How to get your loved one back (3 basic steps). How to quickly get your beloved man or ex-husband back after a breakup

Many women come to me asking for help getting their loved one back. There are many articles on this topic, but today I wanted to somehow structure all the information.

How to get your loved one back? I'll tell you about 5 simple and complex steps that need to be taken. Well, whether your beloved will return or not... no one knows. Not everything, unfortunately, can be in our hands.

Emotions at separation

A person can arrive in two emotional states: adequate and inadequate. An adequate state is an upbeat mood, a positive attitude and everything is fine in life. Another state is emotional depression, depression, instability. it means the person was abandoned. And this is severe stress that pushes you into an inadequate state. Otherwise, we can say that a person is under the influence of strong negative emotions. This state is also called affect. In such a state, a person is not able to think rationally and, as a result, act rationally. This must be firmly understood.

These processes are physiological in nature. In a certain emotional state, certain chemical reactions occur in the brain; the limbic system, which is responsible for emotions, is in an unstable state. At such moments, a person makes more wrong decisions than in a state of calm and harmony. This has been scientifically proven.

To generalize, when a person tries to win someone back, he is inadequate. And this must be understood first of all. Start from this.

Second important For understanding moment - This Liberty will And respect To partner.

If there is a desire to return a person, then it is assumed that there is love for this person. The partner made a choice, expressed his free will and decided to leave. The abandoned person, if he really loves, must respect the free will of the other person. After all, it is on deep respect that strong relationships are built. Completely ignoring your partner's decisions is not love. Love is when you respect a person and his decisions, even if you don't like them. And you need to learn to understand and accept the free will of loved ones.

It turns out that when a person decides to leave, he thus expresses his free will. He may have his own reasons for making such a decision. Maybe something had been bothering him for a very long time, and he could no longer bear the current situation. Or he acted under the influence of strong emotions, and made a decision in a very short time. However, it is his decision. And in your desire to return the person, it turns out that you do not respect his decision. This is not acceptance, respect or love. Your actions are not reasonable. And they are explained by your state of passion.

It happens, of course, that a person, in principle, never takes into account the desires of other people. For him, there is only his own opinion and what is wrong. Then a person, by hook or by crook, tries to make him feel good, without regard to others. But let's hope that you want to return the person who left in a state of passion. That is, not out of selfish desire. And under the influence of strong emotions that you cannot cope with.

The main thing in such a situation is not to forget that the other person is not a thing. He has his own feelings, thoughts and desires. You can’t throw a lasso around his neck and pull him towards you, and then put him on a short leash. The one who left you is, first of all, an independent person.

So, what does the dumped party do after a breakup? He runs to his loved one and begins to beg, persuade, and exhort. She assures that she will forgive everything, that everything has changed, that she herself has changed, that everything will be different, that everything will be fine, and so on. From a person who has been abandoned, millions of promises of a wonderful life come from each other. He does this to relieve stress. And he sincerely believes that everything will truly become better than it was before. But statistics are a merciless thing. People who were able to return their loved one agree that it will not be better, and it will not even be the same as it was before. And all this is because some work has not been done on oneself.

Five steps to get your loved one back

1. Stop impose yours society. The first thing you need to do is stop calling, waiting around the corner, looking for meetings, and so on. There is no need to become intrusive.

Perhaps it seems to you that if you don’t remind yourself, the person will forget. He will start a new life without you. New friends will appear. The thin thread that connects you will break. It seems that the more you don’t communicate with a person, the less chance you have of getting him back. You are driven by a state of passion.

Look at the situation from the perspective of the loved one whom you want to return. He is angry, offended, irritated. His feelings and emotions are also in an upset state. He wants to be alone, calm down, lick his wounds. But you are constantly looming before his eyes. On his part, this only causes irritation and aggression. And the more you put pressure on him, the more violent the reaction will come from him. Under no circumstances should you try to manipulate, threaten, intimidate, or try to force pity. This will not lead to anything good.

A person can return only if he wants to. There are no other options.

What is the difference between wanting to return and returning out of a sense of duty or guilt? In the second case, the person was taken out in one way or another. He returns against his will. This does not cause positive emotions in him, but only aggravates anger and irritation. If a person himself wants to return, then he does it based on positive emotions. He is drawn to you, warm and tender feelings are associated with you. And only in this case is a happy future together possible.

So, let's summarize. The first step is to stop humiliating yourself and imposing yourself on the person. There is no need to cause him aggression or even disgust with your behavior. Otherwise, all further actions will be meaningless.

1. Stop contact. That is, there should be no calls on your part, inquiries from mutual acquaintances, observations from afar, and so on. This should last for a certain time. You cannot look for a meeting or any information about the person who left you.

Let me give you a very common example. The wife left her husband along with the children. He wants her back and also wants to see his children. He needs to stop all contact on his initiative. And even with children. There is no need to call your spouse and ask to see your children. If she calls herself, then yes, meet, communicate and the like. In other words, there should be no initiative on the part of the husband. Even if I miss my children very hard and terribly. You need to gain strength and not contact. And if the initiative comes from her side, then it is necessary to support it.

But there is no need to jump for joy and think that everything is back to normal. This behavior can be off-putting. Therefore, restrain your emotions. Behave in a friendly but reserved manner. Perhaps even a little distant. You need to create the appearance that you are making concessions. That you don’t really need communication with this person, but so be it. At the same time, the request of the person who abandoned you must be fulfilled in full, that is, the reason why he contacted you. No more, no less. Do exactly what was asked. And don't offer anything more than that. There should be an illusion that you have a full life and no extra time. Although it would be better if this actually happens. The person must miss you a little. This was discussed in the first paragraph.

Stop following pages on social networks, torturing mutual friends with questions, and so on. If you constantly tease yourself with old photographs, new details of a person’s life, then your emotions will never subside and you can plunge headlong into this pool. Your goal is to get on with your life and stop thinking about your loved one, at least for a while.

1. Pass the All stages experiences loss. This is necessary to bring your thoughts and emotions to a normal state, to stop doing stupid things and trampling on your own pride. When you put yourself in order, you will be able to communicate with the person who left you not from the position of a victim, but from the position of an equal who can control his life, can be responsible for himself, and be guided by reason, not emotions.

This step should be taken when you can, at least by an effort of will, switch your thoughts from your loved one to something else. Therefore, it is important to detach yourself from the person, to pull yourself out. This is exactly what we are doing on mine. If you have not symbolically broken up with the man, then the process of returning will go down the drain. It is not known how long it will take to go through all stages of suffering. This depends on many factors, including individual mental characteristics. As soon as you feel the strength and ability to move on, you can move on to the next point.

1. Find class For souls. It would seem like banal advice that all friends and acquaintances give in such a situation. But it's really necessary. After a symbolic breakup, you will feel a huge emptiness that must be filled sooner or later.

The pain and suffering from parting will sooner or later subside, lose their severity, and only a favorite thing can pull a person out and bring him back to life. You definitely need something that will make you wake up in the morning, that will make you act and continue living.

People who have nothing but relationships in their lives are actually in big trouble. The state of happiness should not depend on external reasons, such as the presence or absence of another person nearby.

You need to find something in your life that you will be consoled by and that you will enjoy in the most difficult periods of your life. This is where you will draw energy for new achievements. Find pleasure here.

For many people, this source of energy is work. And that's actually wonderful. During difficult periods of life, a person immerses himself in work. And until he finds inner harmony, he works hard. And this brings money, a promotion, high social status, new things, apartments, cars and other benefits. Even if you don’t succeed in getting your loved one back, you will already have an excellent material base for a further comfortable life and new relationships.

And here we can move on to the last point.

1. Talk With former. You can finally remind yourself. But this is only on the condition that from the moment of separation you did not bother him, did not impose on him, did not think about him, and did not look for news about him. Now your state of mind has stabilized. Now you can think with your head and make the right decisions.

It is noteworthy that people who reach the fifth point are faced with a certain paradox. They have done and gone through so much to get their ex back and now they are ready for dialogue. But then they find out for themselves that there is no desire to return him. Why is this happening? Because during the passage of all stages you have become a different person. We grew as a person and became stronger. And going back to the past is no longer interesting. After all, new exciting prospects have opened up before you. You have become a different person. And old relationships are a step back.

But if, nevertheless, the feelings have not faded away, and you really love this person and want to build a relationship with him, then offer him friendship. Not family, not sex, not love, but just friendship.

At the same time, it will be simply wonderful if the initiative for dialogue does not come from you. And, for example, a mutual friend will help you meet “by chance.” If the initiative comes from your ex, this is a very good sign. This means that the person wants to be with you and is looking for common ground. And this is no longer enough. And on this foundation you can try to build strong relationships.

I’m always happy to help you become happier!

With love,
Irina Gavrilova Dempsey

WHY SHOULD YOU TAKE THIS TRAINING?

To return your loved one, you need to clearly know all the pitfalls.

Because with wrong actions you push him away.

If a man leaves, it means something didn’t suit him, perhaps:

Your behavior;

Your character;

Your attitude.

Since he did not study the topic of relationships, did not listen to lectures, trainings, naturally, he did not know how to change everything, so he made such a decision.

And if you want to restore the relationship,

you need to start with yourself, change yourself!!!

And through proper communication, show your changes.

Let's think objectively:

Why would a partner return to that old relationship if he ran away from it?

Let me give you an example: when you have a recipe for a cake, you know what ingredients need to be added and in what order, then you simply follow the recipe and the result is delicious.

The same goes for restoring relationships.

If you know:

What exactly needs to be written, how often, with what frequency, how many SMS at a time;

How to position yourself correctly in order to make your loved one want to return;

And if your partner calls instead of answering via SMS, what should you say?

How to restore trust if it is lost?

How to get rid of a rival if there is one?

How to stop crying, suffer and stabilize your emotions, get rid of resentment, jealousy, anger and become happy?

Since the topic is deep and I can’t tell you everything in one video or article, as you understand, that’s why I created my training.

And when you restore your relationship, then how to properly maintain and develop the relationship so that the man always wants to be nearby, and does not leave again in a week or a couple of months.

Just imagine that you have received answers to all these questions, and clearly understand how you need to act, step by step.

When you have support in an online chat, where all the training participants and I communicate.

At any time you can ask a question and receive practical advice and guidance.

How easy would it be for you?

You have a much better chance of getting everything right when you have clear instructions, a recipe that has helped hundreds of women.

TRAINING OPTIONS

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It is suitable for non-complex situations.

In the middle version “Come back and become the only one” includes a technique for restoring the relationship from the first packet.

Plus additional Techniques:

How to stabilize your emotional state;

Remove jealousy forever;

Claims, if any;

Raise your value;

Love yourself;

To become a woman whom people don’t leave, but want to always be near.

PLUS THE MEDIUM OPTION INCLUDES TECHNIQUES:

How to properly create and develop relationships so that your loved one always wants to be near you.

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TRAINING IS NOT SUITABLE IN ONLY TWO SITUATIONS:

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2 SITUATION

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BUT IF YOUR SITUATION DOES NOT APPLY TO THESE TWO CASES, YOU CAN SIGN UP FOR THE TRAINING.

Remember! Those who have a greater chance of establishing relationships:

who has a clear strategy,

who understands how to position themselves correctly when communicating (via SMS or live)

who knows how to arouse interest in a partner and a desire to return.

Rather than act at random or make mistakes, it is better to get proven, step-by-step instructions. Do you agree?

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WHAT DO THOSE WHO HAVE PASSED THE TRAINING SAY?

Oksana returned her partner in just 3 weeks, aroused her partner’s interest, stirred up his feelings.

We were together for a couple of months.

Reason for the breakup: Jealousy, misunderstandings, secretiveness of the partner.

Thank you, Victoria!

Oksana is 39 years old. Madrid

Thanks to the training of Victoria Vlasova:
“How to get your loved one back using magic SMS”, I established communication with my ex, he became interested and called me.

During the training, I reassessed the situation, I changed my mind about returning, I deserve better. I became more confident and raised my self-esteem. Opened up to new relationships.

Love. Israel

In 3.5 weeks I managed to restore the relationship!

We were together for 3 years. Reason for breakup: Frequent scandals, conflicts.

In 3.5 weeks I managed to restore the relationship,

took them to a new level, learned to resolve conflicts with a couple of phrases.

She became a truly happy wife and mother.

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Victoria Vlasova’s training opened my eyes to why the situation with my husband’s betrayal and his departure arose in the first place.

Victoria always gives clear answers and helps when cats are scratching at your soul.

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I brought my husband, who had left for his mistress, back into the family using magical SMS.

With the help of Victoria's methods, I completely changed... I became calmer.

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After separation and a serious illness with cancer, my husband ignored me and took the child. I turned to magicians, fortune tellers, and tried to return it myself, but nothing worked.

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For eight years, I was a constant witness to a very harmonious relationship: a friend, with the diligence of a conscientious secretary, informed me about how first the romance was going, and then family life. To be honest, I was happy for my friend and even slightly envious.

That’s why everything really developed according to the instructions of beautiful women’s love novels: bouquets with and without occasion, sweet surprises, love notes, constant tender hugs and fleeting kisses. They equally share household responsibilities, and from time to time her husband even serves her morning coffee in bed (and this is after 4 years of marriage and 2 years of marriage before the registry office!). And then, like thunder in the middle of a clear July evening, a friend comes running with tears into three streams, not looking like herself.

In general, the story is banal, everything was fine and simply wonderful, when it suddenly dawned on the girl that romance in their life had become completely dull. Colleagues at work seemed to have formed a conspiracy of silence: they began to look at each other meaningfully and cut off conversations in the smoking room as soon as a friend joined them. For some reason, everyone began to pat her husband on the shoulder sympathetically (they work in the same company, albeit in different departments) and say, “Don’t worry about her leaving you.”

The friend decided to figure out what was what, and directly asked her beloved what was happening. He left the conversation, but sent a short SMS: “I fell in love with someone else, but I told everyone that it was you who stopped loving me and left on your own, in order to preserve your pride.”

I read the messages and was outraged by such impudence: I cheated on myself, and also abandoned my wife and child. And she began the standard procedure of consolation, using everything available at home: she gave her friend the opportunity to cry, gave her strong coffee with a bite of chocolate and cream liqueur, and blotted new streams of tears from her eyes with napkins. And she suggested solving the problem radically: that is, do you need this as your betrothed after what happened? And if so, then let's look for information on how to get your loved one back if he is already with someone else?

How to get your beloved man back

From my past life experience, I knew that the best way to win the attention of any man is to show him that you don’t need him at all. Then the old instinct of a hunter, afraid of losing his prey, automatically turns on, and he actively rushes to conquer the woman again. Because, according to the code of male nature, an already conquered girl who declares her love and cooks cheesecakes and scrambled eggs in the morning becomes uninteresting.

There was a lot of different information, but of the listed effective means that allow you to act at a distance, prayer seemed the most effective to my friend. A friend found an icon (still her grandmother’s) of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker at home and asked for help. She even lit candles, albeit with New Year's decor - there were no others in the house. I methodically surfed online resources in search of recipes for restoring relationships.

Over the course of two weeks, a friend tried to “bring her loved one back on her own with the power of thought.” To do this, she had to tell his photographs about her own feelings for an hour every day. She partially shared her experiences with photos, but for the most part she spoke to me personally. Then she performed a ritual, which is recommended to be carried out after a breakup, to attract the energy of love into her life: she placed hearts and paired figurines in the corners of the room, lit scented candles, read a mantra (she had to come up with it herself, but speak from the heart and about what is most cherished) .

Then for two days a friend suffered over a letter to her beloved - according to reviews, a very powerful remedy, especially if written by hand, listing the best moments of their previous life together and the first meeting, and at the end add a note about how much you love your ex... that is, the one who left and tell him that you can’t live without him. In my opinion, this is a waste of time, but my friend was slightly distracted, writing sheet after sheet in uneven handwriting (due to worries and long-standing practice), scribbling and rewriting. But the correspondence did not take place - the friend did not know the new address of residence, and her husband took a month off from work. Under the influence of her creative impulse, I also tried to write poems with a romantic aura, there were words about chords of love, and about a lonely full moon, and about days blacker than black soil. My friend read it, got emotional, cried, and I joined her in company.

10 golden simple rules

In my opinion, it doesn’t matter what a person does during a period of mental torment, the main thing is that he does something and does not lie in prostration on the sofa. And any action can bring the desired result closer. For example, my friend used the following:

1) I became interested in designing my future using “Medici solitaire” - where you need to build a chain of certain events in order to get the desired result. The positive thing was that, during her solitaire games, she managed to “fold” the gift - and literally a day later she won some pennies in the lottery. I was inspired and even went to the beauty salon to get a new hairstyle.

2) I found several online fortune tellers that guarantee quick results, promise an instant love spell and provide their magical services even without prepayment. With their help, it was not possible to bring my loved one back into the family, but my friend became truly interested in esotericism and began to actively educate herself on this matter. As a result, she, in her opinion, restored her energy balance, tuned in to positive thoughts and began not only to listen to more cheerful songs, but also began to dance to them with pleasure.

3) Then my friend’s educational era began: she purposefully downloaded courses and trainings from torrents on the topic of how to get a loved one back.” Together we watched three video courses by Victoria Vlasova, felt sad while listening to recordings by Igor Latyshko, and figured out the causes of depression using the method of Boris Litvak. In fact, they recapitulated the techniques for getting men back, described in the book “How to Get Your Loved One Back” by the authors Oleg Ideal and Alena Volk. This was followed by studying Olga Chikankova’s recommendations on how to get her loved one back. And for some reason Irina Mirova’s “treatises” on how to get your wife back.

4) According to my feelings, my friend and I could already give lectures on this subject ourselves. But she continued to improve in being happy with the help of Mikhail Torsunov’s training and raising her rating in Pavel Rakov’s courses.

5) Then, on the new moon, we made romantic amulets and performed a ritual to attract personal “female happiness” into life (for this we had to wipe ourselves with cold lunar water, and take an air bath, and smear ourselves with an aromatic mixture of essential oils under a simple spell like “come to me my love and bring happiness with you").

6) And also take part in two safe and completely harmless rituals: clear the room of unnecessary things, and clear your life of negative thoughts. And then call your ex-spouse on the phone and chat on neutral topics.

7) After this, there was a clear breakthrough in the situation, and in one day: the husband invited his friend to drink coffee in the cafeteria during his lunch break. We must pay tribute to all these magical and psychological techniques that brought a certain result - the friend stopped feeling sorry for herself and complaining about her fate, she became fresher and prettier. I began to dance even more actively to folklore motifs and practice cleansing dousing with cold water every day.

8) After drinking coffee together, the husband invited his friend to accompany her home - she tried for a long time to catch him after a working day with heavy bags and finally she succeeded. The knight, in a familiar home environment, was offered his favorite salad with Greek chicken, tea brewed in a special way and to return.

9) The husband thanked him for everything and left thoughtfully, and the friend, having thoroughly mastered Simoron’s technique, began to recite cool rhymes of her own composition. At the same time, ask for help from Saint Matronushka. And learn fortune telling with tarot cards, and for some reason I managed to tell fortunes to some married betrothed.

10) A friend dedicated her next day off to clearing the house of unnecessary things (she even tried to take out the chair) and filling it with love magic. I don’t know what helped, but at that moment, when the chair was tightly stuck in the elevator, her husband returned. I worked as a free loader, did some more men's work around the house and, since I was very tired, asked to spend the night, they say, and it was already late (it was just the beginning of eleven at night).

What to do to regain trust after a lie (psychology)

I don’t know what helped my friend; she took too complex an approach to getting her husband back. Everything seemed to be back to normal, but a negative aftertaste still remained, although her husband apologized and sincerely explained the reason for his action (they say that the girl jumped on him herself, so he lost his head), and swore that such will not happen again. But now all that remains is to start believing again and not be paranoid about the past.

But what to do if a man has lost trust in you? A simple promise will not get rid of this. You need to make it clear that his trust is very important to you. Always be sincere and open up to him, telling him about secrets that were previously inaccessible to anyone. This is what will help breathe fresh notes into old relationships where there was a place of lies.

And we continue the topic: how to get the guy you love back (advice from a psychologist).

A time-tested method of “how to get rid of your rival”

The friend, of course, believed her husband and forgave her, but secretly from him she developed a whole strategy to prevent the appearance of new mistresses:

1) forbade myself to be jealous and control my man once and for all.
2) began to “mark” her home territory with the smells of fresh baked goods (her husband simply adores cinnamon rolls), and casually sprayed her loved one’s clothes with her perfume.
3) took up self-improvement to appear busy, creative and interesting.
4) she began to voice all her demands on her husband in the form of a request, and at least once a day she spoiled him with gratitude, compliments or praise (especially in front of strangers).
5) and most importantly, I began to look at everything positively.

If you ask a question “How to get your beloved man back ” to your friends, then most likely they will advise you to “forget this asshole” and “enjoy life.”

But how can you enjoy life if you are not at all happy with the current situation? How to enjoy life if you don't want to look for another partner? And how can you enjoy life if you can’t imagine this very life without HIM?

Psychologists say that in terms of the level of emotional shock, separation from a loved one occurs immediately after the death of a loved one. I am ready to subscribe to every word, because this is the pure truth. Like almost every person, I have experienced a painful breakup that leaves behind an emptiness in my soul that seems impossible to fill with anything.

Before I tell you how to get your beloved man back, I would like to draw your attention to how NOT to do this. So…

How not to try to get your loved one back

At the moment when a man informs you of his decision to break off the relationship, right on the spot you can make several mistakes that will almost certainly make his return impossible. Or at least make it very difficult. If you have already made these mistakes, there is nothing you can do about it. But for the future, keep in mind that it is absolutely NOT possible to do this.

1. Don't try to fix everything right away! Let's say a man just told you that “you can no longer be together.” Emotions overwhelm you and blow your mind.
   You are trying to convince him that things will change. You sob and humiliate yourself. You try to make him feel sorry for you, press on feelings of guilt, threaten to commit suicide... It's all USELESS!
   In some cases, this tactic brings results. A very deplorable and dubious result - it is important to understand this. Even if a man decides to stay, feeling sorry for you, your relationship will not last long.
2. Another common mistake when breaking up also dictated by emotions. You have been abandoned. You were hurt. And in your soul you thirst for revenge - you want to fight back, to inflict pain in return.
   If you start yelling at him, insulting and humiliating his dignity in every possible way, you will deal him a strong blow - a blow to his pride. Men take such a blow very hard, and it is very difficult to correct the consequences of such developments in the future.

Now you know what not to do when breaking up and are ready to move on to getting your beloved man back. But first I want to say this. There is no magic phrase that will make your ex throw himself at your feet. Just like there is no magic button that you can press and turn back time.

But there is a scheme, following which greatly simplifies this task.

Scheme for returning a beloved man

1. Stop all contact with him! Don’t call, don’t write, don’t be on social networks and don’t bother me with SMS. This will give you the opportunity to calm down, emotions will subside, resentment and anger will pass. His negativity should also subside (especially if the breakup was painful and you said a lot of unnecessary things).
   Therefore, stop all contact for at least a few weeks. If he calls himself, communicate in a friendly manner, as if nothing happened. Demonstrate that you are doing well. If he's trying to figure things out, avoid it.
2. When breaking at any costhold back your emotions .
3. Remember what catastrophic consequences emotional communication usually leads to. Free yourself from addiction. Love is a drug. The same parts of the brain are responsible for love addiction and drug addiction.
   When you are addicted, your desire to have what you want is too obvious. You become obsessive and, against your will, demonstrate a strong need for him.
4. You need to give yourself time and get yourself into a state where you can tell yourself: “Yes, I still love him, but if he doesn’t come back, I will continue to live without him.” Remove everything that reminds you of him from your eyes..If you don't do this, you'll screw yourself up every time you come across his things. “And I gave him this T-shirt for our anniversary”... “And in this ashtray he shook the ash from his cigarette”... “And from this mug he drank coffee”... Remember that you need to get rid of your love affair
5. dependencies . There is no point in aggravating your suffering.Realize that since he initiated the breakup, it means that the way you are now, he no longer needs you.
6. Yes, this is a painful revelation. And as long as you blame other women, mean friends and an asshole man, you will not be able to get him back. The man did not leave for another woman... First of all, he left you. Looking for a problem somewhere else is a comforting, but pointless activity.
7. Change your image , start playing sports. This puts the idea in a man’s head that you have begun to change. He will see that you do not shed crocodile tears, but live life to the fullest. Moreover, after his departure, YOU EVEN TRANSFORMED.
8. Use similarities .
9. Sow into the man’s subconscious that you are the only woman who thinks the same way as him. That you are the only woman who can understand his inner world. Moreover, that you think the same way as he does. Expand your circle of interests and acquaintances.
10. Don't get hung up on the man. Don't put him on a pedestal and make him the center of the universe. Somehow you lived without it before, right? Find yourself a hobby, communicate with interesting people. The more interests and hobbies you have, the higher your importance in the eyes of men. Create an aura of demand around yourself
11. . A man is a social being. And the fact that other men want to get you greatly increases HIS desire to possess you. But don’t confuse being in demand with causing jealousy! It’s one thing when the men around you pay attention to you, and quite another when you flirt with everyone.
12. Make him start to regret leaving SUCH a woman. If you got rid of love addiction, go to the gym, regularly meet with friends, take care of yourself and live life to the fullest, he himself will begin to regret leaving you. . When you are mentally ready to meet him -

get in touch

You can make an appointment under any pretext. For example, he forgot a photo of his grandmother in your apartment and you want to give it back.