We offend our mothers' relatives a lot.
They cry sitting on a bench
It's time to learn to say this to us:
“I’m wrong, forgive me, mommy!”

And her smile is beyond praise
A family photo, framed.
You will be the best child if you said:
“I’m sorry, I love you, mommy!”

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There is no one better than you, my mom.

I'm sorry dear, I know it hurts
Listen to grievances from your children
But the word will fly out like a bird involuntarily
Then go try to catch up.

And I know that you have forgiven me
And even if the bitterness got to me
Forgive me, because there is nowhere more loved
There is no one better than you, my mom.

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There's no shame in asking for forgiveness
Especially those who are right.
I know, mom, you're upset.
For my heavy, stupid temper.
I'll try to improve
And I will start living again,
From what I sincerely admit
My guilt to mommy!

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Sorry, everything will be fine

I know mom, you're angry
You hold a grudge against me.
Your soul is not made of granite,
I apologize for the quarrel of the day.

I expressed myself in a harsh manner,
And he said a lot of words.
Sorry, everything will be fine with us,
I want peace to reign in the house.

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Mommy, my mommy,
Take me quickly!!!
How tired I am of living without you,
I'm completely lost in this world!!!
Forgive me, I was stupid
And I didn’t value the time of happiness!!!
But I realized a long time ago
How hard it is for me without you!!!

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Mother

I don't know how to apologize
My pride hinders my speech!!!
And I wouldn't want to change
I've gotten used to cutting from the shoulders in life!!!
But mom know, in front of you,
I'm ready to get on my knees!!!
Forgive me, because with all my soul,
I love you, I can understand!!!

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Forgive me, dear mother.

Forgive me, dear mother
For being sometimes with you
I'm very cocky and stubborn
And I upset you with myself.

I know you love me very much
And you cherish everything like a child
And you will never judge
For all the hurtful words

Forgive me for everything, for everything that happened
So that my heart stops aching
In the soul, so that the joy does not cool down
I swear to always love you.

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Hold me close

How many have changed their minds
How much has been experienced
How many times have I repented
Mommy, in a dream.

A wound in my heart
Hidden from others
I'm sorry dear
And hold me close.

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It's great to have loved ones in your life. Knowing that there are friends and family who care about you and who can always support you in difficult times, a person has a feeling of security and need. But, as often happens, we offend the people we care about most often than others. Where we can restrain ourselves in front of strangers, in the presence of our relatives this is not always possible. And the question arises: how to ask for forgiveness from loved ones correctly?

Squeezing out “Forgive me” is very difficult. If you do nothing and leave everything as it is, then the tension in the relationship will grow. Thinking that over time everything will work out on its own is wrong, because this is an indicator of immaturity. It is easier to respect and trust a person who admits his mistakes. But how can you ask for forgiveness from your beloved girl, from your dad and mom, from your sister or best friend?

Why is it hard to apologize?

We can talk at length about the benefits of asking for forgiveness. Prepare a speech in poetry or beg him. All this is useless if you don't have the right attitude. The difficulty is this:

• Pride and selfishness can become an obstacle to reconciliation. It is pride that makes a person think: “Why me? He is also wrong." Everyone is waiting for the first step from the other, and resentment can develop into hatred. To break this vicious circle, you need to calm down and analyze what you did wrong and how you can correct the situation. The quality of humility will help with this. Is it unfashionable now? Yes, many people think so, but we are talking about relationships with loved ones. The majority opinion should not affect your decisions. There is no shame in admitting that you are wrong; your family and friends will appreciate it.
• Education also plays a significant role. If as a child you did not hear the words “sorry” from your dad and mom, then this will be difficult for you too. This requires awareness of this fact and work on yourself. Try to “step on” yourself once and apologize, you will feel light in your soul and in your relationships. Next time asking for forgiveness will not be difficult. Come up with an apology in verse, this will help smooth out the tension.
• The right infusion. How necessary it is. Often people think: “If I ask for forgiveness, then I will make it clear that I am guilty and show my weakness.” This opinion is wrong. Agree, at least two people are involved in a quarrel. Do you want to say that you didn’t say too much or didn’t show disdain with your icy silence? You yourself know that there is a share of your fault.

What can be done

Before apologizing, it is important to consider a few things. Otherwise, you can mess things up even if you have the best intentions. There is no point in sorting things out when you are irritated. Wait until you both cool down. And a few more tips:

• When figuring out how to ask a girl for forgiveness, in poetry or prose, it is important to be sincere.

A hint of sarcasm is inappropriate, even if you are sure you are right. An expression like: “Sorry, I didn’t think you couldn’t take a joke” can be perceived as mockery. If you are sincere, your eyes and your tone of voice will show it. Even if the offense is unfounded, acknowledge that you may have hurt feelings. A sincere apology removes the wall that is built by the offended person. Destroy this wall and you will notice that the girl is no longer in a defensive position, peace has been restored.

• Different upbringings need to be taken into account.

What may seem like a funny joke to you may be an insult to someone else. There is no need to beg the feelings of another or make fun of them in any way. If it’s common practice in your family to tease each other and no one gets offended by it, this does not mean that this is the norm for others. Don't demand that people adapt to you and understand your jokes. Over time, this may happen, but for now, apologize and no longer make funny jokes about others.

• The emotional background also needs to be taken into account; it is different for each person.

Growing up in the same family, the characters cannot be the same. Some are more emotional, others not so much. You think it’s okay to take your sister’s sweater without permission, but this may irritate her. The result was a scandal. You think that your sister got wound up in vain. Listen to her words, and not to the tone in which it was said. Try to understand what she doesn't like. Understanding will help you come to the right decision. And if you need to ask your sister for forgiveness, then do not hesitate. Understand that she may feel differently than you do.

Sometimes, just one word can hurt a person. So I, not at all out of malice, offended you, and now I simply cannot find a place for myself. Please forgive me. I'm so sad without you. Don't hold a grudge against me anymore. This quarrel became a big lesson for me.

With you next to me I breathe
I'm burning next to you,
I live next to you,
And without you I'm dying,
Forgive me, I beg you!
My prickly hedgehog, stop snorting.
Even though it will hurt, I want to hug you.
Darling, life is about mistakes, we learn from mistakes! After all, there is no pain stronger than that which lovers inflict on each other. And I stumbled and made a mistake. But the only person who doesn't make mistakes is the one who never does anything. I’m not making excuses, no, I just want you to understand that you are very dear to me, and everything that I don’t do is only because I’m afraid of losing you!

The fear of losing you turned my head and I was wrong. And I ask you, beloved, do not judge me strictly, but understand. I apologize for what I did. I love you very much and will do everything for your happiness! Forgive me dear.

Learning to build relationships

Understanding the above principles will also help in your relationship with your best friend. It all depends on how you interpret this concept. If the word “friendship” is a superficial concept with selfish motives, then you should not worry that you have offended someone. Your friendship will end in any case. And if the basis of friendship is affection, loyalty, mutual assistance, then such relationships must be protected.

It is clear that there are no ideal people. From time to time there will be mutual grievances and complaints. You shouldn't put an end to your relationship. It is possible to mend a friendship. Most often, people are offended not on purpose: she said it without thinking; was rude while in a bad mood; as a friend, she interfered in something that was not her own business.

After you understand why your friend was offended, start a conversation with the goal of solving the problem and maintaining the friendship. Explain that you did not upset her out of malice. It won't look like you're making excuses, you're just clarifying your motives and motivations. You can apologize for hurt feelings. If your girlfriend is a romantic and emotional person, try presenting her a request for forgiveness in poetry.

I have been incredibly lucky in my life that fate gave me you. You are my angel, my favorite girl in the world. I apologize for offending you, my sunshine. Please forgive me. The lack of trust in you was a big lesson for me. Let's make peace, my kitten.

I promise to make you the happiest girl in the world, just forgive and believe me, my dear. My love will become a talisman for you, my only and desired one.

Every day lived without you is simply an unbearable test.. I think about you every minute, my joy. Please forgive me for offending you. After all, it was not out of malice. I love you more than life. Don't be offended by me anymore.

Let's keep our love, because it's so good for us to be together. Darling, I breathe you. I need you like I need air.

But this is in the heat of the moment.
This happens to everyone.
Please forgive me,
Love like that only once!
Sorry for the unnecessary words, and for my stupid actions. Believe me, there is no limit to my repentance! I want to look into your eyes again... Please forgive me!

The same principles apply if a dispute occurs between two friends. If a friend or girlfriend did not accept your apology, then it will be easier for you because you did everything possible on your part.

Parents are people who will always forgive. They forgive for thoughtlessly spoken words, for not having time to call them. Stop in your cycle of life. Mom and dad are the closest and dearest you have. Things may not work out with a girl, friendships may become obsolete, but your parents are always with you.

Make it a habit to call them every day and see how they are doing. Ask for forgiveness for your indifference to them. But what if you have not yet reached the age when you can fully make decisions and take care of yourself financially?

First of all, you need to realize that you can be wrong too. If you see only your parents’ shortcomings and don’t notice your own, then asking for forgiveness is extremely difficult. Besides, parents are not perfect. They want what's best for you, but they don't always know how to do it right. One thing is for sure, they truly care about you.

Asking for forgiveness is not easy, especially if your mother is seriously offended. But this must be done so as not to accumulate resentment and not deepen the quarrel.

The best way is to talk. If you really feel guilty, you just need to say so. “I’m sorry I offended you, I was wrong.” “It hurts me that I upset you.” It would seem that these are simple words, but they will be the first step towards reconciliation.

But what to do if your mother is offended, but you think that the truth in the conflict is on your side. Then you should ask for forgiveness, and then calmly, simply, and most importantly, sincerely explain your position and be sure to listen to your mother’s position. Well, if you can’t come to an agreement, then let everyone remain with their own opinion. In the end, it’s stupid to be offended by your mother and offend her because of how better the dishes are. But you don’t need to formally agree with your mother in words, while in practice remaining unconvinced. This will only create a new quarrel in the future.

Many people simply do not know how to ask for forgiveness. It is very difficult for them to admit their guilt and talk about their true feelings. It is the hardest for such people, because they carry their own within themselves, worry that they have offended, repent inside, but cannot utter the seemingly simple words: “forgive me, mom.”

In this case, you can write a letter to your mother. It’s easier to say about your feelings in writing, and it’s easier to understand them. And having sorted everything out in your head, it’s easier to understand both yourself and your mother. And after reading the letter, mom will probably say that she has forgiven. And the conversation that both need so much will still take place.

You can make amends with your actions. So, it is easier for a child to wash all the dishes in the house and clean up when his mother arrives, rather than talk about his feelings. And the adult son buys flowers for his mother. And the mother will definitely understand what her child wanted to say.

It is also very important to forgive yourself. Many people attach too much importance to their actions and words and believe that there is nothing left. There are no perfect people, so you need your own imperfection, your own mistake. This is precisely the first step towards reconciliation with your mother.

To think that your mother will not forgive means to underestimate her, not to trust her. It is worth being more open and trusting in your relationship with your mother, learning to talk about your feelings without blaming either yourself or her for the fact that these feelings arose.

Psychologist Lyubov Bogacheva writes in her article: “Just allow reconciliation to happen, don’t interfere with it. And in such a state it will be very easy to ask for forgiveness!” Ask for forgiveness, and your mother will definitely forgive and understand, that’s why she is a mother.

Instructions

In any situation before you moms or dad, you should cool down from your emotions. After some time, it is much easier to realize your guilt and understand what the mistake was. Put yourself in the shoes of your parents, because since childhood we have become accustomed to the fact that they always know everything better than us and, as a rule, insist on their decision, even if it is contrary to our desires. However, the more we become, the easier it is to put ourselves in their place and understand that even if we - their children - have already grown up, they still care about us and wish us well. From this position it is much easier to see your mistake and feel the injustice.

When you feel ready to ask forgiveness at moms, talk through your experience, admit your guilt and explain your feelings. This will give you the opportunity to better understand your experiences. After all, it’s unlikely that you deliberately wanted to do it to her. At the same time, do not forget to use the “I” communication model. We so often tell another person how he is. In fact, there is another feeling hidden behind our words. The essence of the “I feel” model is that each sensation should be formulated as “I feel pain” or “I feel sad.” But not “You” or, even worse, “You never hear me.” In this way, we give the other person a better understanding of ourselves, we show that we are not made of iron, and each of us experiences our own feelings. Listen to your mom and give her a hug. The best sign of her forgiveness is your feeling of relief from the heaviness in your soul.

Often, conflicts between grown-ups and parents have roots going back to childhood. Unfulfilled desires, suppressed emotions - all this can come to the surface in the form of constant quarrels and arguments. Therefore, very often adult children conflict with their parents, not understanding that true relationships are harmonious, and parents are mentors, partners and often close friends. Don't hesitate to ask for forgiveness moms or dad. Of course, in any conflict there is fault on both sides. The faster you can stop and survive them, the faster this awareness occurs.

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How to ask a friend for forgiveness. Unfortunately, it so happened that you quarreled with your best friend. The reasons can be very different, from something completely trivial, but in the process of a quarrel revealing all the sharp corners of your friendship, to something serious, when you don’t want to forgive or ask for forgiveness.

Helpful advice

How to ask for forgiveness. In fact, asking for forgiveness is quite difficult. Even, perhaps, more difficult than confessing your love for the object of your admiration. Therefore, you need to begin forgiveness by determining in your soul the degree of your guilt. And only after this you need to approach the search for a way to forgive and choose the right words that are consonant with this very notorious forgive.

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Mom is the main word, the first word in every destiny..., “The best girlfriends are a mother and a pillow” - how many more words, poems, songs have been written about a person who feels his child even from a distance, wishes him only the best and can always understand and forgive, even if your beloved child has caused a terrible offense and caused emotional trauma.

Instructions

All children, without exception, are enormously indebted to their parents, especially their mothers: for the difficulties of pregnancy and sleepless nights, for the fulfillment of most desires, children's and not so much, and this list can be continued endlessly. Of course, we can say that no one forces parents to have children and then suffer and suffer while raising them to their feet. But be that as it may, no matter what the skeptics say about this, children always owe their mothers, and therefore, one evening by the fireplace, throwing moms fluffy blanket, it wouldn’t hurt to say: “Thank you, dear. I’m sorry for everything... from childhood to the present day.” Even if there is no sin against the mother.

And if suddenly your mother said a word or disobeyed a strict one, then the main element forgiveness For her, the child will realize his guilt, wrongness and not repeat a similar mistake in the future. And sometimes the words: “Sorry, I won’t do it again!”, uttered for the millionth time, are not worth a conscious thought, which, as a rule, will be followed by a long frank conversation, revealing all the accumulated grievances and fears. And then a loving mother will understand how to make sure that her best child does not stumble next time. It is very important that this child does not skimp on sincere words, on tender caresses, which prove the inexhaustible closeness between the closest people.

Under no circumstances should you be dismissed by those on duty forgiveness and accumulate a heavy load of resentment towards the mother. This will not solve the problem. After all, the realization that all this pride, perception of the world through an ego-prism, can come too late and cause even more pain than far-fetched grievances.

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Helpful advice

If a mistake or misconduct in front of your mother is too offensive, you don’t need to be afraid of loud words or falling to your knees, the main thing is that all this is not empty and feigned.

Sources:

• work experience at school
• how to make mom forgive

People often hurt those closest to them the most. Knowing their sore spots, they hit them there. Then repentance quickly comes, but pride or severe embarrassment prevents you from coming up and apologizing. Resentment goes deep inside, where it is overgrown with other experiences. This often leads to depression and nervous breakdowns.

It seems as if one big heart was divided in two, and you and I each got half. That's probably how it was, mommy. So let's forget all the grievances, like a bad dream.

Beautiful apologies to mom from son, daughter

I saw your heart from the inside, mom. Now it is very dear to me. So much so that every time I look at you, I understand that we are one, like two neatly cut halves of a beautiful apple. Don't be angry with me, please.

Mom is the only person whose soul does not know what the worm of resentment is that eats her. She cannot be offended by her child, whom she raised herself. But I still suffer from guilt. Forgive me, mom.

You raised me like an indoor flower: you watered me with love, gave me light - tenderness, fertilized me with affection and kind words. I appreciate what you did for me and I apologize for the stupidity I did.

Mom is a friend, comrade.

Mom is just you.

It is light in the midst of trouble.

For this I will say “thank you”

Then I’ll say “sorry, mom.”

Know that I value you.

I still strive to be your happiness.

Once upon a time we made a deal with you,

That I will shine for you night and day

Because you love me so much. By fire

Now I'm burning just because

That my words were the most terrible.

Forgive them for them, dear mommy!

You and only you are my dear fairy.

You are the only one I have -

You are a reflection of paradise in our world.

You created a miracle from the day -

So strangely I appeared.

Thank you. And I'm sorry, mommy,

What did I answer you with a bullet?

From loud and offensive words.

Are you ready to forgive me?

I will collect all the rays of the sun and bring them to you in a bright bouquet of light. I will ask only a small thing for him - to forgive me. Can you do it, mommy?

Through the clouds of misunderstanding, we carried with us many stupid drops of resentment, which together made up the rain of a quarrel. Forgive me, mom! You was right…

Only a mother's loving heart is capable of chewing through a bitter lump of resentment, which will leave behind a terrible aftertaste of sadness. I'm sorry for treating you to this tasteless delicacy.

I pulled insults out of the misunderstanding hat of the sad rabbit, while painfully grabbing him by the ears of sadness and uttering stupid words. Mom, forgive me for this terrible failed trick!

Probably, quarreling with your mother is like eating a meat pie bought at the station: outwardly the prospect seems tempting, but as soon as you do it, you immediately realize that you were wrong. It would be better not to buy it. It would be better if we didn't fight, mom. Sorry!

You are my slender young apple tree, whose beauty outshines the other trees in the garden of life, and I am your stupid apple, which has realized its guilt. I'm sorry, please.

It's hard for me to say this...

I dared to insult my mother.

The one who was able to give birth to me.

I'm ashamed. And it offends me.

Sorry, dear, on Earth

I have never met better women.

Let yourself forgive me.

Don’t shed your tears, dear.

I don't deserve them.

Through May, wandering towards the good gates,

Halfway there I suddenly became quiet.

I decided to choose those gates

What is closest in spirit to me.

But, mom, I’m sorry, dear.

I feel good in this fire.

Mommy! Forgive me for the arrows of stupidity and youthful madness that were recklessly thrown by me and hit your tender, trembling heart and kind soul.

Sorry mom, it's my fault.

But the words I threw

They have long been forgotten.

Sorry if I'm wrong.

I didn't want to cause pain.

I am stupid, although I have matured.

Mommy! You gave me the opportunity to become a Human, living on a beautiful blue planet, which has become our beloved home. I thank you for this. I beg you, forgive me for everything!

Very beautiful apologies to mom in your own words, in rhymes and prose

Excuse me, mom! I know that by my actions I make the angels of your pure soul suffer, whose meaning of life is caring for me. I'm really sorry.

I am ready to lay at your feet, mommy, the whole world full of miracles, and in return I only ask you to give me long-awaited forgiveness.

Any person owes his mother for giving him this world, giving him life and the opportunity to become great. Like a sculptor, she honed every detail of her child’s character and soul. In turn, he is obliged to cherish his mother. I'm sorry, dear, that I was so rude to you.

Passing through a waterfall of quarrels, we fall under drops of resentment and streams of misunderstanding. Mommy, I am very sorry that you and I had to go through that waterfall. I'm sorry.

I pray for forgiveness, and this plea is echoed in every corner of my guilt-ridden soul. Mommy! Sorry…

Only a mother is able to forgive absolutely everything - a person whose depth of wisdom is like infinity - great and immense. I don't use it, honey. I'm just asking for forgiveness.

I thank you, mom,

For the life given to me.

I know there are enough scars

To your weary soul.

I didn't want to do it again