Festival 5 lectures about love. Open charity festival for the whole family “Five lectures on love”

Open charity festival for the whole family

"FIVE LECTURES ABOUT LOVE"

Russian State Children's Library,

m. Oktyabrskaya, Kaluzhskaya Square, 1

Organizer: project to support parents “Family Tree”.

Partners: Samokat publishing house, Sunflower charity foundation.

We invite journalists and bloggers to the festival!

All you need is love, and, fortunately, love is in each of us. We love our spouses, children, parents, friends - but love does not always bring us happiness. Sometimes with our love we not only warm and caress, but also tease, bind, and sometimes cause pain.

Some of us, already being parents, still do not know how to accept the love of loved ones and constantly feel abandoned and unnecessary.

How can you ensure that your love brings only happiness to you and your family? Is there such a thing as too much love? How to maintain warm feelings and live happily ever after in your family?

On June 3 at the Russian State Children's Library we will look for answers to these questions together with five well-known specialists in the field of family and developmental psychology.

Festival program

Parent lecture hall

10.00 – Lyudmila Petranovskaya: about loving your inner child.

12.00 – Valery Panyushkin: When is there too much love?

14.00 – Ekaterina Murashova: loving children means letting them go.

16.00 – Dima Zitser: paternal theme in love.

18.00 – Ekaterina Burmistrova: love after marriage, or how to maintain feelings in a long-term relationship.

Children's zone

10.00-19.00 – Express course sand animation from Sand Pro. Assembling and launching glider models. Playing Mousematics with Zhenya Katz's students. Toy library from the legendary Nikitin family. Team games on fresh air from Children's center"Copernicus Fitness"

11.00-13.00 – Master class on origami – for children from 5 years old.

13.00-16.00 – Painting master class from the Lethal and Chagall studio – for children from 3 years old.

15.00-17.00 – Construction of a magical city from a “live” one kinetic sand with the architects of the ARCHPOINT design bureau - for children from 6 years old.

17.00-19.00 – Interesting lectures from the Polytechnic Museum – for children from 8 to 12 years old.

Game Zone

10.00-13.00 – puppet show about love “The Frog King” from the storyteller Nadezhda Potmalnikova, based on the book by Anna Schmidt - for viewers from 5 years old.

15.00-17.00 – Workshop role-playing game from Oksana Zvidennaya, social anthropologist, student of Yegor Bakhotsky - for children from 3 to 10 years old.

17.00-19.00 – Street theater with a performance on stilts and circus acts “Tall Brothers”.

Participation is free, with prior registration atwww.festival.family3.ru. You can also purchase access to online broadcasting and recording of lectures. The cost of online access is 300 rubles. All funds raised go to charity.

Charity program

The festival gives each participant the opportunity to contribute to a common good cause and help three wonderful boys from Severodvinsk fight a serious illness.

The Glushkov brothers - Nikita, Timur and 7-month-old Leva - have a common disease: primary immunodeficiency, Wiskott-Aldrich syndrome. Now only the drug Enplate can save them, treatment of which costs 885,000 rubles per month. An unaffordable luxury for a simple family from a small seaside town: the boys’ mother is a housewife, dad is a simple mechanic.

All money collected in the charity box at the festival and received from the sale of online broadcasts for the festival will be sent to the Sunflower Charitable Foundation to help the Glushkov family.

Festival organizer –Family Tree

We are parents helping parents like us to set up a harmonious and happy life in family. We have opened a useful resource where you will find all the valuable information about age and family psychology, education and development, health and safety of children, relationships with spouses, and you will also be able to receive competent psychological and emotional support from the best specialists.

Official partners of the festival:

Publishing house "Samokat" www.samokatbook.ru

We search all over the world and bring the best children's books to Russia, discover new Russian authors and artists for the reader, and build bridges between cultures and generations. Librarians recommend many of our books for solving personal and family problems.

Charitable Foundation "Sunflower" www.fondpodsolnuh.ru

We help children with congenital immunodeficiency and autoimmune diseases. We facilitate the organization of examination and treatment of children, provide social, psychological and legal support to their parents, work to increase people's awareness of primary immunodeficiency, and also help children with immunodeficiency to actively engage in life.

June 3 from 10:00 to 19:30 An open charity festival for the whole family, “Five Lectures on Love,” will be held in Gorky Park. Festival guests will have the opportunity to communicate with five well-known experts in the field of family and developmental psychology.

How can you ensure that your love brings only happiness to you and your family? Is there such a thing as too much love? How to maintain warm feelings and live happily ever after in your family? Answers to these questions will be sought in the parent lecture hall. Young guests will enjoy a children's program from partners.

Festival program:

Parent lecture hall

10:00 Lyudmila Petranovskaya: about love for your inner child.
12:00 Valery Panyushkin: when is there too much love?
14:00 Ekaterina Murashova: loving children means letting them go!
16:00 Dima Zitser: fatherly theme in love
18:00 Ekaterina Burmistrova: love after marriage, or how to preserve feelings in a long-term relationship?

Children's program

Children's University from the Polytechnic Museum, the Lethal and Chagall studio, game libraries from the students of Yegor Bakhotsky and Zhenya Katz, sand animation from Sand Pro and sand cities from Archpoint.

Charity program

The festival gives each participant the opportunity to contribute to a common good cause and help three wonderful boys from Severodvinsk fight a serious illness.
The Glushkov brothers - Nikita, Timur and 7-month-old Leva - have a common disease: primary immunodeficiency, Wiskott-Aldrich syndrome. Now only the drug Enplate can save them, treatment of which costs 885,000 rubles per month. An unaffordable luxury for a simple family from a small seaside town: the boys’ mother is a housewife, dad is a simple mechanic.

We transfer all the money collected in the charity box at the festival, received from the sale of an online broadcast of the festival (will be held at family3.ru), to the Sunflower charity foundation - to help the Glushkov family.

Details and registration on the website.

The Family Tree project and the Samokat publishing house are holding the festival “5 Lectures on Love” on June 3 at the Gorky Central Park of Culture and Culture. 5 experts in the field of family and developmental psychology will speak at the festival: Lyudmila Petranovskaya, Valery Panyushkin, Ekaterina Murashova, Dima Zitser and Ekaterina Burmistrova. Parents are waiting for lectures, and children are creative master classes. All funds raised at the festival will go to the beneficiaries of the Sunflower Charitable Foundation of Timur Bekmambetov.

Entry to the festival “5 Lectures on Love” is free. But to get complimentary ticket, you must register in advance on the festival website. You can listen to useful lectures without leaving your home, in different parts of Russia and the world. All you have to do is leave a request on the website to watch the broadcast. The cost of online access to all lectures is only 300 rubles. The proceeds will be transferred to pay for vital medications for the Glushkov brothers from Severodvinsk, suffering from primary immunodeficiency - 14-year-old Nikita, 10-year-old Timur and 7-month-old Lev. You can also help the boys at the festival itself by leaving a donation in the charity box at the stand of the Sunflower Charitable Foundation.

Festival program

Parent lecture hall

10.00 – Lyudmila Petranovskaya: about love for your inner child.

12.00 – Valery Panyushkin: when is there too much love?

14.00 – Ekaterina Murashova: loving children means letting them go.

16.00 – Dima Zitser: fatherly theme in love.

18.00 – Ekaterina Burmistrova: love after marriage, or how to preserve feelings in a long-term relationship.

Children's zone

10.00-19.00 – Express course in sand animation from “Sand Pro”. Assembling and launching glider models. Playing Mousematics with Zhenya Katz's students. Toy library from the legendary Nikitin family. Team games in the fresh air from the Copernicus Fitness Children's Center.

11.00-13.00 – Master class on origami – for children from 5 years old.

13.00-16.00 – Painting master class from the Lethal and Chagall studio – for children from 3 years old.

15.00-17.00 – Construction of a magical city from “living” kinetic sand with architects from the ARCHPOINT design bureau - for children from 6 years old.

17.00-19.00 – Interesting lectures from the Polytechnic Museum – for children from 8 to 12 years old.

Game tent

10.00-13.00 – Puppet show about love “The Frog King” from the storyteller Nadezhda Potmalnikova, based on the book by Anna Schmidt - for spectators from 5 years old.

15.00-17.00 – Role-playing workshop from Oksana Zvidennaya, social anthropologist, student of Yegor Bakhotsky - for children from 3 to 10 years old.

Our time is a time of love. Love has become one of the main bugbears of modern civilization. Perhaps the most important thing. Now they are trying to connect absolutely everything with her.

In the ancient, ancient world, they did not know love. There were other concepts: duty, honor, loyalty, devotion. But all this went away, and instead love was proclaimed the highest value. And if something is proclaimed to be the highest value, then, of course, many things try to attach themselves to this highest value. In our understanding, love appeared when life became easier. When not individual people appeared, but entire layers of people who had free time and strength.

What can masquerade as love

1. Neurotic anxiety parents

Parents worry that the child will not be able to find his place in the new, constantly changing world, and do everything possible so that he can. For example: “I love you and therefore I want you to have a good education.” Or "Without in English nowhere now. Yes, I understand that you don't want to. But it is necessary. Why? Because I love you!"

For such parents, the world is a train into which you need to have time to throw your child, and you need to provide him with something: hooks, suction cups, so that he constantly clings. The most advanced mothers (there is such a type as the “Jewish mother”) jump with the child, holding hands.

2. What love has supplanted (honor, devotion, duty)

Since these concepts have existed for several centuries, they cannot completely disappear - and as a result they disguise themselves as love. It looks something like this: “Well, listen, everyone in our family had a higher education. I know that you are smart, that you are good-looking. But I love you! Well, how are you going to study to become a car mechanic?”

In fact, this phrase means “How will I look people in the eye if my Vasechka is left without higher education? They’ll ask who Vasechka is, and I’ll say: “Vasechka is a car mechanic.” It’s a shame to burn!”

3. The mother’s lack of meaning in life

If the mother has not been able to find something to live for, she makes the child the meaning of her existence. “Yes, I gave you my whole life! I left my job just to take you to a developmental training center at the French embassy. And now you say that you want this French not needed - after eight years of my continuous vigil. And just four years in music school out of nine left!”

No one can be the meaning of another's life. This is unnatural and absolutely unbearable. Is there something that all children need? Eat. They need to see next to them a person who has taken some place in this regard, who has found himself. That's why the main task parent - do and find yourself.

4. The desire to prove something to someone

This someone could be anyone. Often parents themselves lacked love, so they consider it their duty to give it to their children in full.

“You never noticed me. You weren’t interested in my problems, you didn’t do homework with me, you didn’t, you didn’t, you didn’t... I will do all this. I will talk to the child until he faints!”

5. Make a project out of the child

This is a less malignant version of the point “a child is the meaning of life.” When parents invest in a child in order to then get this and that.

Where then is love itself

We are animals. But we are not only animals - we are people. From a biological point of view, we have a maternal instinct. It turns on in 80% of women giving birth and continues until the child reaches the age of four, and then fades away. Ideally, it appears further human thing: caring for the baby. Then biology turns on again, but in the opposite direction. Push away! Kick me out! He is 12 years old - why do you have him lying here? Get him out of here!

You need to do the following: catch everything that is disguised as love, honestly talk about it to yourself and your children. And cut it off. And all that remains is love.

If a mother can laugh at herself, then she will have children who can also laugh at themselves. And I don't know a method that would be more effective.

On July 5, in honor of the day of family, love and fidelity, an open charity lecture dedicated to the topics of development and education of children will be held in one of the most comfortable open air spaces in Moscow - in the Muzeon art park. family relations, family comfort and conscious parenting.

The lecture is organized by the School of Conscious Parenting " Big Dipper"and the RED NOSE charitable foundation

The lecture program includes:

• 11:00 - 12:45 Irina Mlodik. "Our children: love and power."

How to use parental power without fear of losing the love and trust of your child?

• 13:00 - 14:45 Alexander Kolmanovsky. “Love is above the belt. Psychology of family relationships."

How to distinguish love from other feelings? How to properly prepare for a meeting with your other half? How to determine that it is she, your half?

• 15:00 - 16:45 Marina Belokurova. "Seven Aspects of Love"

What should be the behavior in a couple? Why are marriages fragile? Is it possible to change something in better side?

• 17:00 - 18:45 Vladimir Shakhijanyan. “Gymnastics of the soul. What is self-love?

How to save good mood And positive attitude? How to find purpose? How to bring back the taste of life

• 19:00 - 20:45 Lyudmila Petranovskaya. "Once again about love"

What is it anyway - the love of parents for children and the love of children for parents?

Be sure to come with children! A play development area with nannies will be organized for children.

For infants, there will be a special area for changing, feeding and safe play.

By registering for the event on the website www.bmshkola.ru you can take part in holiday lottery. Autographed books by the presenting lecturers, as well as other interesting prizes, will be raffled off.

Admission is free/if desired, a voluntary donation of any acceptable amount to children is welcome charitable foundation RED NOSE www.rednoses.ru

Address: Krymsky Val, possession 2. Summer cinema of the Muzeon art park Phone +7 (985)789−74−79