A woman has the right to be angry. Why is a woman angry?

Christmas

If a woman is angry, it means not only is she wrong, but she also knows it

Erich Maria Remarque

Why is the woman angry?

You lied to her.

You may have lied to her.

You definitely lied to her about 10 years ago.

Because you are you

Every action we take has its cause and consequences. After all, we won’t go just to do nothing, rob a bank, get drunk, or to see our school friend Svetka, who is still not indifferent to you.

We can be pushed to rob a bank by the lack of money and the reluctance to earn it honestly. In order to get completely drunk and sing good old songs from the heart, like: “Oh, it’s frosty, frosty!” in general, practically nothing is needed except awareness of the fact that today is Friday. And a very compelling argument in favor of drinking can be something accidentally dropped: “It’s been a while since we all got together,” “And Kolya had a son!”, “Vitek, motherfucker, I haven’t seen you for a hundred years!”

As for Svetka’s school friend, here, I believe, old memories may come back to you, how you pulled the girl’s pigtail and gently held her knee, while she looked at you with her huge loving eyes. However, you can remember about Svetka even after breaking up with your next mamzel, and after a bank robbery and, of course, after you get too drunk and turn into real estate.

There is a reason for our every action, thought or action. True, sometimes this very reason is incomprehensible even to ourselves.

This is all to say that looking at some women, it sometimes seems to me that they themselves do not understand the reason for their anger or anger. Or they don’t want to admit a very obvious fact.

Let's try to figure out what pushes a woman to anger. Why sometimes such a sweet and gentle face suddenly turns into the grimace of an imp? There is metal in his voice, and thunder and lightning flash in his eyes. It’s good if she doesn’t have a rolling pin in her hands at that moment.

Loneliness

This is the first reason that comes to mind. Single women are most often angry and irritable. The reason for this, in turn, lies in several factors. Firstly, in nature.

By nature, a woman is an accumulator of energy, which she takes from the space around her. I ate ice cream - my mood lifted, stroked the kitten - my soul warmed, bought a new blouse, and to go with the blouse and shoes - I generally fell in love with the whole world.

But it is not enough to accumulate this energy; it still needs to be given to someone. As a rule, the role of “consumers” is played by the people closest to her: her husband and children. It gives them inspiration and energy. Accordingly, it itself “discharges” and the process begins anew. And if a woman doesn’t have a family, she has no one to give her energy to. And this leads to the woman becoming aggressive, nervous and irritable.

At the same time, subconsciously realizing that there is something wrong with them, some girls are looking for at least someone to take care of and feed with energy. They give birth to children from strangers (as long as there is a child), have thirty-eight kittens, dogs, guinea pigs, rabbits, etc., and also show excessive concern for the people around them (especially men). The older a woman gets, the more energy she accumulates and, provided that there is no one to transfer this energy to, the more irritable and grumpy she becomes.

Secondly, this is an acute feeling of hopelessness, even fear.

Many women experience such feelings after failed relationships with the opposite sex, the breakdown of a marriage, and dissatisfaction with life in general.

They feel like strangers in this world. There is no longer a determined and loving man behind me. There is no reliable shoulder to lean on. You have to do everything yourself. And the realization that such a state can last until death is depressing. They give up, the sparkle in their eyes disappears, and more and more often the angry words come out of their mouths: “All men are assholes!” I don’t think it’s worth saying that such a representative of the fair half of humanity has a corresponding attitude towards men and women (mainly envy).

I can only give one piece of advice to such women. Under no circumstances should you turn into a slob! Take care of your external and internal beauty! Find time to relax, don't get hung up on work. Believe in yourself, and a collector will pass along your street! After all, all ages are submissive to love!

The girl doesn't know what she wants

By their nature, girls primarily live by emotions and feelings. They do not like introspection, excessive logic and often tend to change their minds.

As a result, a woman often does not know what she wants. Under the influence of Dima Bilan's song, today she may want one thing, and tomorrow, after Metallica, something completely different. And this uncertainty often messes with men's brains.

He doesn't understand how this is possible. His logic is unable to digest this. For him, yes means yes. No means no. And all sorts of “no, probably, in general, it’s difficult to say” - they just don’t fit in my head.

As a result, the woman begins to get angry, defending herself with phrases like: “You don’t understand me.” After all, for her such behavior is quite natural. Well, maybe a woman can change her mind after all?! Moreover, quite often the girl does not directly say what she needs. This behavior also leads to excessive anger towards a man who is always straightforward and will always take a woman’s flirtatious attitude with hostility: “Don’t you realize it yourself?” Hence the mutual resentment and anger.

Lack of sex

A woman is pushed towards moral breakdowns and anger by the lack of regular sex in her life. Even Uncle Freud, in “Essays on the Theory of Sexuality,” talked about the direct dependence of a woman’s behavior on the presence of sex in her life. If it is there, everything is fine. A woman purrs like a cat and sings songs cheerfully, and if there is no sex, then this is fraught with many problems, both psychological and physical. A woman’s behavior often becomes neurotic, and she herself becomes angry, arrogant and bitchy. No wonder they joke that there is no more terrible beast than an unsatisfied woman. There is some truth in this joke.

Some people, reading articles and listening to lectures, believe that you need to be perfect. That you need to become perfect and fly above the earth. It seems to them that femininity = pink snot and a good mood always, to be good and not to upset anyone. Never get angry, never cry. If you're angry, it means you're no longer a woman. And to be a woman, you need everything to be perfect. And everywhere - in the kitchen there is a sparkling stove and five dishes to choose from. The children are combed and laid out on the shelves with fairy tales and songs. Husband with massage and evening dancing. She herself is dressed to the nines and always like in the photo in the magazine... Perfect in one word. And if not ideal, then not a woman.

So here it is. It's an illusion. To be a woman means to be yourself. Be sincere. Don’t hide behind masks, don’t follow the desires of society, but be yourself. Hear yourself. Be able to refuse and set boundaries. Protect your inner world from other people's dirty shoes. Be emotional. Be different. Be free inside. Not to be perfect. And not even very good. Be natural.

And naturalness for a woman involves working with emotions. Different mood every day, its swings. Some have more, some have less. Believe it or not, princesses also go to the toilet, no matter what “Ugh” that is! And as one girl said on a social network, “princesses fart with the northern lights, which smell like lilies of the valley.” Rave? No, just “ideality” and “goodness” maximized to the point of insanity.

Don't seem like a daisy. Chamomile is a simple and beautiful flower. But isn't it too simple to describe a female image? We have three feminine energies, and when it comes to our loved ones, we become tigresses. We are more like roses - incredibly beautiful flowers that are difficult to pass by indifferently. Stunningly subtle aroma, mystery. A rose very rarely opens up completely; it is multifaceted and deep - unlike chamomile. But also, the rose has thorns. Which help her guard her borders. And which make her even more attractive.

If a woman never gets angry and never cries, it’s scary to live with her. Because she is a bomb that will explode one day. And it is unknown when, next to whom, whether anyone will survive from this. I once read an essay by a psychologist who worked with women in prison. And he came across strange prisoners. Women who looked like dandelions. And behind them was the murder of their spouse. And the fact was that they tried so hard to be ideal and never get angry that one day they committed a terrible crime, without realizing it at all. Good girls, ideal wives and mothers...

We have the right to experience any emotions. This is our right. In this place, you can exhale and admit to yourself that you are not perfect and never will be.

But we have no right to harass our loved ones with our emotions. Express them - yes. But how to express it? Does a woman have the right to beat her husband’s brains out with her whining from morning to night? Does anyone have the right to yell at children? Does she have the right to swear?

Let's start from the mission. Initially, a Woman is the keeper of the home. That is, the hearth and loved ones must be protected, and not tormented. And with female emotions a man can be driven to white heat in just a few hours. What to do with emotions? Reside. Don't save. And express it as safely as possible for loved ones.

A momentary outburst of anger is not as terrible as an avalanche accumulated over several years. It’s not so scary to cry in the evening, but if you haven’t cried for a long time, then the tears will turn into hysterics. And so on.

In addition, it is important to understand that women are batteries of mood and information. Men use any information - or do not use it. And then they forget it. Women, like vacuum cleaners, greedily absorb everything they see, hear, feel. And then all this accumulated is summed up - and the mood is revealed. That is, if you were rude on the tram, not appreciated at work, called to the school to the principal, and all this time you pretended that everything was fine, then in the evening your husband, children, dog, cat will fly in. Anyone. Because you can’t handle the stress on your own.

But if our task is to protect our family from our mood swings, then we can change our behavior. Have you noticed those women who look perfect in society and never refuse anyone, doing everything for everyone? Most often at home they take off this mask of perfection because they are tired. And they turn into domestic shrews, tyrants, anyone, but not loving mothers and wives. Because the priorities are wrong. They want to appear perfect to everyone. And they try to impress those outside. And those who are inside can be patient and wait it out. And it’s safe to be bad with them - where will they go! You have to be bad somewhere.

So what is more important to you?

To please everyone around, to seem like a good wife and mother to everyone, to seem beautiful and feminine - or to be so? Being a good wife means making choices in favor of your family. If you are rude to someone on the trolleybus, don’t take it home. Learn to answer. At first it will be very rough - you've never tried. Gradually you will find that line when you don’t even need to answer, just look. And aggression does not accumulate inside. If you are asked to do something you don't want to do at work, make the choice in favor of your family. And refuse. It’s better to let your colleagues and friends be offended than for your children or husband to suffer from your reliability.

It is a crime if a woman brings a bad mood from the outside world home. You have plenty of reasons to be angry at home, too. But if you come home without the baggage of negative emotions from the street, it will be easier for you. It's easier not to yell at a child who breaks a glass. It’s easier not to quarrel with your husband out of the blue over a trifle. It's easier not to spank your dog for chewed furniture.

Be careful about what you absorb and why. What do you read, what do you watch, what emotions are left with you afterwards. It’s better to watch a melodrama, after which you want to hug your family, than a heavy film about the meaning of life, after which you don’t want to do anything. It is better to read inspiring articles than news and incidents. Take care of your loved ones, it is your responsibility. Accumulate something warm and light, there is never enough of it.

And don't accumulate emotions. Live them immediately at the point of origin. Solve them with the people who help you create them. Learn to refuse, put people in their place, guard your boundaries. And let them think that you are bad, evil. Recently, one young lady, in response to a proposal to live your own life and not give advice that is not asked, wrote that “What femininity this is! You’re the same guy, no matter how many dresses you wear.” It’s her right to think so - for me, femininity is not about smiling at everyone around, but about preserving your strength and energy for those close to you.

And let people decide for themselves how they feel about it. It doesn’t matter to me, I’m not responsible for their emotions. But for the emotions of my husband and children - even so. I am the keeper of the hearth. I create the atmosphere in the house. I need to be more attentive to myself, my condition and my emotions. For the sake of your loved ones.

Girls, like everyone else, experience anger, resentment, envy, sadness, and much more. I am a living person, sometimes I get angry, nervous, sad, cry, sometimes I am happy and smile. This doesn't stop me from being happy. Happiness is not just smiles. Femininity is not only beauty and tenderness. Femininity is also responsibility. Responsibility for oneself, in the deepest sense of the word. I am responsible for my condition, my emotions. And with this I am responsible for the atmosphere at home and the condition of my relatives.

My task is to feed them with energy, not to drink blood. Inspire, not blow your mind. This is a mature position. Position of interdependence. When I have to, I have to take care of myself. For the sake of your family and friends. I am the heart of the house. I'm his thermometer. My inner state is my most important concern. This is what you should do instead of impressing others and pinching your gases. It is better to find a place to get rid of everything unnecessary - such an emotional toilet. So that your own home does not become such a toilet. One good way is to journal. The other is physical activity and experiencing emotions within it. The third is to listen to yourself and not betray, then less negativity will accumulate.

Take care of your loved ones, my dear thermometers of the home atmosphere! And remember that if mom is happy, then everyone is happy. You can make this person happy, right? Although you have to try.

Some people, reading articles and listening to lectures, believe that you need to be perfect. That you need to become perfect and fly above the earth. It seems to them that femininity = pink snot and a good mood always, to be good and not to upset anyone. Never get angry, never cry. If you're angry, it means you're no longer a woman. And to be a woman, you need everything to be perfect. And everywhere - in the kitchen there is a sparkling stove and five dishes to choose from. The children are combed and laid out on the shelves with fairy tales and songs. Husband with massage and evening dancing. She herself is dressed to the nines and always like in the photo in the magazine... Perfect in one word. And if not ideal, then not a woman. So here it is. It's an illusion.

To be a woman means to be yourself. Be sincere. Don’t hide behind masks, don’t follow the desires of society, but be yourself.

Hear yourself. Be able to refuse and set boundaries. Protect your inner world from other people's dirty shoes. Be emotional. Be different. Be free inside. Not to be perfect. And not even very good. Be natural.

And naturalness for a woman involves working with emotions. Different mood every day, its swings. Some have more, some have less. Believe it or not, princesses also go to the toilet, no matter what “Ugh” that is! And as one girl said on a social network, “princesses fart with the northern lights, which smell like lilies of the valley.” Rave? No, just “ideality” and “goodness” maximized to the point of insanity.

Don't seem like a daisy. Chamomile is a simple and beautiful flower. But isn't it too simple to describe a female image? We have three feminine energies, and when it comes to our loved ones, we become tigresses. We are more like roses - incredibly beautiful flowers that are difficult to pass by indifferently. Stunningly subtle aroma, mystery. A rose very rarely opens up completely; it is multifaceted and deep - unlike chamomile. But also, the rose has thorns. Which help her guard her borders. And which make her even more attractive.

If a woman never gets angry and never cries, it’s scary to live with her. Because she is a bomb that will explode one day. And it is unknown when, next to whom, whether anyone will survive from this. I once read an essay by a psychologist who worked with women in prison. And he came across strange prisoners. Women who looked like dandelions. And behind them was the murder of their spouse. And the fact was that they tried so hard to be ideal and never get angry that one day they committed a terrible crime, without realizing it at all. Good girls, ideal wives and mothers...

We have the right to experience any emotions. This is our right. In this place, you can exhale and admit to yourself that you are not perfect and never will be.

But we have no right to harass our loved ones with our emotions. Express them - yes. But how to express it? Does a woman have the right to beat her husband’s brains out with her whining from morning to night? Does anyone have the right to yell at children? Does she have the right to swear?

Let's start from the mission. Initially, a Woman is the keeper of the home. That is, the hearth and loved ones must be protected, and not tormented. And with female emotions a man can be driven to white heat in just a few hours. What to do with emotions? Reside. Don't save. And express it as safely as possible for loved ones.

A momentary outburst of anger is not as terrible as an avalanche accumulated over several years. It’s not so scary to cry in the evening, but if you haven’t cried for a long time, then the tears will turn into hysterics. And so on.

In addition, it is important to understand that women are batteries of mood and information. Men use any information - or do not use it. And then they forget it. Women, like vacuum cleaners, greedily absorb everything they see, hear, feel. And then all this accumulated is summed up - and the mood is revealed. That is, if you were rude on the tram, not appreciated at work, called to the school to the principal, and all this time you pretended that everything was fine, then in the evening your husband, children, dog, cat will fly in. Anyone. Because you can’t handle the stress on your own.

But if our task is to protect our family from our mood swings, then we can change our behavior. Have you noticed those women who look perfect in society and never refuse anyone, doing everything for everyone? Most often at home they take off this mask of perfection because they are tired. And they turn into domestic shrews, tyrants, anyone, but not loving mothers and wives. Because the priorities are wrong. They want to appear perfect to everyone. And they try to impress those outside. And those who are inside can be patient and wait it out. And it’s safe to be bad with them - where will they go! You have to be bad somewhere.

So what is more important to you? To please everyone around, to seem like a good wife and mother to everyone, to seem beautiful and feminine - or to be so? Being a good wife means making choices in favor of your family. If you are rude to someone on the trolleybus, don’t take it home. Learn to answer. At first it will be very rough - you've never tried. Gradually you will find that line when you don’t even need to answer, just look. And aggression does not accumulate inside. If you are asked to do something you don't want to do at work, make the choice in favor of your family. And refuse. It’s better to let your colleagues and friends be offended than for your children or husband to suffer from your reliability.

It is a crime if a woman brings a bad mood from the outside world home.

You have plenty of reasons to be angry at home, too. But if you come home without the baggage of negative emotions from the street, it will be easier for you. It's easier not to yell at a child who breaks a glass. It’s easier not to quarrel with your husband out of the blue over a trifle. It's easier not to spank your dog for chewed furniture.

Be careful about what you absorb and why. What do you read, what do you watch, what emotions are left with you afterwards. It’s better to watch a melodrama, after which you want to hug your family, than a heavy film about the meaning of life, after which you don’t want to do anything. It is better to read inspiring articles than news and incidents. Take care of your loved ones, it is your responsibility. Accumulate something warm and light, there is never enough of it.

And don't accumulate emotions. Live them immediately at the point of origin. Solve them with the people who help you create them.

Learn to refuse, put people in their place, guard your boundaries. And let them think that you are bad, evil. Recently, one young lady, in response to a proposal to live your own life and not give advice that is not asked, wrote that “What femininity this is! You’re the same guy, no matter how many dresses you wear.” It’s her right to think so - for me, femininity is not about smiling at everyone around, but about preserving your strength and energy for those close to you.

And let people decide for themselves how they feel about it. It doesn’t matter to me, I’m not responsible for their emotions. But for the emotions of her husband and children - even so. I am the keeper of the hearth. I create the atmosphere in the house. I need to be more attentive to myself, my condition and my emotions. For the sake of your loved ones.

Girls, like everyone else, experience anger, resentment, envy, sadness, and much more. I am a living person, sometimes I get angry, nervous, sad, cry, sometimes I am happy and smile. This doesn't stop me from being happy. Happiness is not only smiles. Femininity is not only beauty and tenderness.

Femininity is also responsibility. Responsibility for oneself, in the deepest sense of the word. I am responsible for my condition, my emotions. And with this I am responsible for the atmosphere at home and the condition of my relatives.

My task is to feed them with energy, not to drink blood. Inspire, not blow your mind. This is a mature position. Position of interdependence. When I have to, I have to take care of myself. For the sake of your family and friends. I am the heart of the house. I'm his thermometer. My inner state is my most important concern. This is what you should do instead of impressing others and pinching your gases. It’s better to find a place to get rid of everything unnecessary - such an emotional toilet. So that your own home does not become such a toilet. One good way is to journal. The other is physical activity and experiencing emotions within it. The third is to listen to yourself and not betray, then less negativity will accumulate.

Take care of your loved ones, my dear thermometers of the home atmosphere! And remember that if mom is happy, then everyone is happy. You can make this person happy, right? Although you have to try.

Olga Valyaeva

Some people, reading articles and listening to lectures, believe that you need to be perfect. That you need to become perfect and fly above the earth. It seems to them that femininity means pink snot and a good mood always, to be good and not to upset anyone. Never get angry, never cry. If you're angry, it means you're no longer a woman.

And to be a woman, everything needs to be perfect. And everywhere: in the kitchen there is a sparkling stove and five dishes to choose from. The children are combed and laid out on the shelves with fairy tales and songs. Husband with massage and evening dancing. She herself is dressed to the nines, and always as in the photo in the magazine... Ideal, in a word. And if not ideal, then not a woman.

So here it is. It's an illusion. To be a woman means to be yourself. Be sincere. Don’t hide behind masks, don’t follow the desires of society, but be yourself. Hear yourself. Be able to refuse and set boundaries. Protect your inner world from other people's dirty shoes. Be emotional. Be different. Be free inside. Be imperfect. And not even very good. Be natural.

And naturalness for a woman involves working with emotions. Different mood every day, its swings. Some have more, some have less. Believe it or not, princesses also go to the toilet, no matter what “Ugh” that is! And as one girl said on a social network: "Princesses fart with northern lights that smell like lilies of the valley". Rave? No, just “ideality” and “goodness” maximized to the point of insanity.

Don't seem like a daisy. Chamomile is a simple and beautiful flower. But isn't it too simple to describe a female image? We have three feminine energies, and when it comes to our loved ones, we become tigresses. We are more like roses - incredibly beautiful flowers that are difficult to pass by indifferently. Stunningly subtle aroma, mystery. A rose very rarely opens up completely; it is multifaceted and deep - unlike chamomile. But also, the rose has thorns. Which help her guard her borders. And which make her even more attractive.

If a woman never gets angry and never cries, it’s scary to live with her. Because she is a bomb that will explode one day. And it is unknown when, next to whom, whether anyone will survive from this. I once read an essay by a psychologist who worked with women in prison. And he came across strange prisoners. Women who looked like dandelions. And behind them was the murder of their spouse. And the fact was that they tried so hard to be ideal and never get angry that one day they committed a terrible crime, without realizing it at all. Good girls, ideal wives and mothers...

We have the right to experience any emotions. This is our right. In this place, you can exhale and admit to yourself that you are not perfect and never will be.

But we have no right to harass our loved ones with our emotions. Express them - yes. But how to express it? Does a woman have the right to beat her husband’s brains out with her whining from morning to night? Does anyone have the right to yell at children? Does she have the right to swear?

Let's start from the mission. Initially, a woman is the keeper of the home. That is, the hearth and loved ones must be protected, and not tormented. And with female emotions a man can be driven to white heat in just a few hours. What to do with emotions? Reside. Don't save. And express it as safely as possible for loved ones.

A momentary outburst of anger is not as terrible as an avalanche accumulated over several years. It’s not so scary to cry in the evening, but if you haven’t cried for a long time, then the tears will turn into hysterics. And so on.

In addition, it is important to understand that women are batteries of mood and information. Men use any information - or do not use it. And then they forget it. Women, like vacuum cleaners, greedily absorb everything they see, hear, feel. And then all this accumulated is summed up - and the mood is revealed. That is, if you were rude on the tram, not appreciated at work, called to the school to the principal, and all this time you pretended that everything was fine, then in the evening your husband, children, dog, cat will fly in. Anyone. Because you can’t handle the stress on your own.

But if our task is to protect our family from our mood swings, then we can change our behavior. Have you noticed those women who look perfect in society and never refuse anyone, do everything for everyone? Most often at home they take off this mask of perfection because they are tired. And they turn into domestic shrews, tyrants, anyone, but not loving mothers and wives. Because the priorities are wrong. They want to appear perfect to everyone. And they try to impress those outside. And those who are inside can be patient and wait it out. And it’s safe to be bad with them - where will they go! You have to be bad somewhere.

So what is more important to you? To please everyone around, to seem like a good wife and mother to everyone, to seem beautiful and feminine - or to be so? Being a good wife means making choices in favor of your family. If you are rude to someone on the trolleybus, don’t take it home. Learn to answer. At first it will be very rough - you've never tried. Gradually you will find that line when you don’t even need to answer, just look. And aggression does not accumulate inside. If you are asked to do something you don't want to do at work, make the choice in favor of your family. And refuse. It’s better to let your colleagues and friends be offended than for your children or husband to suffer from your reliability.

It is a crime if a woman brings a bad mood from the outside world home. You have plenty of reasons to be angry at home, too. But if you come home without the baggage of negative emotions from the street, it will be easier for you. It's easier not to yell at a child who breaks a glass. It’s easier not to quarrel with your husband out of the blue over a trifle. It’s easier not to spank your dog for chewed furniture.

Be careful about what you absorb and why. What do you read, what do you watch, what emotions are left with you afterwards. It’s better to watch a melodrama, after which you want to hug your family, than a heavy film about the meaning of life, after which you don’t want to do anything. It is better to read inspiring articles than news and incidents. Take care of your loved ones, it is your responsibility. Accumulate what is warm and light, there is never enough of it.

And don't accumulate emotions. Live them immediately at the point of origin. Solve them with the people who help you create them. Learn to refuse, put people in their place, guard your boundaries. And let them think that you are bad, evil. Recently, one young lady, in response to a proposal to live my own life and not give advice that is not asked for, wrote: “What femininity this is! You are the same man, no matter how many dresses you wear.” It’s her right to think so - for me, femininity is not about smiling at everyone around, but about saving your strength and energy for those close to you.

And let people decide for themselves how they feel about it. It doesn’t matter to me, I’m not responsible for their emotions. But for the emotions of my husband and children - even so. I am the keeper of the hearth. I create the atmosphere in the house. I need to be more attentive to myself, my condition and my emotions. For the sake of your loved ones.

Girls, like everyone else, experience anger, resentment, envy, sadness, and much more. I am a living person, sometimes I get angry, nervous, sad, cry, sometimes I am happy and smile. This doesn't stop me from being happy. Happiness is not just smiles. Femininity is not only beauty and tenderness. Femininity is also responsibility. Responsibility for oneself, in the deepest sense of the word. I am responsible for my condition, my emotions. And with this I am responsible for the atmosphere at home and the condition of my relatives.

My task is to feed them with energy, not to drink blood. Inspire, not blow your mind. This is a mature position. Position of interdependence. When I have to, I have to take care of myself. For the sake of your family and friends. I am the heart of the house. I am his thermometer. My inner state is my most important concern. This is what you should do instead of impressing others and pinching your gases. It’s better to find a place to get rid of everything unnecessary - such an emotional toilet. So that your own home does not become such a toilet. One good way is to journal. The other is physical activity and experiencing emotions within it. The third is to listen to yourself and not betray, then less negativity will accumulate.

Take care of your loved ones, my dear thermometers of the home atmosphere! And remember that if mom is happy, then everyone is happy. You can make this person happy, right? Although you have to try.

Peace and Prosperity!

A lot has been said about women. I believe that even more has been said than about men. The thing is that women talk more, and men write more. I bring to your attention a selection of beautiful aphorisms, quotes, statuses and sayings about women.

About women: aphorisms, quotes, statuses and sayings.

We don't meet people just like that, we only meet those we are meant to meet.

Two things should be beautiful in a girl - her eyes and her lips, because with her eyes she can make you fall in love,
and use your lips to prove that he loves you.

When a woman asks something, it is better to answer the truth, since there is a very high probability
that she already knows the answer.

If you leave a woman alone for a long time, she gets Thoughts and thinks them.
Due to female characteristics, this does not lead to anything good.

It is very important for a woman how a man treats her.
A woman first falls in love with her attitude, and only then with a man.

The happiest morning for a girl is her wedding day. When she wakes up, she knows what to wear...

Good girls become good wives, bad girls become amazing lovers, smart girls become loyal friends, and wise girls manage to combine it all!

One is not born a woman, one becomes one.

Women are smarter than men because, knowing less, they understand more.

Most women give up not because their passion is strong, but because their weakness is great.
This is why enterprising men are usually so successful, even though they are by no means the most attractive.

A woman should be like ice cream - white, sweet and melt in your hands, and a man should be like coffee: strong, hot and not allowing you to fall asleep.

Biologically speaking, if something bites you, it's probably female.

If a woman has sparkles in her eyes, it means the cockroaches in her head are celebrating something.

They only quarrel with those with whom they want to make peace.
The rest are simply sent.

A woman loves to win over a man who belongs to another!

I want to take my hat off to a smart woman, and my panties to a beautiful woman.

The most difficult war I fought was the war with my wife Olympia.

There are few honest women in the world who are not tired of this craft.

When a woman who has something to say is silent, the silence is deafening!

Being a woman is very difficult because you mostly have to deal with men.

Woman is God's second mistake.

The woman hangs on her neck - and it’s already easier for you.

To calm down, a woman needs to take herself into strong male hands.

For a woman, a man is like a pie: some like it with cabbage, while others like it with eggs.

There is only one way to a woman's heart - honesty.

Silence is the only thing made of gold that women do not consider gold.

A woman loves a man because he loves her. A man loves women in general...

And I found that woman is worse than death, because she is a snare, and her heart is a snare, and her hands are fetters.

Since mostly men knew how to write, all the misfortunes in the world were attributed to women.

A woman knows perfectly well the four operations of arithmetic: she divides the bed, multiplies the gender, adds beauty to herself and subtracts her age.

Women think that two and two will not make four if they shed copious tears.
or shout for a certain time.

The woman is unique!
Only in it can two hearts beat...

Friendship between a man and a woman weakens greatly when night falls.

A woman is interesting as long as she is mysterious.

The true beauty of a woman lies in the meekness of her character, and her charm lies in the brevity of her speeches.

Men are convinced of the weakness of women, and they themselves are their slaves.

And there is no need to convince yourself that He is not worth tears.
If you're crying, it means it's worth it.

If you want to know a girl's flaws, praise her in front of her friends.

A girl will flirt with anyone if the right person is looking at her at the same time.

Sometimes, looking at a woman, you understand that remaining “just a friend” is a feat.

A woman is a delightful instrument, giving inexplicable pleasures - but only to those who have studied its structure, its timid keyboard and the changeable, whimsical placement of the fingers in order to play it.

Quotes about women

— Why did you hit your husband on the head with a frying pan?
- Lord, it’s as if there needs to be a reason for this?

A woman, like a flower, dies without love.
What if he doesn’t die? Either a plastic flower or a cactus...

A girl does not fall in love with an ideal; she idealizes the person she falls in love with.

Men bare their souls, just as women bare their bodies, gradually and only after a stubborn struggle.

A woman is designed in such a way that it is easier to penetrate her body than her soul.

If you look for the soul of a woman first of all, then in some you will certainly find the body.

By exposing her body, a woman does not seduce a man, she seduces herself into caressing this body with a man’s hands.

So that women are loved both in word and in body!

The female body wanted something, but only Othello got it...

The body ages from travelling, the mountain from water, the woman from unsatisfied desires, the heart from evil speeches.

Everyone sooner or later shows what they think is worthy of showing. Luckily, most women show their bodies.

Women, especially those who have gone through the men's school, know very well that talking about lofty subjects is just talk, and that a man needs a body and everything that shows him in the most deceptive but attractive light; and this is exactly what is being done.

Women are divided into materialists and idealists. Materialistic women express the soul with the help of the body; Idealist women - body with the help of soul.

Become a friend to a woman and she will offer you her body.

A girl who opens her soul and body to her friend reveals all the mysteries of the female sex.

Women sell their bodies, spitting in the face of an immoral state.

Male shortcomings have turned the female body into an instrument of prosperity.

A woman’s soul is created for the dance of life and her body is ready to dance it.

Women climb the career ladder not with their feet, but with their whole body.

Yes, the female body is a song.

I had the body of a woman and the feelings of a child.

The body is the least that a woman can give a man.

Modesty is the best decoration that allows a woman to modestly show that you cannot decorate her life.

Women are very strange creatures.
They cover up bruises under the eyes and draw them beautifully above the eyes.

A woman is the most powerful being in the world, and it is up to her to guide a man where God wants him to go.

A man can give everything to his faithful friend - everything, just not the woman he loves.

A smart woman is one in whose company you can act as stupid as you like.

Woman is sacred; the woman you love is doubly sacred.

Busy people have no time to look at women.

A woman inspires a man to great accomplishments, the implementation of which she then makes difficult.

Women are always like this: they passionately want what they don’t have, and having achieved what they want, they experience a feeling of disappointment.

You can ask a woman why she is crying, but you should never ask her why she cried: she does not remember it.

How often does a woman who inspires us to do great things prevent us from doing them?

I was bored - that's why it started. I got bored with him - that's why it ended.

If men do not understand the female heart at all, then women do not understand male honor.

Leave three men together after dinner, and you can be sure that the conversation will turn to women and that the older one will start it.

Why not love your wife? We love strangers.

Everyone returns - except the best friends,
Except for the most beloved and devoted women.

As many stars as there are in the sky, so many deceptions are hidden in a woman’s heart.

It's not worth loving a woman with all your soul. But not loving doesn’t work.

Could Biche, like Dante, create,
Or will Laura glorify the heat of love?
I taught women to speak...
But, God, how to silence them!

A kiss between women only means that they have nothing else to do at that moment.

Women's tears are touching, men's tears are like melted lead; because for a woman tears are a relief, but for us they are torture.

Of all the paths that lead to a woman's heart, pity is the shortest.

Night gives shine to stars and women.

A woman who laughs at her husband cannot love him anymore

Woman is unusually inclined to slavery and at the same time inclined to enslave.

Women have an extraordinary ability to create illusions, to be different from what they really are.

Seeing and respecting a person in a woman is not only necessary, but also the main condition for the possibility of love for a decent person of our time.

A woman thinks with her heart, but a man loves with his head.

There is nothing more dangerous than connecting your fate with the fate of a woman simply because she is beautiful and young.

There is no girl in the world who would not know, at least a week in advance, about the impending expression of feelings.

Women love: young, politically literate, long-legged.

A sultry woman is a poet's dream.

The lack of female affection affects the way of life.

A woman's life is an endless story of hobbies.

The heart of a woman, insulted in her love by betrayal, is like a fortress, captured, devastated and abandoned.

In the heart of every real woman burns a spark of heavenly fire, which sleeps calmly in the bright daylight of prosperity, but flares up, shines and shines, dispersing dark clouds in days of misfortune.

There is nothing more offensive for a man than to call him a fool, for a woman to say that she is ugly.

The stupidest woman can cope with a smart man, but only the smartest can cope with a fool.

A woman's guess is more accurate than a man's confidence.

A man remembers three women: the first, the last and the one.

The better the pub, the worse the wife; the worse the wife, the better the pub.

A woman understands children better than a man, but a man is more of a child than a woman.

A beautiful woman is pleasing to the eyes, but kind to the heart; one is a beautiful thing, and the other a treasure.

A woman sometimes interferes with conflict between men, rather than causes it. But not consciously and not of our own free will.

You can learn a lot from inexperienced girls

A woman cannot be convinced. You can only persuade her

The best decoration for a girl is modesty and a transparent dress.

Beautiful girls should be carried in your arms. But you can't let them get on your neck

No man has lived a true life unless he has been purified by the love of a woman, strengthened by her courage and guided by her modest prudence.

A woman is like tea leaves; you will never know her strength until she boils.

Women's intuition is much more accurate than men's confidence.

Today's women have no difficulty in behaving like men; but they very rarely manage to behave like gentlemen

A woman's direct instinct can sometimes be more valuable than any logical arguments.

Nature told the woman: be beautiful if you can, wise if you want, but you must certainly be prudent.

The kingdom of a woman is the kingdom of tenderness, subtlety, and tolerance.

A woman is the most powerful being in the world, and it is up to her to guide a man where he wants to lead him.
God.

A woman is exactly the same force of nature as wind, lightning, electricity, tsunami.

Women are created to be loved, not to be understood.

There will always be something new to say about women as long as at least one of them remains on the globe.

Woman is the primacy of action over thought; man the primacy of thought over morality.

Woman is God's second mistake

It would be easier for me to reconcile all of Europe than a few women.

Women are like elephants to me: it’s a pleasure to look at them, but I don’t need my own elephant

A woman is a human being who dresses, talks and undresses

Biologically speaking, if something bites you, it's probably female.

Women have simply amazing intuition. They notice everything except the obvious.

If a woman becomes a comrade, it is quite possible that she will get a comradely knee in the ass.

A woman is an invitation to happiness.

No matter how badly men think about women, every woman thinks even worse about them.

Women master the art of dressing wounds almost as well as the art of inflicting wounds.

And I found that woman is worse than death, because she is a snare, and her heart is a snare, and her hands are fetters.

Women are that unshakable rock against which all the waves of male logic break.

The female mind is not for you to wave your skirt around. This is a fifth generation weapon with a skirt.

If you were able to try on two women who have been at war for a long time, then you should think about a career as a politician. It is much easier to reconcile states.

Every woman in her life goes through a painful relationship with a person she definitely doesn’t need.

If a woman behaves like a complete fool, then she is happy.

Every woman wants to wear a new dress, but she dreams even more of fitting into an old one.

Women don’t exactly like it when people wait for them, but they don’t get too upset about it either.

Imprecision is the politeness of queens.

Tell me honestly: how long do you need to be ready in 15 minutes?

The unpunctuality of women is just a funny attempt to rebel against the dictatorship of the clock.

There was so little time on her watch that she couldn’t keep up.

Women wear watches to know how late they are.

Women are like buses: the one you're waiting for never comes.

Women would undoubtedly be punctual if they could be forced to be late.

A woman will not hesitate to sacrifice her honor to save her reputation.

I have such a reputation that it would be better for me to lose it.

I lost my reputation as a girl and managed to take advantage of this chance.

If my girlfriends have the same opinion about me as I do about them, then they have a good opinion of me!

Men's opinion about the merits of a woman rarely coincides with the opinion of women: their interests are too different. Those cute habits, those countless antics that men like so much and ignite passion in them, repel women, giving rise to hostility and disgust in them.

We are so vain that we attach importance to what people to whom we do not attach importance think about us.

What if I'm better than my reputation?

The most ardent adherents of piety are those who are forced to hide something about themselves.

Men have always been proud that their intelligence is higher than that of women, at a time when women's intelligence helped women simply remain silent.

A man can say that twice two is not four, but five or three and a half, and a woman will say that twice two is a stearin candle.
Pigasov in Turgenev’s novel “Rudin”

“Of course, I don’t care what you think about me, but I want to know what you think of me!”

It’s amazing how such a mass of ignorance fits into such a small head!

Idiots are not as idiots as they seem; idiots are a completely different matter.

Whatever the reason to which men owe women's ignorance, they should rejoice that the women who have taken such power over them do not at least have an advantage in education.

The stupidest woman can cope with a smart man, but only the smartest can cope with a fool.

We look at a learned woman as if she were a precious sword: she is carefully finished, skillfully polished, and covered with fine engraving. This wall decoration is shown to connoisseurs, but they do not take it with them to war or hunting, because it is just as unsuitable for use as a show horse, even a well-trained one.

Even people who present themselves as the most zealous admirers of the fair sex do not assume in women an intelligence equal to ours, and, adapting to the weakness of their concept, they publish learned books for ladies, as if for children.
Author: Alexander Pushkin
A woman is smarter than a man, and she spends her intelligence primarily so that the man does not notice this.

The woman is not thinking about anything or thinking about something else.

Women who think are those who don't think.

Smart men by no means avoid the company of fools; Have you often seen a smart woman next to a dumb guy?

A woman is always smart enough to seem like a simpleton.

Women do not like funny men, and men do not like witty women.

Intelligence is exactly what a man looks for in a woman when he has already studied everything else.

A smart woman is one with whom you can be as stupid as you like.

I wouldn't say that women don't have character, they just have a different character every day.

When you lift your partner, it is not the weight that is heavy, but the character.

Her character: sugar with glass.

You need to be able to bear character flaws.

“I myself am good, but my wife is a snake!” - said the boa constrictor.

If all girls are so good, where do evil wives come from?

Women and elephants never forget an insult.

Queen: a woman who rules the state when there is no king, and who rules the state when there is a king.

I would rather be a lonely beggar than a married queen.

Nancy Astor (Viscountess, England's first female parliamentarian): "If you were my husband, I would put poison in your coffee."
Winston Churchill: “If you were my wife, I would drink this coffee.”

Danger is part of my job.

Women are made for diplomacy. The most important thing in diplomacy is to convince the other that your idea is his own. And that's all women do.

I adore women, but I can’t stand their company.

No matter how badly men think about women, every woman thinks even worse about them.

It is usually the man who is to blame for a woman's cynicism.

What good is victory if there is no one at whose feet you can lay the spoils?

If I ever die because of a woman, it will be from laughing.

The mouse is an animal whose path is littered with fainting women.

I keep in my soul, like a treasure, every moment when I do not see her.

Every woman considers herself irreplaceable and believes that she could easily replace any other.

Do you know how great a woman's curiosity is? It is almost as good as men's.

Curiosity is what reduces the door to the size of a keyhole.

The highest degree of embarrassment: two glances meeting through a keyhole.

Wives listen to us most attentively when we are talking with another woman.

Nothing arouses a man's curiosity more than a woman's complete silence.

It doesn't matter at all. That's why it's so interesting.

Most of all, people are interested in what does not concern them at all.

We love to observe the boundaries that we do not want to cross.

Still, it’s a pity for silent films. How nice it was to see a woman open her mouth, but her voice could not be heard!

Women live longer than men, especially widows.

The others were only my wives, and you, my dear, will be my widow.

Widow: a woman who no longer finds a single fault in her husband.

Ideal man: a widow's first husband.

The troubled widow of a late writer.

The ghost of a dead man often frightens us in the guise of his widow.

An honest woman is a woman who never lies, unless, of course, we are talking about her age, her weight and her husband’s earnings.

The look of one woman at another is reminiscent of baggage control at customs.

There is nothing more comforting than meeting a woman on the street who weighs more than you.

There are no fat women, but some women are not tall enough for their weight.

Nothing can hold back the pressure of beauty!
Faina Ranevskaya, looking at the hole in her skirt

Age is a nasty thing, and it gets worse every year.

The woman never stops talking about her age and never mentions it.

To find out my age, you'll have to saw me apart and count the layers.

When a woman turns thirty, the first thing she begins to forget is her age; and at forty he is completely erased from her memory.

Women don't count their years. Their friends do it for them.

According to statistics, women live longer than men. This is not surprising considering how long it takes them to reach thirty.

Half of Americans are under twenty-five years old, and all women are under thirty.

She is still thirty-five years old since she turned forty.

The age of a woman who criticizes everyone is called critical age.

Men mature at the age of sixty, women at about fifteen.

A man cries at the thought of imminent death, a woman cries at the thought of how long ago she was born.

There is nothing worse than growing old alone. My wife has not celebrated her birthday for seven years now.

A lady who was already beginning to be middle-aged.

Youth lasts longer than young people think.

“Girls” is a way for women over forty to address each other.

I’m still only 40, but my wife is already 40!

A secret that she did not share with her friend was to her the same as a dress hanging uselessly in the wardrobe.

If a woman keeps a secret well, it means she has no friends.

A man keeps someone else's secret better than his own, and a woman keeps hers better than someone else's.

Anyone who tells something to a woman under the condition of maintaining the strictest secret is an ordinary sadist.

Friendship between women is just a non-aggression pact.

In conversations with each other, women imitate the spirit of comradely solidarity and that confidential frankness that they do not allow themselves with men. But behind this appearance of friendship there is so much vigilant distrust, and, admittedly, it is justified.

There are few joys in life, but it still happens that a friend is unlucky.

The kiss between the two women has something of a boxer's handshake.

Women kiss each other when they meet because they cannot bite.

It's easy to forgive an enemy, but how to forgive a girlfriend?

My peers are aging so quickly that it’s just nice to watch.

My friends, there are no friends in the world!

Women are amazing creatures: they don’t just want to go to a fairy tale. They want their fairy tale to start right with a happy ending.

A woman wants to dress like others, and suffers if she dresses like others.

Women's logic
My wife kept saying for a week that she wanted to dress “no worse than others.” I bought her the exact same dress as her friend. He hasn't wanted to talk to me for a week now. What does “no worse than others” mean?

You can prove to a woman that she is wrong, but you cannot convince her of it.

Modern girls wear no less clothes than their grandmothers, but not at the same time.

If you believe the phrase “What a woman wants, God wants,” then God wants flowers and marriage.

Some women are not beautiful at all, they just look that way.

Time is the best doctor, but a bad cosmetologist.

I’ll live and I’ll see, I’ll live and I’ll find out, I’ll survive and I’ll take into account...

Who said that I am far from ideal? This poor ideal is far from me!!!

Do you have complexes?... I sympathize with you.

So what if the wind is in my head, but my thoughts are always fresh...

I'm not a bitch or a bitch. I'm kind and sweet, just not with everyone.

In order to quit, you first need to take me.

If you want breakfast in bed, sleep in the kitchen.

Yes, I'm a bitch. If you don’t know me differently, you are incredibly lucky...

I'll go left, or maybe I'll go right. I am a queen, I have the right...

Where have you seen a cat that cares what mice say about it?

Bad character? I just have it!

If you spit in my back, it means I'm ahead of you!

I can’t be the second... And even the first... I can only be the only...

I'm not blaming you, I'm just saying... that it's all your fault.

What you don’t understand, you can understand in any way you like.

I don’t care what you think about me... because I don’t think about you... at all.

I have one drawback - I don’t know how to communicate with assholes.

Do men like me? The only question is, do I like the man...?

I live as I’m supposed to, and I’m supposed to do everything!!!

I love myself more than money, and I love money more than the people around me.

Both you and I will be forgotten. Before you!

Don't tell me what to do and I won't tell you where to go!

It’s not enough to know your worth—you also need to be in demand...

I have unpretentious taste - the best is enough for me!

If you want me to be an angel, organize heaven for me!

When calling me a bitch, be careful and don’t forget that sooner or later I may stop being YOUR bitch!

My life my rules. If you don't like my rules, don't interfere in my life.

Not noticed in vicious relationships... Wasn’t it? No... not noticed...

I'm not in love with myself. I just like...

If you don't like me, it means you have no taste...

I'm too beautiful to have a conscience.

If I ever die because of a man, it will be only from laughter...

If they dig a hole for you, don’t interfere. Once finished, you’ll make a pool.

Just a second, just a second, I’ll fix the crown!!!

I am an angel in the flesh...only the wings are in the dry cleaner, and the halo is on recharge.

I don’t know why women demand everything that men have. After all, women, among other things, have men.

A smart woman is one in whose company you can act as stupid as you like.

A woman is your shadow: when you follow her, she runs away from you; when you leave her, she runs after you.
Alfred de Musset

Beautiful girls and women are rarely alone, but they are often lonely.
Henryk Jagodzinski

The later a girl comes on a date, the more smiling she is.
Gomez de la Serna

A woman must manage to look so wise that her “accidental” stupidity turns out to be a real gift for a man.
Karl Kraus

Night suits every girl and woman.
S. Flesharova-Muscat

A loving woman's heart is always full of hope; To kill them, you need more than one blow with a dagger, she loves until the last drop of blood.
Honore de Balzac

Without a woman, the dawn and evening of life would be helpless, and her noon would be without joy.
Pierre Buast

If God had appointed a woman to be the mistress of a man, he would have created her from the head; if he had appointed her to be a slave, he would have created her from the foot; but since he intended her to be a friend and equal to a man, he created it from a rib.
Aurelius Augustine

If you want to know what a woman really thinks, look at her, but don't listen.
Oscar Wilde

Women's hatred is, in fact, the same love, only changed direction.
Heinrich Heine

A man should beware of a woman when she loves: for then she is ready for any sacrifice, and everything else has no value in her eyes.
Nietzsche F.

If I am part of your destiny, then someday you will return to me...
P. Coelho

“If a woman loves you, then, in essence, the one she loves is not you. But the one she doesn’t love anymore is you!”

Nowadays, to be perfect, a woman must look like a girl, dress like a boy, think like a man and work like a cart horse.

He likes my indifference... if only he knew how hard it is for me.

If a woman loves you, then, by and large, it’s not really you.
And if she doesn’t love you anymore, it’s definitely you.

She is too much of a woman to think about conscience when communicating with a man.

Many girls get married so as not to spend evenings alone. They get divorced for the same reason.

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