’t run after the guy, he must still try harder to get such a valuable “prize”. But don’t be arrogant, be open to communication.

Facial expression and body language

How do animals understand each other? That's right, by body movements. This the oldest way communication, and between people too. So, if you constantly cross your legs and arms, then you are closing yourself off from your interlocutor. If you constantly look around, you are demonstrating boredom. To win over a guy, you need to behave as follows:

Communication style

Do you know what irritates guys most about girls? Excessive talkativeness, squealing and swearing. Firstly, guys simply cannot absorb large flows of information. Especially if they are full of unimportant details. Their attention simply turns off, they stop listening to the girl altogether. Secondly, the shrill high notes that girls hear when they are excited are very hard on the ears. Well, thirdly, swearing. Of course, this is part of our rich Russian language and sometimes it is truly impossible to do without it. But if a girl uses strong words in every sentence, then you get the feeling that you are not communicating with a beautiful creature who needs care and love, but with a rude, uncouth man.

Now about how to behave correctly with a guy. There are just a few important rules:

1. Keep it short and to the point, especially if we're talking about about something important.
2. If you need to ask a guy for something, don't use hints. Ask openly.
3. Listen carefully, ask, find common interests and topics for conversation.
4. Watch your intonation. A calm, chesty voice has a seductive effect on guys. Shrill, on the contrary, repels.
5. Don't give details about former relationship, even if he asks himself. All information will definitely be used against you.

Showing feelings

Many girls run after a guy, fight him off from their rivals and, as a result, get their way. You can do this if you are not afraid that your lover will become arrogant and treat you with disdain. In this case, you need to be prepared for the fact that you will have to continue to constantly prove the “worthiness” of your candidacy. But it's better to do it differently.

You need to express your sympathy to a guy unobtrusively, using all your feminine cunning. For example, you can ask him to fix something at home, and use the excuse to feed him delicious food. Guys also love it when they are sincerely admired and talk about any topic openly and honestly. Friendly, unobtrusive communication, manifestation of one’s feminine qualities- this is the key to success. The guy will pursue such a girl himself.

Behavior in conflict situations

Often girls do not know how to behave with a guy during a quarrel or showdown. Not everyone can control themselves when they are overcome by resentment, anger or jealousy. But everything can be learned. Let's look at some of the most common conflict situations:

Finally, I would like to touch on one more burning topic. Almost all girls dream of being taken seriously, while guys just want to “hang out.” All vows and assurances of love remain just words. And now little advice. For things to get really serious, you need to not only pay attention to how you behave with a guy, but also develop yourself and the relationship. It is important to get to know your parents and strive to create your own own family. Then you will definitely succeed. Good luck!

Olga, Saratov

Irina Davydova

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New job - new life. And this means that you will have to gain authority in the team again. Respect for employees does not come naturally. We must try to ensure that the team accepts the newcomer - or, what is even more difficult, to recognize him as an unspoken leader.

• The first rule is to always look good. They are greeted, as they say, by their clothes, but they are seen off by their minds. Therefore, everything is important - hairstyle, shoes, makeup. You should prepare for work just as carefully as you would for a date. After all, everyone knows that it is more pleasant to work with neat and well-dressed people than with sloppy, dirty people.

• Try to be confident. Speak loudly and clearly. Don't mumble or jabber. Your speech should be calm and confident. And be sure to smile at people!
• When talking to new colleagues, look them in the eyes - this emphasizes your interest in communication and suggests that you are not shy in front of them. If you cannot do this, then look at the point between the eyebrows or on the bridge of the nose. And the interlocutor will think that you are looking straight into their eyes.
• Try to remember names. Contact us immediately by first name or patronymic. After all, it has long been known that the most pleasant sounds for a person are the sounds of his name.

• Be friendly and sociable. Get involved in conversations, share your knowledge and opinions.
• Don't allow yourself to be rude and rude. Some people need to be bold towards other people to maintain a sense of confidence. This bad habit ruined more than one person's life. If you have one, then fight it.
• Take up more space. An insecure person is revealed by his modest location in space. He sits on the edge of the chair, tries not to disturb anyone, his elbows are pressed, his legs are crossed under the chair. Remember how you behave in pleasant company. And try to take the same poses.
• Maintain your posture and gesticulate less. If you are a leader, then this should be your first rule. After all, a boss should look like a boss—seriously, personably and boldly.

• Be sincere. Even if you need to embellish something to make the right impression, don't do it. This will give you a bad reputation.
• Don't promise what you can't deliver. Keep your word always and everywhere. Otherwise, you can be branded as a talker.
• In any work process, there are moments when your help may be needed. This is fine. But, helping colleagues, don't make it too emotional . Such complete dedication may look like sycophancy to some people. And others may feel that you consider them incompetent workers or simply stupid people. After all, only small children who don’t know how to do anything are so joyfully helped.
• Learn to refuse tactfully - so as not to offend the person. After all, due to the fact that it is inconvenient to say “no”, you may not have time to complete the task assigned to you. Politely apologize or offer to help after you've done what your boss told you to do. Read also:
• If you are a leader, it is very important to learn how to protect your subordinates and defend their interests. This does not mean that you will constantly indulge them. This means that what you think about them, you create for them. Better conditions labor. Show you care from the first day of work!
• Work conscientiously. If the newcomer is lazy, then the entire team understands that the unfulfilled volumes will fall on their shoulders. And no one wants to overexert themselves.

• Constantly learn, develop as a specialist, a leader and simply as a person . There is no limit to perfection, and your desire to grow will be appreciated.
• In the first days, do some reconnaissance — take a closer look at the team. Who is friends with whom, what are the conversations about, what kind of people are here.
• Every team has gossipers. You shouldn’t join them, but you shouldn’t wage war with them either. Because either way you will lose. The best option- listen to the person and leave under a good excuse. Under no circumstances should you discuss the news you hear with anyone. After all ideal remedy the fight against gossip is complete ignorance.
• Participate in community life – it strengthens the team. If everyone is going to a restaurant, a theater, a movie, or a community cleanup, go with them.
• Don't try to please everyone - it's impossible . Be yourself. Because individuals with their own opinions and way of thinking are valued everywhere.
• Learn to enjoy other people's successes. This emphasizes your friendliness.
• Take criticism appropriately . You need to listen to her, and if you do not agree, calmly express your opinion. But don’t shout, don’t get personal, and don’t get offended.
• Accept people as they are . You should not impose your opinion, your ways of solving problems and organizing work moments. Everyone decides for themselves how to live and how to work.
• Determine right away who you report to. And follow the instructions of only superior people. Since in almost any team there are those who like to boss around newcomers.
• Try not to show excitement - breathe deeply.
• Don't act like a bore or a know-it-all. The first few days, simplicity will not hurt.
• Don't reveal yourself completely to your colleagues. And this rule applies not only to beginners. Not everyone needs to know what problems you have at home, what your relationship with your husband and children is like. Why wash dirty linen in public? There is a world into which there is no entry for outsiders. Let your colleagues know only about your marital status.
• Don't engage in idle chatter in the workplace. The sad fact is that instead of completing assigned tasks, chatterboxes come to work just to chat. They try to fire these employees as soon as possible. Neither their bosses nor their colleagues like them.

Often, after a quarrel with a loved one, many women think that if a man is not afraid of losing them (or simply does not express this in any way, although deep down he is very afraid), this means that he does not love them, does not appreciate them, does not feel for them no feelings at all.

Such women most often make mistakes. If it is not scary for him to lose his beloved, it means that he simply has not yet realized how dear she is to him.

Unfortunately, very often it is at this stage that novels end. She leaves, tired of trying to attract his attention, and he realizes his feelings for her, as they say, after the fact. How to behave so that a man is afraid of losing without breaking off relations with him? The “by contradiction” method will help answer this question more accurately.

How not to behave

For a man to be afraid of losing you, you need to adhere to the right line of behavior. First, let's look at what you should never do, because the result will be completely opposite:

1. Tell him directly that you are going to do something in this direction. On your part, this will be a banal provocation that will only lead to quarrels and insults
2. Openly flirt with other men. This may make him angry and he will simply lose interest in you.
3. Follow your emotions and call him every five minutes if he is busy at work or goes out with friends. He will think that you have no other interests besides him, which means he has nothing to fear, i.e. he can behave the way he wants.

It is very important to know one truth: a man is afraid of losing a woman if he even once had to think about the possibility of such an incident.

How to plant such thoughts in his head?

1. He is not the only thing in your life . Let him understand this. For example, if he warned in advance that he would go out with friends, do not call him, constantly asking where he is and with whom. If it becomes completely unbearable, send an SMS with kind words or a funny emoticon. This will raise doubts in his soul, why you didn’t call him yourself, what are you doing so interesting without him. If he asks about this, answer with an innocent look that you watched a film that has interested you for a long time, but which your boyfriend still hasn’t found the time to watch together.
2. Make it clear that other men are paying attention to you . This needs to be done very unobtrusively, carefully and casually. If a man is afraid of losing a woman, even if he doesn’t express it in any way, such a “revelation” will be more than enough for him. Tell us, for example, how a stranger gave you a seat on the bus and tried to start a conversation, or about an impudent guy who wants to meet you in line at the clinic. Representatives of the stronger sex are hunters by nature, and a man is afraid of losing a woman if he sees potential rivals.
3. Hint to him that soon you may have to long separation. Of course, this must be done extremely carefully. You can, for example, be interested in exchange programs with other countries. You don’t even have to take part in competitions to go abroad. It’s enough just to think out loud how interesting and informative it would be. When is a man afraid of losing a woman? Then, when there is a risk that he will not see her for a long time.

How to behave so that a man is afraid of losing? You just need to follow a few simple rules. They will be discussed further.

Develop in yourself what makes him dependent on you

Any relationship is built on interdependence. And that's okay. It is likely that he cannot imagine his life without the comfort that you create in the house, without your tenderness and even a smile, and, ultimately, without the food prepared by you. You, in turn, also feel a certain dependence - on his money, position in society and interesting conversations with him... In general, situations are different. Determine what it is about you that is especially dear to him, and focus on it, develop it in yourself in every possible way. Does he sleep long on Sundays and like to treat himself to junk food? Allow him to do this... occasionally. Let him sleep, and you quietly get up and prepare him his favorite dish. He will be very pleased. Or run to McDonald's and buy him a big bag of fast food. How to behave so that a man is afraid of losing you? Sometimes indulge his whims, but you shouldn’t always do this, otherwise he will get used to it and stop perceiving such little things as joy.

Be independent for him!

How to make a man afraid of losing? Always be at some distance from him. Know how to provide for yourself, don’t be jealous, don’t arrange an inspection check of his phone or Email at the first suspicion of interest in other women. If he wants to cheat on you, he will do it without you finding out. Find favorite hobby, develop in every possible way, otherwise he will stop appreciating you and lose all interest. What kind of woman is a man afraid of losing? Smart, independent, unobtrusive, who can easily support any conversation. In general, someone with whom he will be pleased to appear in society, whom he is not ashamed to introduce to friends or parents. The main thing is not to forget about himself during all these activities, take an interest in his affairs, love him and respect him.

Be a friend to him

It's not just women who need to be heard. Men need this no less. Be interested in his affairs, ask about work, friends, hobbies, plans, successes. But don't overdo it. It shouldn't look like an interrogation. If he doesn’t want to talk about something, don’t intrude, put off questions until next time.

Peace of mind is the most important thing

Always be calm. Even if a conflict arose and the man made a mistake in something, calmly explain to him exactly what he was wrong about. Some, of course, like Italian passions and scandals that entertain the whole street. But this is rather an exception to the rule. The majority of representatives of the stronger sex still want meetings with the woman they love to not be a burden for them. Understand that they need a “safe haven” in which to relax after a busy day.

A man should always feel like a winner

Since ancient times, men have fought or at least simply competed with each other. They fought for better land the best food, the best woman. How to behave so that a man is afraid of losing? You just need to let him fight for you and... be the winner. Be a goal, a dream for a man... Rejoice in his victories with him and do not take his defeats into account. He will definitely appreciate it and will be afraid of losing it.

Little tricks

How to behave so that a man is afraid of losing his love? Sometimes cancel your meetings citing important matters. The main thing is not to overdo it and maintain such a period of time that he gets bored, but does not think that you have found someone else or are simply avoiding meeting. Of course, it’s hard not to see your loved one for several days, but you want results, don’t you? To make it not so hard, take care of yourself - visit a cosmetologist, take a walk with your friends, go shopping. There is another option for behavior - always be different. All women are actresses to one degree or another, so change your looks every day. Today you are Turgenev’s girl, a poet’s dream, tomorrow you are a sexy kitty who will drive any man crazy, the day after tomorrow you are a smart intellectual or a cheerful girl who is “your guy.” He will not know how he will see you next time, and this will add novelty to your relationship and even some piquancy.

He is not the only man in your circle

We have already touched on this topic a little higher. Give him the opportunity to understand that you are only his woman... at least for now. Never force yourself on him. Just casually mention that you are meeting a classmate in a cafe today (of course... you haven’t seen each other for so long, you have something to talk about!) or that you will be late at work because a colleague promised to help you finish a complex report. Don't hesitate - he will immediately want to meet his classmate or come running to meet you from work. Ideal option will end up together in a company where there are several men who like you. Show everyone little signs of attention - smile at someone else, joke with someone else. But not more!

There is no need to openly flirt. Behave in such a way that they enjoy communicating with you, but not in such a way that they can make far-reaching plans. You want men to compete with each other for your attention, and not see you as a cheap doll. How to behave so that a man is afraid of losing you? Show that other guys are also interested in you, but for now the only one for you is only him.

When a man and a woman start dating, it is very important for the woman to learn the basic principles of behavior with a man so that he has a desire to have a long-term and stable relationship with her.

Everyone has probably heard about the so-called femme fatales, who have no end to men, and because of which men are ready to perform feats and madness.

At the same time, some women cannot keep a man near them for a long time. What's the matter? In beauty? Or maybe in fantasy sexuality?

Women who are successful with men are not always like Hollywood stars. Most of them have an ordinary, average appearance, and their talent to conquer and conquer men is based solely on the ability to behave correctly when building personal relationships! These women instinctively feel what behavior to follow in order to make a man fall in love with them and force him to play by his own rules.

But even if a woman is not naturally endowed with a subtle psychological sense, she may well learn to communicate correctly with men - it is only enough, when communicating with them, to always follow several rules of behavior.

Maintain self-esteem

No matter how a relationship with a man develops, a woman should always present herself with dignity. A woman who loves and respects herself emanates a very strong charisma that attracts men like a magnet, which no beauty can replace.

A self-respecting woman will never behave with a man in the following way:

• run after him;
• ask in an ingratiating tone: “Darling, do you honestly love me?”;
• stalk a man and make him jealous;
• beg the man not to leave her.

Even if a man does not leave a woman who has lost all self-respect because of her love for him, he will inevitably begin to look down on her, and will never take into account her opinions, desires and interests.

Be well-groomed

Not all women are naturally given perfect appearance, but any woman, with the help of skillful makeup, stylish hairstyle and fashionable clothes can bring himself to perfection, skillfully hiding flaws and emphasizing the advantages of his appearance.

Never show a man your selfishness and prudence.

Even if the woman doesn't care financial position men, she should never behave with a man in such a way that this interest in his money is clearly visible. Which man - rich or poor, generous or stingy - will certainly become clear in the process of communicating with him. To understand this, it is not at all necessary to drag him to the most expensive restaurant in town or beg for money and expensive gifts. A woman who does not consider it necessary to hide her selfish motives will be run away equally quickly by both a greedy and a generous man. After all, no man is unpleasant to realize that a woman needs him only because of money!

The manner of behavior with a man should be natural

Every woman has a “zest” that is unique to her and lies in her unique individuality. It is this uniqueness that a woman should be able to find and emphasize with the help of clothes, makeup, and demeanor. A woman who tries to imitate someone or is mannered and puts on an artificial mask loses her own “zest”, becoming faceless and uninteresting.

Be easy and pleasant to communicate with

From the first days of dating, you should never start burdening a man with your problems, complaining about life, or organizing heated debates on political topics. Such behavior, firstly, is somehow unfeminine, and secondly, it spoils romantic mood, thirdly, men do not like problematic and boring women. It is appropriate to complain about your problems only when the relationship between a man and a woman will last for many days.

Talk less about your past

A woman’s frank and detailed stories about her relationship with her “ex” can cause, at a minimum, irritation in a man. And if a man himself starts asking about the reason for breaking up with former lovers, it’s better to answer something like: “they didn’t get along,” without going into unnecessary details. A woman must understand that when touching on this topic of conversation, she must conduct a dialogue with a man very carefully: based on everything she tells, the man will definitely draw far-reaching conclusions. And in general, the less information a man has about a woman, the higher his interest in her. There should always be some kind of mystery and understatement in a woman.

Be an independent person

For a man to be truly attracted to a woman, she must be a bright personality - have her own interests, hobbies, hobbies, be self-sufficient and independent. No matter how much a woman loves a man, she should never completely dissolve in him. It often happens that a man first completely subjugates a woman to himself: he forces her to quit her job, give up communication with friends, her favorite hobby, and then loses all interest and respect for her. And, conversely, than smaller woman depends on the man, the more he wants to conquer her and the more he is afraid of losing her.

These were the basic rules on how to behave with a man in order to always remain the one, unique and desired woman for him!

Any girl wants to please a young man who really likes her. This can happen not only at 14 or 16 years old, but even at 20 years old. Do you feel confused because you don't know how to behave with a guy in order to hook him?

Do you want Serious relationships, but at the same time you are afraid of making a mistake. In this article you will find 18 tips on how to behave and what not to do in relationships with guys. It doesn’t matter where: at school, at a party, in a cafe, on a date or at home.

By following these tips, he will definitely like you. Therefore, carefully read this article to the end.

How to behave correctly with a guy

We may not be able to change environment around us, but we certainly can change our own behavior. Thanks to which we can attract into our lives worthy person. Below you will find 11 tips for how girls should behave with guys.

1. Show your confidence

There's nothing more attractive to a girl than a confident guy who knows he's good, knows what he wants in life, and is comfortable in his own skin.

The same applies to guys. They are also attracted to confident girls. To them, this is a signal that it took her certain time. This means that she knows how to achieve her intended goal.

So discover your strengths. Learn to be happy even when you are alone. Don't act like you're completely dependent on male attention.

2. Give him enough space without becoming a psychopath.

The right way to treat a guy is to give him space. Some girls try to keep a guy by calling him 24 hours a day, 7 days in a row. Constantly flickering before his gaze, arranging supposedly random meetings, if it works, it doesn’t last long. Sooner or later he will be fed up with this, which means he will want to get rid of it.

The easiest way to keep a guy is to let him go. The less you try to control his every step, the more he will strive for you. Because when you trust him 100%, he will make every effort to maintain that trust.

So how should you behave with a guy?

Instead of putting pressure on him by imposing yourself on him, stop “smothering” him with your attention. The correct behavior strategy here would be to know your worth, and not to fill it. This principle is based on a clear understanding of male psychology.

Guys like it when their motivation to act is based on a personal desire or decision, and not when they are forced into it. In addition, they like to “conquer” something rather than take it for nothing.

So don't be afraid to give him time for himself, his friends, work, or whatever he needs. Make a guy chase you with your behavior!

3. Be feminine

Gone are the days when girls were always feminine and boys were always masculine. Now girls are becoming more and more masculine (in behavior, habits, manners), and guys behave like complete losers, without self-confidence and determination.

“A good guy is hard to find,” that’s what we girls usually say. But, according to many guys, it’s even more difficult these days to find a good, kind, affectionate, feminine girl.

Quote: Girls care less and less about themselves morally or mentally. Increasingly, taking care of yourself consists only of making your appearance attractive. They “roam” around nightclubs and streets, drinking a lot of booze (scary). It may be cool, but it's clearly not my cup of tea. Good friend- above all, feminine, who knows how to present herself.

From this statement it is clear that you do not have to spend all your time in the kitchen or live the life of a housewife. You just need to be a girl who knows how to teach or act more feminine. Be with feminine appearance, manners, habits. This is our charm and the guys want us to use it skillfully.

4. No matter how much you want it, DO NOT try to change him.

In your dreams, your chosen one appears before your eyes as a charming person - perfection itself? Believe me, you are not alone! But if it’s really important for you girls to know how to behave with a guy, then you should forget about your unfulfilled fantasies.

Otherwise, you will face constant disappointment. If you try to “re-educate” your partner, especially at the beginning of a relationship, this will lead to constant clashes.

Therefore, the smartest way is to learn to accept your young man with its shortcomings and strengths. But, if you cannot put up with his shortcomings, but he is comfortable with them, then it is better to break up.

5. Become helpless sometimes

One of best rules how to behave with a guy - show yourself a little helpless, shy. This method responds to the inherent male instinct to “protect his woman.” I assure you, it works great. To successfully apply this rule use the following:

Be afraid. Simple things like fear of spiders, real or not, need to be shown openly. This will awaken in the young man the desire to protect you from all dangers. After all, protection is the basis in any relationship between a couple.

Forgetfulness. Another classic situation is to forget a sweater or jacket. Thus, he will be forced to lend you his things. This is a typical cinematic situation. But it still works.

Indecisiveness. Even if you consider yourself a confident girl, sometimes you need to show yourself to be indecisive or doubtful about certain things. Play this game while you are with him to your advantage. This will encourage him to make a decision again. This way you create the atmosphere of the girl in need of protection that you are looking for in him.

How to behave in a relationship with a guy

Whether you agree or not, the ideal girlfriend is not only faithful, she knows how to trust her boyfriend, showing what he means to her. He needs to feel it! Therefore the following advice:

6. Don’t give him a reason to be jealous, but rather learn to trust

The best way to do this is not to monitor his correspondence, do not double-check phone numbers, do not delve into notebook. When a guy feels that he is trusted, he does not resort to deception, he does not have to dodge, which means he feels good. But when there is no trust in him, he is being watched, he feels “in a cage,” so he resorts to all kinds of tricks and deception.

Remember, surveillance, mistrust, doubts, and double-checks cannot keep a guy down. This ultimately inevitably leads to a break in the relationship. Well, if your boyfriend is a womanizer, then it’s better to end the relationship and not torment yourself. Focus on finding a worthy person.

7. Love yourself, even when it seems like there is nothing to love

Another important tip on how to behave with a guy. Believe me, ask: “Am I fat, ugly?” 20 times a day - it's annoying. Stop being unsafe with your boyfriend, there's probably nothing attractive about it.

It is difficult for a guy to find a girl attractive and love her if she treats herself poorly. So do everything you can to feel great own body or image. When you love yourself, the more confidence you exude positive energy that attracts people to you.

Every day when you look at yourself in the mirror, focus not on your shortcomings, but on what you have that is attractive. This approach can change your life. By the way, changing your image can help with this, new hairstyle, different makeup.

Do good deeds and make others happy - this will give you more “life credit”, which means it will help you feel better. Make other people happy and you will be happier. It is so simple. A friend who radiates positive energy, who smiles every day and enjoys life, is definitely best girl for a guy than a gloomy and always dissatisfied lady with herself.

8. The right attitude towards his friends

This is an important detail of how a girl should behave with a guy. Guys think there's nothing worse than a girlfriend who doesn't like his friends and openly complains about them.

Sure, his best friend may be an "idiot" but he still considers him his best friend. You can give it to your boyfriend friendly advice if you consider some of his friends for him bad company, but not in aggressive form. Let him make his own decisions.

A smart girl tries to treat a guy's friends well, even just out of pure respect. She understands that the worst thing you can do in a relationship is to give the guy ultimatums so that he chooses between her and his friends. This definitely does not make a girl attractive in the eyes of a guy.

Remember, you are his girlfriend, not his mother. So by continuing to complain about his friends, you may just end up being annoying and an "ex."

How to behave correctly and nicely in this case with a guy, you ask? If you want to change his social circle, then approach it like a game of chess, not a computer strategy. Take your time. Again, do not destroy his “power base” - the friends whom he considers the only people who understand him.

The best thing to do is to encourage him to meet new people interesting people to expand your social circle. Introduce him to your acquaintances and friends, inviting them to visit.

Once a young man “grows up,” he will outgrow his friends. He just won't be interested in them. And the most important thing is that the guy won’t even guess about your chess combination, since he will make the decision himself.

9. Think about your own life

This is the next tip on how to behave correctly with a guy in your relationship. Life is unpredictable and everything can change dramatically overnight. It is impossible to calculate everything.
Today you love your boyfriend, maybe even your future husband, but tomorrow - who knows what will happen? You don't know if you will still love him in 5 years.

Things change. You change, he changes, love, affection between you can grow more and more, or vice versa, it can become less and less day by day.

That's why you must have a life outside of your relationship, so that one day you don't end up broke, a devastated, lonely lady. Therefore, do not forget about own life.

Try to develop, become a better person, communicate and meet new people, maintain friendships and create new ones friendly relations. This will help you not to depend on someone, either emotionally or financially. This means not falling into the trap of this psychological burden.

You need to have something that you can be truly passionate about. And believe me, it will make you as well as your relationship stronger, thus making you a better girlfriend.

Having your own life outside of your relationship has crucial, in order for these relationships to survive. Otherwise, you and your boyfriend will be too dependent on each other. This addiction can be a trap, making you weaker rather than stronger.

10. Be better than all his ex-girlfriends

If you don’t know this yet, I’ll open your eyes. Men compare everything to their past personal experience. Unconsciously, your boyfriend also judges you based on your previous relationships.

So, how to behave with the guy you like? You need to be a better and more “ideal” girlfriend than all his ex-girlfriends combined. This does not mean at all that you need to become the “hottest”, smartest, most accessible. It's also not about looks or beauty.

You and your boyfriend may have different perceptions beauty. Some girl may be beautiful to you, but not so in the eyes of your boyfriend and vice versa. Every person has their own idea of ​​beauty.

The reason he's with you is probably because you're already better than him ex-girlfriends. This means continue to improve what you already possess, those qualities and virtues with which you “hooked” him.

Work on this if your goal is to make a guy fall in love with you so much that he is afraid of losing you. You should behave with a guy in such a way as to forever erase any other girl from his memory. However, never discuss it ex-girlfriends or your ex-boyfriends. Leave it behind. What matters now is you and him.

11. How to behave if a guy has grown cold or ignores you

He left you, and you are wondering how to behave so that he wants to come back? The best thing is to stop being his “tail” or showing yourself to be suffering. It is important! If a guy has no desire to meet you, ask you out on a date, or he has stopped responding to your messages, then stop stalking him or imposing yourself on him. Most likely he is thinking about other things.

Maybe he returned to his ex-girlfriend or he was interested in another lady, so he forgot about you. In this case, the following rule applies: you should do the same.

Think about it, maybe you’re just not his type, so stop taking everything personally, looking for fictitious flaws in yourself. Lead a self-sufficient life, meeting with friends, reciprocating the attentions of other young people.

Then you will meet someone who will truly be passionate about you, and you will love him. Or it will strike a chord with your ex, and he will want to come back. Having finally realized that by breaking up with you, I lost more than I gained.

How not to behave with a guy

In this part of the article, we will look at 7 incorrect behavior strategies for girls with the opposite sex, which they must definitely avoid.

1. Remove the mask

Don't try to pass yourself off as a girl you are not or cannot become in the future. Sometimes, some girls, trying to impress a guy, try to demonstrate their very perfection.

For example, in everything they always demonstrate their complete agreement with any actions or words of their gentleman. Even if he is clearly mistaken or mistaken in his judgment. But having your own opinion and being able to defend it is, perhaps, one of the the best ways impress the guy.

To behave correctly with a guy you need to be real with him. If you are looking forward to some kind of future relationship, then let him be interested not in a fictional character, but in the girl you really are.

2. Don't focus on the past

How you behave with a guy is influenced by your past experiences in relationships with men. Therefore, it is important to focus on the future rather than the past. Nobody likes to hear stories from the past about an ex-relationship, especially when meeting for the first time on a date. Inevitably, the question about ex-partners will come up, but it shouldn't be on the first date.

Keep the past in the past, without any comparisons with former partners. Start over and discover new experiences. If you're not ready to meet new people, don't do it. It is much better to feel confident and ready for this and then you will behave correctly with the guy.

3. Avoid vanity

Vanity is a vice, but in fact all people like to highlight their virtues by talking about their affairs. Guys do this mainly to impress girls. How should a wise girl behave on her first date with a guy - remain silent or praise herself?

There is nothing criminal in talking about your merits, but it is better to mention them in passing, without interrupting the young man. Guys like it when girls are interested in them and listen to them.

4. Avoid cynicism

Guys are afraid of cynical ladies, because cynicism is next to pride. This is why cynical behavior must be put aside. Some women believe that if cynicism does not work, it is necessary to be naive. But this is not true, since naivety does not imply the absence of cynicism.

A striking example of cynicism is a girl’s desire to force a guy to fulfill all her whims. At the same time, she pretends to be a naive girl who doesn’t understand anything.

5. Forget the word “when”

When talking to a young man, it is wrong to use the word “when”. For example, when do we go on a trip, when do we go to meet your parents, when do we get married? Remember, it's better to the last word was for your boyfriend. Let him take the initiative.

6. Don't view sex as a measure of a relationship.

This is relevant to how to behave on a date with a guy, especially alone or at the beginning of a relationship. Sexual relations have a very important place in a relationship, but they are not the only or exclusive thing that unites a couple. A couple united only by sex suffers in other areas of life, which means they have little future.

Therefore, before rushing into sex, you need to think carefully about its disadvantages. Casual relationships may be attractive at first glance, but they do not create stable, long term relationship.

7. Guys get annoyed by “little girls”

A grown girl should always act like one. This is what a guy wants to see in her. Of course, you can play an innocent schoolgirl or a little girl with an offended pout, but only in private with him.

In public, the only thing he expects is for his chosen one to act with the maturity of a woman. This means that hysterics of a spoiled girl, scenes of jealousy, scandals, and especially any public actions are excluded. NEVER DO THIS! This one will lead your relationship to the edge of the abyss.

Conclusion

The key to getting a guy to like you or to make him fall in love with you is to present yourself correctly as a girl and the right strategy behavior. This affects him more than you might imagine. At least 90% of the guys will agree with everything that was written here.

Does this make you doubtful?

Then give these tips to any guy to read, and he will agree with at least half of them. Once you start applying these tips on how to deal with a guy, you will see immediate results. Try it and see for yourself!

Best regards, Helen

Finally, watch this short video O correct behavior a girl with a young man she likes.