If a person escapes his death three times. Time for our departure

Vladimir Lvovich Levi - Soviet and Russian writer, psychotherapist and psychologist, author of books on various aspects of popular psychology. Candidate of Medical Sciences.

We have selected 10 quotes from his books and works that are worthy of attention:

Three things can never be excluded from life: risk, sin and the possibility of happiness.

Curiosity is the most reliable cure for envy: having penetrated the veil of the external, you always discover that there is nothing to envy.

A person is a multi-layered film on which a lot of things have been captured in a hidden form, and the developers of this film are other people, roles and situations. As photographers know, finding a good developer is not easy.

Let us finally understand: they love not those who are useful, not those who are good. They love those they love. They love you for anything and for nothing. They love for what they love. No attractiveness has anything to do with love, no success, no strength and beauty, no intelligence. Nothing to do with gratitude; if this is gratitude, then only for life, but not for your own. Love cannot be earned, love is only given and is accepted or not accepted. Love is complete injustice.

Only one person in the world can humiliate you. And this person is you.

The tragedy of a fool is not in stupidity, but in the pretense of intelligence.

Depression is a state in which it is easier to unload a carload of bricks than to pick up a telephone receiver.

The way out of a hopeless situation is at the same place as the entrance.

He who tells the truth is responsible three times: for the truth itself, for himself, for the one to whom he tells it.

Mood is how the soul knows the past, how it feels in the present and how it builds the future.

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When faced with a black streak, we like to blame circumstances for everything or even suspect damage. But sometimes ordinary things are to blame for everything, which attract poverty and stagnation to the home.

Often the flow of life is “littered” thanks to our own efforts. You can avoid this if you do away with things that bring only troubles and troubles. Even when everything is going well in life, from time to time it is worth conducting a kind of audit. You can turn cleaning into a ritual: both psychologists and feng shui experts will unanimously say that by cleaning the living space around you, a person begins to feel better. When we sort out our closets, we organize our thoughts.

10 things that attract negativity to your home

What is the first thing that esotericists and even folk omens advise to get rid of?

1. Broken glass. This could be a cracked window, a broken mirror, or a mug with a broken handle. Do not keep them at home, because broken glass symbolizes a gap in protection.

2. Old things. Worn clothes, newspapers or magazines that you will no longer read - all this belongs in the past and in a landfill. If suddenly a blouse that is so dear to you never fits you, and you don’t dare throw it away, it’s better to give it to charity.

3. “Dead” things. The first among them are dried flowers. Many housewives love such compositions. But everything that has become obsolete is the necrotic energy of withering. The same list can include stuffed animals, dried butterflies or beetles, animal horns and bird feathers. Of course, there are also exceptions to the rules: if the herbarium from your beloved daughter when she was little is carefully kept in your desk, there will be no harm from it. The same applies to feathers or horns that decorate rooms without being taken from a killed animal. Vacation shells should only be kept as souvenirs by those who regularly care for them. But the rest is better to give away or throw away. And dried up houseplants are definitely the first candidates for landfill, until they join the list of energy vampire things.

4. Any item that has not been used for more than three years. Even if it is completely new, the energy of stagnation begins to accumulate in it. Either give it a second life, or think about it. Perhaps it’s time to add somewhere a table that you haven’t sat at for ten years, and those same trousers from the sale, just like new, but obviously the wrong size?

5. Small trash in your pocket or purse. Big things begin with small things. It’s unlikely that all these candy wrappers and tickets are happy ones?

6. Photos you don't like. The negativity that you experience when looking at a photo is absorbed by your own image over and over again. This way you can even accidentally jinx yourself.

7. A clock that is standing. Stopping time is a very bad sign. Either take them for repairs, or throw them away without a second thought. At worst, you can turn a heavy grandfather clock into a piece of furniture, for example, into a table, and a wall clock into a photo frame or hanger.

8. Unpaired things. A ski (one), a ski pole (one) or a slipper (of course, one) tucked behind a shoe rack deserves special attention. Such household items will no longer be useful and only interfere with making new purchases, blocking energy.

9. A frayed broom. It’s worth mentioning separately about the broom. A broom, mop, broom are not just cleaning tools. The broom is associated with many signs about brownies - helpers in your home and also responsible for material well-being. An old, bald broom leads to drying up finances. Therefore, everything you use to put things in order must itself be kept in order.

10. Paintings and photographs depicting storms, storms or bad weather. True, if you think that watercolors with rain are lyrical and very beautiful, you can leave them. Just take a closer look and feel what is depicted: if the picture brings disturbing thoughts, it is better to find another owner for it.

By the way, not only “unlucky” things bring trouble and misfortune. Sometimes even talismans can cause failure if they are used incorrectly. For example, not everyone knows how to hang a horseshoe correctly for good luck. The correct answer is so that it forms a bowl shape. Otherwise, your “cup” is turned upside down, and no happiness will linger in it. And decorative brooms for good luck are usually attached with a broom downwards, so that the house will please the brownie.

To prevent trouble from lingering on your doorstep, protect your home with effective amulets and spells. Do the cleaning in a timely manner, you can light candles in the rooms from time to time: they clean the house well of negativity. And don't forget to press the buttons and

24.10.2016 04:16

Many superstitions warn of failures and misfortunes, but a bad prediction should not become a reason for...

Some things to avoid in a relationship to make it strong and happy

Serious and strong relationships do not arise by themselves . You need to work on them, strive to give them all your free time and patience. Both partners must put their whole soul into making their relationship strong and stable.

What to do to build strong relationships

After hundreds of different master classes, discussing and analyzing the relationships of various couples, studying methods and examples of how people built strong relationships, we finally found several ways to build them.

Whatever exactly you are working on, be it friendship, family relationships, or just communication during the candy-bouquet period, you should pay attention to little things and details. They are the foundation of your relationship. Life together is built on little things.

Articles with methods on how to build strong relationships have already been published a million times, but I think it’s necessary to pay attention things to avoid in relationships.

1. Don't rush things

Due to the desire to quickly feel the emotions of a happy “happy ending”, people often miss all the joys of current events. You live right now - don’t miss the present because of thoughts about the future! You need to enjoy the moments and people who are nearby in your present, because tomorrow all this may no longer be there.

2. Don't expect your relationship to solve all your problems.

Strong relationships bring joy and pleasure, so...happiness is within each of us. No one will make you happier and more cheerful than your own inner strength. No one but you will heal your old emotional wounds, emptiness, and no one will teach you to forgive. Don't hold anyone responsible for your own happiness.

3. Don’t even think that building relationships is easy.

Long-term relationships are great, but building them is difficult and not everyone succeeds the first time.

Partners are increasingly haunted by thoughts that perhaps they made a mistake, perhaps they chose the wrong person. In short, a bunch of thoughts that cause a terrible feeling of doubt.

But on the other hand, it is a feeling of challenge in the face of uncertainty, the opportunity to reach a new level in your relationship. It makes you move forward towards a happy future.

All feelings are contradictory, and you need to put work into developing your relationship.

4. Don't let fear take precedence over love and sincerity.

You will never lose when you love, only the fear of moving forward will keep you an outsider. It is impossible to build a relationship without giving your loved one a chance.

Love lies in the fact that you allow a person to hurt you, because you open your soul to him, and he is already doing everything not to harm you, but, on the contrary, to protect you.

Without trust, love dies.You cannot live with the thought that you will be deceived; you need to learn to trust people. If you want to trust someone, you need people to be able to trust you.

5. Under no circumstances reveal each other’s secrets.

Trust is the foundation of any relationship. And if suddenly it is violated, then it takes a lot of time and effort to restore trust.

Lately, at master classes and trainings they say more and more often, “I didn’t deceive her, I just didn’t tell the whole truth.” This statement is contradictory, because understatement is already a lie and pain.

It's just a matter of time before the truth comes out. And they will definitely find out about her, and then there will be no turning back, trust in the relationship will no longer be restored. This will be the beginning of the end.

6. Don't hide your feelings

You can't pretend when it comes to feelings. There is no place for pretense in love. You need to be real and sincere in all matters. To be real means to be able to love.

7. The main thing is to be yourself

There is nothing better for relationships and happiness than being yourself despite all the ups and downs of life. Strive to be better.

8. There is no need to assert yourself at the expense of other people and their feelings.

Never expect permission from other people to be yourself. Not everything depends on others.

No one can allow or forbid you to be happy and live for your own pleasure. This is your personal decision, your creativity, your conclusions. All this makes you exactly who you are.

9. You can't be angry at each other

Now is the time! It's high time to let the hurt and misunderstandings go away. Let's forget about everything that hurts. Let's tell you what we don't like.

Find a common language with those you care about and do your best to do this every day. Even if something cannot be forgiven, pull yourself together and forget. Life is too short to remember grievances.

10. The past cannot be changed. We need to remember this

Happiness in a relationship lies in come to terms with the fact that the past has already passed and nothing can be changed about it. Sometimes you allow yourself to accept past events, and sometimes they kill you from the inside. But you always need to forgive your loved ones. And look into the future with peace in your heart.

11. Don’t think that your loved one will always be strong and powerful.

Sometimes loved ones upset us because they cannot support you as we need. But people are not telepaths, and cannot read other people's thoughts. “I can’t stand it” does not mean “I don’t love you.” It simply means that “I, like you, am still struggling.”

12. You can’t focus on people’s shortcomings.

Have you done everything possible to convey your sincere love to other people? The more goodness and light you see in them, the more goodness and light there is in your heart. After all, you can only see in others what is inside you.

13. You don’t need to do something out of a sense of obligation, you need to do everything according to the dictates of your heart.

Do selfless acts not only for the people you love, but also for strangers. Start doing this today.

Do them because you can do them and it will make the world a brighter and happier place. Always give more than you receive. Shift your priorities away from “How do I take something?” to “How should I give something?”, and you will be delighted with the result, because you will receive more than you gave.

Honestly, the happiest people in strong relationships look for ways to help each other. Unhappy people ask themselves the question: “What benefit does this have to me?”

14. Relationships need work.

The craziest and most wonderful things happen when you pay attention to someone. You need to breathe life into the relationship, pay attention and care.

Now let's think about those you want to take care of. With our crazy schedules, we forget to rest and relax with our loved ones. Often separation is measured not in kilometers, but in affection and the ability to wait.

Some may be very close physically, but spiritually they will be hundreds of kilometers apart. So don't ignore your loved ones. The most offensive feeling is to feel that you are not needed, that you are ignored and not noticed.

15. You can't make fun of each other

Be there for you in good times and bad, no matter what happens - joy or sorrow.

Be prepared to be a lifeline, a reliable friend, a quiet listener and a good advisor in any circumstance.

In a stable relationship, everyone should be confident in their partner, in his support and care. We must boldly count on each other, but not when it is convenient for one of them, but when it is really needed.

16. You can’t assume that a person is a constant in your life out of necessity, you just need to love him

Now I'll try to explain. The art of caring for others is at the core of feelings of love and respect. Caring means listening, giving a sense of ownership, and letting people know they are heard and valued.

17. You can’t interrupt when your loved one needs to talk.

It takes courage and guts to stand up and speak your mind, but The ability to open your soul and listen requires more courage and strength. You need to be careful and, above all, you should always be a good listener.

This skill will never be superfluous for you. Since people most often need those who know how to listen, and not those who constantly express their point of view.

The most valuable thing is to get to the bottom of what is being stated. The main thing is to understand what the interlocutor is saying between the lines. You are as beautiful as you feel love, and as smart as you can listen.

18. Don't take things personally

If you take everything to heart and always assume that people want to hurt you, then you will simply sulk at everyone for the rest of your life.

People act one way or another because of their internal beliefs, and not personally because you think something about them.

Never let the behavior of the people around you affect your inner balance with yourself.

19. Don't deny your self-awareness.

When two people meet each other, the one whose inner world is stronger wins. He is stronger in spirit, more confident in himself and finds a common language with others more easily. You can't kill yourself in a relationship.

20. Don't say "yes" when you want to say "no"

You can’t always agree with everyone, people won’t appreciate it, and you’ll lose yourself. You need to be able to set boundaries and priorities.

21. Don't hold back yourself and your personal growth.

You need to learn to give people a second chance, but you need to understand that the person you are with now should always develop, and not be a supporter of a static life.

Try to spend less time with those who are afraid to take risks and are always in their “personal comfort” zone.

And if your loved one does not contribute to your development, then it’s time to let him go. Your relationship should strengthen you in this long life of self-development, not cause you pain.

22. You cannot interfere with the development and growth of your loved one.

Stable relationships promote personal growth, both for the relationship as a whole and for each partner individually. If one of the partners is not happy with the success of the other, then this is most likely an indicator of internal fear.

Even if someone begins to feel that their paths are diverging, then they need to part ways with dignity, without harming anyone. Mutual growth is, first of all, setting personal goals for each partner.

23. You can’t immediately look for a replacement after a breakup.

Feeling the pain of losing a loved one or friend should not make you feel despair.

You can’t immediately look for a replacement so as not to feel lonely. Such sudden decisions will prevent you from examining your thoughts and clearing your mind to make the right decision.

24. Don’t look at an ending relationship as a failure.

Even if not all relationships lead to a “happy ending,” this does not mean that they were your biggest failure and disappointment. Every person in your life brings you new experiences and teaches you something previously unknown. And this will make your future relationships stronger and more stable.

25. Don't let what's left behind stop you from living.

As long as you hold on to the problems and mistakes of past relationships, you will not be able to create new ones. You can't be afraid of your own fears. We need to fight them.

YOU are the master of your life, you have the power to create new, strong relationships. You already have experience, and you have learned from your mistakes. It's time to get smarter.published . If you have any questions about this topic, ask them to the experts and readers of our project .

P.S. And remember, just by changing your consciousness, we are changing the world together! © econet

• Noble people live in harmony with other people, but do not follow other people; lowly people follow other people, but do not live in harmony with them.
• A noble man blames himself, a small man blames others.
• A noble husband knows his superiority, but avoids competition. He gets along with everyone, but does not collude with anyone.
• A noble husband endures adversity with fortitude. And a low man in trouble blossoms.
• A noble person does not strive to eat his fill and live richly. He is hasty in business, but slow in speech. Communicating with virtuous people, he corrects himself. About such a person we can say that he is devoted to teaching.
• Fear the wrath of a patient man.
• When you throw a stone into the water, you end up in the center of the circle every time.
• Be hard on yourself and gentle on others. This way you will protect yourself from human hostility.
• The greatest glory is not in never failing, but in being able to get back up every time you fall.
• The attraction of souls turns into friendship, the attraction of the mind turns into respect, the attraction of bodies turns into passion. And only together can everything turn into love.
• Choose a profession you love and you will never have to work a day in your life.
• In ancient times, people studied in order to improve themselves. Nowadays people study in order to surprise others.
• In a country where there is order, be bold in both actions and speeches. In a country where there is no order, be bold in your actions, but careful in your speech.
• Give instructions only to those who seek knowledge after discovering their ignorance. Provide help only to those who do not know how to clearly express their cherished thoughts. Teach only those who are able, having learned about one corner of a square, to imagine the other three.
• Even in the company of two people, I will certainly find something to learn from them. I will try to imitate their virtues, and I myself will learn from their shortcomings.
• Good must be answered with good, and evil must be answered with justice.
• A gemstone cannot be polished without friction. Likewise, a person cannot become successful without enough hard attempts.
• If you want to succeed, avoid the six vices: sleepiness, laziness, fear, anger, idleness and indecisiveness.
• If they spit in your back, it means you are going ahead.
• If you hate, it means you have been defeated.
• If you don't have bad thoughts, you won't have bad actions.
• When the state is governed according to reason, poverty and want are shameful; when the state is not governed in accordance with reason, then wealth and honor are shameful.
• Young people should not be looked down upon. It is very possible that, having matured, they will become outstanding men. Only those who have achieved nothing, having lived to be forty or fifty years old, do not deserve respect.
• People want wealth and fame for themselves; if both cannot be obtained honestly, they should be avoided. People are afraid of poverty and obscurity; if both cannot be avoided without losing honor, they should be accepted.
• You can't regret anything in this life. It happened - draw a conclusion and move on with your life.
• Intemperance in small things will ruin a great cause.
• Don't worry about people not knowing you, worry about not knowing people.
• Don't do to others what you wouldn't want for yourself...
• Not talking to a person who is worthy of talking means losing a person. And talking to a person who is not worthy of conversation means losing words. The wise man loses neither people nor words.
• Don't be afraid of change. Most often they happen exactly at the moment when they are needed.
• Don't shake a green apple tree - when the apple is ripe, it will fall off on its own.
• One word can change your decision. One feeling can change your life. One person can change you.
• Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you. Not because they are worthy people, but because you are a worthy person.
• Helpful friends are a straightforward friend, a sincere friend and a friend who has heard a lot. Harmful friends are a hypocritical friend, an insincere friend and a talkative friend.
• Sometimes we see a lot, but we don’t notice the main thing.
• Visiting and listening to evil people is already the beginning of an evil deed.
• Sending people to war untrained means betraying them.
• Reverence without knowledge of what is due turns into self-torture. Caution without proper knowledge turns into cowardice. Bravery without proper knowledge turns into recklessness. Straightforwardness without knowledge of what is due turns into rudeness.
• A respectful son is one who upsets his father and mother only with his illness.
• Tell me - and I will forget, show me - and maybe I will remember, involve me - and then I will comprehend.
• The word must be true, the action must be decisive.
• Those who do not think about distant difficulties will certainly face near-term troubles.
• What you can perceive calmly no longer controls you.
• Demand a lot from yourself and expect little from others, and you won't have to get angry too often.
• Three paths lead to knowledge: the path of reflection is the noblest path, the path of imitation is the easiest, and the path of experience is the most bitter.
• Rule the people with dignity and the people will be respectful. Treat people kindly and people will work hard. Exalt the virtuous and instruct the unlearned, and people will trust you.
• Study as if you constantly feel the lack of your knowledge, and as if you are constantly afraid of losing your knowledge.
• You have sails, but you are clinging to the anchor.